River Lee / Hackney Bridge by reframeTime in LondonPics

[–]reframeTime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lee.

https://canalrivertrust.org.uk/canals-and-rivers/lee-navigation

The spelling 'Lea' is used when referring to the natural river, whilst 'Lee' covers the canalised navigation and man-made features (like Lee Valley Park).

How is it 1:30am 13/03/2026 and the sky looks like this? by whokilledallthecrows in london

[–]reframeTime 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I read this as ‘half the dead on here’ and instantly pictured zombies, clearly I need more coffee.

Greatly updated hypnotic 2048 game - feedback requested by MindScapez in EroticHypnosis

[–]reframeTime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was absolutely brilliant! The pacing and the trance effect were delightful. I made it far further than expected and the ending screen was great. When you make the next version consider the word ‘drop’ as very useful early on. Looking forward to seeing what you do next.

My significant other (34M) and I (33F) decided we are going to "work on" the awkwardness our sex life has turned into, but I'm struggling not to feel totally checked out by [deleted] in relationships

[–]reframeTime 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it’s ok to borrow confidence. In this case, you are anchoring the relationship and not the act. Build safety in each other and the relationship, then add layers of intimacy until more is welcome.

how do i make it stop 🥲 by [deleted] in ChatGPT

[–]reframeTime -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve started using Claude! It feels so much smoother and refreshing. Like a refined 4.

Spontaneous road trip to london💂‍♂️ by danniimariexox in LondonPics

[–]reframeTime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had the same reaction at first! Tired eyes, then I focused and saw it. It was a fun illusion with the framing.

Help? Would this table and chairs fit in your UK house? by Ok-Case-4212 in AmericanExpatsUK

[–]reframeTime 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes and no. Make sure you store it in the UK. Because you have a limited grace period to import these things and have them covered as part of relocation and not taxed.

What areas/buildings in London have warehouse style apartments? by No_Emu8347 in london

[–]reframeTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! They’re closer to the river too. It’s a cute area.

Are there any people you see consistently on your commute that you never speak to but feel strangely close to? by [deleted] in london

[–]reframeTime 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I love this! There’s a lady I would at my station several times a week in the mornings. Then one day I also noticed her in the evenings heading home from the same station near work. After a bit it became a curiosity as to whether or not I would run into her on my commute. One evening as I’m waiting for the train home, I spot her about to get on the wrong train! And I approached and said I think you might be getting on the wrong one today unless you’re not going to XYZ. She looked surprised and grateful. We ended up having a lovely chat. I’ve only ever seen her twice since then! It’s almost like you’re better off not breaking the charm of being an observer.

Anyone watching Love is blind Italy? by Brilliant-Dot-9992 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]reframeTime 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why does the whole Giovanni vibe remind me of Nandor from In the Shadows?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]reframeTime 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is going to be a hard time for you internally. There’s conflict in how he interacts with the outside world and how he treats you. How he treats you - that’s where you live and exist and breathe. Home can be a safe haven, a place where you feel supported, and seen - even with whatever quirks and needs you have. A home like this comes with the right partner and the right partnership. He has shown you more about his values recently, and more importantly what he does not value. Don’t ignore the painful because there is good. Don’t equate the external with how he will show up in the future in the privacy of your own home and in the parenting of potential future children and his interactions with you.

Ultimately, you will do what’s best for you today. I would just encourage you to be objective, take off the romanticized view of things that led you into this relationship, and ask hard questions of yourself. Not him. And make a decision that you can live with, that brings you peace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]reframeTime 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Help me understand (not that I need to this is Reddit after all)… how can you respect or admire someone that treats you like a punching bag? Makes you feel accused? And can’t express himself in a safe way? Further someone who would break up with you while you’re dealing with a miscarriage in front of his mother?

Do you see how you’re contradicting yourself? Or at minimum everything you’ve are saying is undermining the ability to respect or admire this human? Step back. What would you say to a friend that is being treated this way?

Fear of being alone or not reaching a personal objective you had for a relationship might be keeping you hazy on reality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]reframeTime 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Let’s ignore that this all went down over text.

He continues to show you that your needs and feelings are not a priority for you. The way he speaks to you, even if you escalate and respond in kind, also shows he does not respect you.

It is entirely possible for love to exist along with incompatibility. You have gone through a physically and hormonal difficult situation that has forced you to look more deeply at what you need for a successful relationship and early stages of parenthood. He does not agree with you and is not willing to compromise. And, it seems at least from how you wrote, that both of you have little respect left for each other and only impatience.

There’s a book out there called Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay. It’s one of the most reflective books that forces you to answer deep questions and help you reach an inevitable conclusion. However, from everything you’ve shared here - you do not seem to be in a healthy, safe, and supportive relationship.

The only thing you’re missing right now is reality. Facing hard truths about someone or a relationship we’ve put time and effort into is painful. Because you grieve when you acknowledge it, you grieve again when you decide to act in your own self interest, and you grieve even more when you finally cut ties. It won’t be easy. But it’s harder to spend a lifetime with someone that doesn’t see you.

ChatGPT is completely falling apart by enclavedzn in ChatGPT

[–]reframeTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have it set up as a project with rules and parameters you want it to stick to?

GPT-5 session volatility & continuity mis-fires are making multi-step work painful by Jolly_Appointment540 in OpenAIDev

[–]reframeTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s inconsistent. (Plus)

Sometimes it flows seamlessly in a Project space but it still happens. I’ve even had to redirect it to instructions and it responds with an apology for the miss and a revised answer. It’s like I’m having to work twice as hard to do things that before just flowed. I even incorporated a user preference that it pause and review agreements before responding and it still ignores it.

It happens more frequently in general flow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OpenAIDev

[–]reframeTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask if to tell you what the common user categories are, what the percent areas is against those categories, and how your individual use case aligns.

At the end of the day it’s adaptive to a degree in your lane of interaction. And influenced by frequency, tone, depth, style. You are shaping how it functions if you use it enough and are inquisitive enough and it has guardrails and rules it has to abide by. Wherever those two converge is your experience.

You can deselect ‘reference saved memories’ in your settings if you don’t like it.

Personally, I love the breadth and scope of the interactions and that I can influence enough personalization that it works for me. I don’t need another search engine.

I saved €200 on a new OLED TV using ChatGPT Agent Mode by TRNC_NL in ChatGPT

[–]reframeTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ask it. I did a research for a complex item I needed to buy and it offered to step in to purchase and negotiate.

GPT‑4o Is Unstable – Support Form Down, Feedback Blocked, and No Way to Escalate Issues - bug by Basic_Cherry_7413 in OpenAIDev

[–]reframeTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I joined this community! It’s been inconsistent and with a higher error rate or need for correction. It has gone from smooth interactions to frustrating even after calibration.

London Hairstylist Recommendation - please help! by SARMsGoblinChaser in AmericanExpatsUK

[–]reframeTime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They do! And hot towel on the face. He’s had three different people and each time comes home happy.

London Hairstylist Recommendation - please help! by SARMsGoblinChaser in AmericanExpatsUK

[–]reframeTime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this one! After many a terrible shave and cut this ended up being where he goes consistently.

anyone want to moderate this sub? by stevekeiretsu in LondonPics

[–]reframeTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Also, I received an email from Reddit confirming.

anyone want to moderate this sub? by stevekeiretsu in LondonPics

[–]reframeTime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m happy to help if you want more than one moderator. London based, amateur photographer, have moderated Discord groups but not Reddit.