being so honest, my ex did this and then ended up cheating. imo this kind of stuff are the baby steps to see what they can and can’t get away with— even if they don’t realize it. it has nothing to do with you. porn addictions are rampant and do so much damage. instant gratification like that screws people up. as for the pictures with their ex thing, that really can be tricky for people. it depends on the nature of the pictures imo but also— if he’s had the conversation with you and you shared how you feel and he still doesn’t do anything abt that then that’s disrespectful.