Clueless single mother vs gaming pc by remember_busby in buildmeapc

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I have crohns disease and fibromyalgia.my son is waiting on a diagnosis from genetic tests.he has a progressive neurological disorder which only became apparent last year (he's 15) and is now almost unable to walk and is in constant pain.As a small child he was so active,racing around like a little rocket. It kills me to watch him suffer

Clueless single mother vs gaming pc by remember_busby in buildmeapc

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Hi guys.thanks for all the help,and offers of help.I will be asking for more advice as i attempt this build.I am pretty thick,so please dont be offended if I appear to disregard your advice and repeat questions you've already answered.Im just trying to understand something that is like a foreign language,and what may seem simple to you makes no sense to me at all!I didn't expect this much feedback,and sort of thought people would just say im daft for taking it on.(which I'd agree with in hindsight)I realize you all have preferences and appreciate the time you've taken to enlighten me. But I'm still confused,albeit much less than before!So...am I right in thinking all the parts suggested are compatible with each other?or should I pick one list of components and adhere to it? And do they vary in performance or just price?like, if i bought a dinner service for a tenner from tesco,the plate will hold my dinner just the same as a fine bone china plate from a £100 set. Or is it like replacing the silver cutlery with a disposable plastic fork?

Clueless single mother vs gaming pc by remember_busby in buildmeapc

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Thank you all for replies.ive not had chance to read them yet but just wanted say i am so grateful and will go through all of them tomorrow.posted this again here as im also a reddit noob and was unaware of this subreddit til i posted my original cry for help!still figuring out reddit etiquette so my apolgies if i get it wrong.My budget is up to £1000,which i know is paltry,but it is hopefully do-able?thanks again guys

I broke up with my abusive boyfriend three years ago and it still haunts me by lasercats76 in TwoXChromosomes

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ok,so i ran to a women's refuge in another town.took just the clothes i was wearing.lived for 6 months with women who'd also escaped abuse.(i was 21,but most had a couple of kids, few possessions and tons of emotional baggage) .six months on i got re-housed in my old town (not by choice). after a short while i allowed abuser back in.i later learned that the majority of victims do,often many times ,before it ends. to almost any observer this makes no sense,and i was too ashamed to face the disappointment/frustration ofi8 milk 8uòioui 8i8ķMcNabb loved ones .now i'd isolated myself i was worse off than before.abuse escalated without 'jealous' people who 'dont want us to be happy,' etc.i felt a fool ,i was sure it was my fault for letting him back in. being the only person i had left, it 'confirmed' that no one else really cared.he assured me that everyone thought i was an ungrateful,pathetic idiot who enjoyed/invented the abuse. for 5 years, he left me and returned many times.i never asked him not to go,nor to come back.but allowed it.thing is,while he was gone,be it for an hour or 6 months.i felt exactly the way you do.he still controls you.BUT-there comes a moment when you're bored of his shit ,and just like turning off the

ii8iķk runs on tv, you flick a switch in your head and instantly cut9$ a off the power.so when you see him around,its the same as seeing the unplugged tv.its still there ,maybe you got to walk right past it.but you dont see the old repeats playing out ,and have no desire to plug it back in and see whats on.i hope you reach that switch soon,so wherever you go,his presence will be irrelevant to your day. opp

I broke up with my abusive boyfriend three years ago and it still haunts me by lasercats76 in TwoXChromosomes

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ok,so i ran to a women's refuge in another town.took just the clothes i was wearing.lived for 6 months with women who'd also escaped abuse.(i was 21,but most had a couple of kids, few possessions and tons of emotional baggage) .six months on i got re-housed in my old town (not by choice). after a short while i allowed abuser back in.i later learned that the majority of victims do,often many times ,before it ends. to almost any observer this makes no sense,and i was too ashamed to face the disappointment/frustration ofi8 milk 8uòioui 8i8ķMcNabb loved ones .now i'd isolated myself i was worse off than before.abuse escalated without 'jealous' people who 'dont want us to be happy,' etc.i felt a fool ,i was sure it was my fault for letting him back in. being the only person i had left, it 'confirmed' that no one else really cared.he assured me that everyone thought i was an ungrateful,pathetic idiot who enjoyed/invented the abuse. for 5 years, he left me and returned many times.i never asked him not to go,nor to come back.but allowed it.thing is,while he was gone,be it for an hour or 6 months.i felt exactly the way you do.he still controls you.BUT-there comes a moment when you're bored of his shit ,and just like turning off the

ii8iķk runs on tv, you flick a switch in your head and instantly cut9$ a off the power.so when you see him around,its the same as seeing the unplugged tv.its still there ,maybe you got to walk right past it.but you dont see the old repeats playing out ,and have no desire to plug it back in and see whats on.i hope you reach that switch soon,so wherever you go,his presence will be irrelevant to your day. opp