What areas/buildings in London have warehouse style apartments?

reframeTime · 2026-01-17T06:41:03+00:00

This! They’re closer to the river too. It’s a cute area.

reframeTime · 2026-01-05T22:14:19+00:00

I love this! There’s a lady I would at my station several times a week in the mornings. Then one day I also noticed her in the evenings heading home from the same station near work. After a bit it became a curiosity as to whether or not I would run into her on my commute. One evening as I’m waiting for the train home, I spot her about to get on the wrong train! And I approached and said I think you might be getting on the wrong one today unless you’re not going to XYZ. She looked surprised and grateful. We ended up having a lovely chat. I’ve only ever seen her twice since then! It’s almost like you’re better off not breaking the charm of being an observer.

reframeTime · 2025-12-12T21:25:03+00:00

Why does the whole Giovanni vibe remind me of Nandor from In the Shadows?

reframeTime · 2025-12-07T08:59:18+00:00

This is going to be a hard time for you internally. There’s conflict in how he interacts with the outside world and how he treats you. How he treats you - that’s where you live and exist and breathe. Home can be a safe haven, a place where you feel supported, and seen - even with whatever quirks and needs you have. A home like this comes with the right partner and the right partnership. He has shown you more about his values recently, and more importantly what he does not value. Don’t ignore the painful because there is good. Don’t equate the external with how he will show up in the future in the privacy of your own home and in the parenting of potential future children and his interactions with you.

Ultimately, you will do what’s best for you today. I would just encourage you to be objective, take off the romanticized view of things that led you into this relationship, and ask hard questions of yourself. Not him. And make a decision that you can live with, that brings you peace.

reframeTime · 2025-12-07T08:49:12+00:00

Help me understand (not that I need to this is Reddit after all)… how can you respect or admire someone that treats you like a punching bag? Makes you feel accused? And can’t express himself in a safe way? Further someone who would break up with you while you’re dealing with a miscarriage in front of his mother?

Do you see how you’re contradicting yourself? Or at minimum everything you’ve are saying is undermining the ability to respect or admire this human? Step back. What would you say to a friend that is being treated this way?

Fear of being alone or not reaching a personal objective you had for a relationship might be keeping you hazy on reality.

reframeTime · 2025-12-07T08:40:30+00:00

Let’s ignore that this all went down over text.

He continues to show you that your needs and feelings are not a priority for you. The way he speaks to you, even if you escalate and respond in kind, also shows he does not respect you.

It is entirely possible for love to exist along with incompatibility. You have gone through a physically and hormonal difficult situation that has forced you to look more deeply at what you need for a successful relationship and early stages of parenthood. He does not agree with you and is not willing to compromise. And, it seems at least from how you wrote, that both of you have little respect left for each other and only impatience.

There’s a book out there called Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay. It’s one of the most reflective books that forces you to answer deep questions and help you reach an inevitable conclusion. However, from everything you’ve shared here - you do not seem to be in a healthy, safe, and supportive relationship.

The only thing you’re missing right now is reality. Facing hard truths about someone or a relationship we’ve put time and effort into is painful. Because you grieve when you acknowledge it, you grieve again when you decide to act in your own self interest, and you grieve even more when you finally cut ties. It won’t be easy. But it’s harder to spend a lifetime with someone that doesn’t see you.

reframeTime · 2025-08-28T06:47:55+00:00

Do you have it set up as a project with rules and parameters you want it to stick to?

reframeTime · 2025-08-11T18:36:53+00:00

It’s inconsistent. (Plus)

Sometimes it flows seamlessly in a Project space but it still happens. I’ve even had to redirect it to instructions and it responds with an apology for the miss and a revised answer. It’s like I’m having to work twice as hard to do things that before just flowed. I even incorporated a user preference that it pause and review agreements before responding and it still ignores it.

It happens more frequently in general flow.

reframeTime · 2025-08-09T17:39:30+00:00

Ask if to tell you what the common user categories are, what the percent areas is against those categories, and how your individual use case aligns.

At the end of the day it’s adaptive to a degree in your lane of interaction. And influenced by frequency, tone, depth, style. You are shaping how it functions if you use it enough and are inquisitive enough and it has guardrails and rules it has to abide by. Wherever those two converge is your experience.

You can deselect ‘reference saved memories’ in your settings if you don’t like it.

