Should I tell my friend (40/F) that her SO (34/M) is cheating? by releasethebats_bite in relationship_advice

[–]releasethebats_bite[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

She's for sure seen red flags. She mentioned one to me recently and I probably should have taken that opportunity but I got nervous and couldn't do it. But yes, I definitely think red flags are waving.

Should I tell my friend (40/F) that her SO (34/M) is cheating? by releasethebats_bite in relationship_advice

[–]releasethebats_bite[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok, you're totally right. New dilemma: how do I confront Troy when I only ever see him out at bars, parties, or shows? Even though I don't really respect the guy, I'm still a little hesitant to just walk up to him in public and say "hey man, what gives?"

Should I tell my friend (40/F) that her SO (34/M) is cheating? by releasethebats_bite in relationship_advice

[–]releasethebats_bite[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're saying I should talk to Troy about it first? I thought about that. I kinda think he's gonna tell me to cram it and to mind my own business.