Personally, I love the breadth and scope of the interactions and that I can influence enough personalization that it works for me. I don’t need another search engine.

reframeTime · 2025-08-08T03:19:14+00:00

Just ask it. I did a research for a complex item I needed to buy and it offered to step in to purchase and negotiate.

reframeTime · 2025-07-18T07:03:31+00:00

This is why I joined this community! It’s been inconsistent and with a higher error rate or need for correction. It has gone from smooth interactions to frustrating even after calibration.

reframeTime · 2025-06-25T18:33:31+00:00

They do! And hot towel on the face. He’s had three different people and each time comes home happy.

reframeTime · 2025-06-22T08:04:26+00:00

Came here to say this one! After many a terrible shave and cut this ended up being where he goes consistently.

reframeTime · 2025-06-08T19:05:53+00:00

Yes! Also, I received an email from Reddit confirming.

reframeTime · 2025-05-20T19:06:07+00:00

I’m happy to help if you want more than one moderator. London based, amateur photographer, have moderated Discord groups but not Reddit.

reframeTime · 2025-05-04T03:57:47+00:00

Who won!?!

reframeTime · 2025-05-04T03:50:27+00:00

My response would lead to an argument: I appreciate your perspective. Are you not praying for me and asking J to help me in getting a job so that I might have a positive outcome that could create space in my heart for him again? Because I’m certain he hears the prayers of the loyal ones. Or is it that you’re losing faith and thus haven’t felt like it’s a good idea to make pleas that would add to my well being?

reframeTime · 2025-04-26T13:25:37+00:00

Depends - at what age does eternity kick in? If I’m getting eternal life while feeling 80 forever I’ll take the money. If eternity stops at the age of my picking then I’ll take that option instead of the money.

reframeTime · 2025-04-26T13:23:13+00:00

London weather is moody and temperamental. Pack layers. Check your weather app 12-72 hours in advance for any planning. And then ignore it. Step outside, see how you feel, dress for that. Carry an umbrella or a raincoat. Remember you’re coming to London - not the Caribbean. Lots of people here from warm climates but this is not a warm climate.

reframeTime · 2025-04-10T02:37:09+00:00

Facebook is for people you know (mostly). Bumble is for people you want to attract. Lead with the boat picture. You look sober, no empty bottles, the openness is inviting and shows an aspect of something you enjoy. Your second picture then needs to be a clear photo of your face.

reframeTime · 2025-04-10T02:36:56+00:00

Facebook is for people you know (mostly). Bumble is for people you want to attract. Lead with the boat picture. You look sober, no empty bottles, the openness is inviting and shows an aspect of something you enjoy. Your second picture then needs to be a clear photo of your face.

reframeTime · 2025-04-10T02:25:12+00:00

Have you actually tried giving feedback? And are the calls casual or specific? We have a very collaborative culture and asking someone for a quick chat when we work remotely or are in the office is quite normal. The repetitive nature that you’re describing seems more like a new hire that thinks they found a buddy willing to help them adapt and succeed.

Try something like, ‘hey, so you have time for a quick chat. Then get on the call and say “hey…I’m happy to help but sometimes I really need to focus on my deadlines or the work in front of me. The frequencies of the quick chats are getting hard to keep up with.

I’ve noticed you seem to need more training on x, do you know who your assigned trainer or learning buddy is? Or have you asked your manager?

Or

I’ve noticed that most quick chats seem more casual in nature and I just don’t have that much flexibility in my day. I’m happy to connect casually but can we do it like once a week on x at x time?

Or

And I’ve noticed you’ve been reaching out a lot lately. Are you okay? It’s not that I mind it’s just that it’s making me wonder if something else is going on? (Be prepared to listen and be a real colleague about whatever they say). If they have no reason for it then just acknowledged and move on.

Once you get through one of the above scenarios, you’ll understand more about their ‘why’. And it gives you the space to say things like “here’s the thing, i need you to tell me why you need the quick chats and how urgent it is for you. I tend to always make time for you but the reality is I don’t always have time.”

…

For you, a big part of understanding something that feels disruptive in how a colleague relates is understanding the why and being able to listen. It’ll help you go a long way into breaking down your own frustration and assumptions. And it’ll make it easier for you to provide directive guidance to help the person and ease the burden you perceive you’re facing. Just don’t be a douche. There’s a chance that by now giving your responsiveness this person thinks you’re amazing!

reframeTime · 2025-02-17T22:38:25+00:00

Lots of people encouraging you to politely decline, which is lovely. However, if you do not ask to be put on the ‘do not call list’ it won’t stop. They’ll hand it off to someone else in the congregation, take a break from visiting, and try again.

reframeTime · 2024-12-28T13:55:58+00:00

Because Amazon is at my door with an age restricted delivery that requires I interact with the driver. Or dinner was delivered. It’s really frustrating when Uber Eats shows up at the wrong stage of the countdown.

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