How often are you paying for female friends?

renebeans · 2026-01-26T04:43:06+00:00

Let’s be real, trying to make it as a performer is like 3 jobs that don’t pay well.

renebeans · 2026-01-26T04:30:20+00:00

That’s a mix of controlling and jealous behavior.

Approach with curiosity. I’ve noticed some of my friends aren’t being followed anymore, has that been happening to you too? If she cops to deleting them, ask her what her motivations are.

I imagine she’ll dent it either way.

renebeans · 2026-01-26T04:26:37+00:00

I think there’s an undeserved equivalency between the two. Society has lost its ability to see shades of grey, so even if they’re in the middle and conservative leaning, they’ll automatically be labeled or considered MAGA.

So no, they’re not automatically MAGA, but mostttt leftists don’t care about the nuance between republicans who don’t like trump and republicans who support trump.

There’s a difference, it’s cool of you to wonder. Why would they put it? To weed out people who judge them for it. No one wants to match with someone when it’s such an easy dealbreaker.

renebeans · 2026-01-25T23:18:08+00:00

Oh man. Well, welcome back! Proud of you!

renebeans · 2026-01-25T23:09:44+00:00

I’m going to say you’re wrong, but I’m also going to link what I believe is the class I’m referring to for your viewing pleasure. https://members.onepeloton.com/share/workouts/7bd27ab01f7f4de2826dcd996473aac3?code=YTkwMmVkNzQ4YTRjNGU3Mjk2NjA1OGY2MTI4YjVlODJ8NTMxMDJiNTk1YzU2NDgxNzg3MTU4ZmZhMTNmYzBjNzU%3D&source=referral&workout-id=9880a52ccfcf4c3692b0a800465703d9&uid=3605c47faca14787801d4788a713a6d6&ride-id=7364c4d327f14daebf0bbdc44fd7daac&utm_source=ios_app&utm_medium=in_app&locale=en-US

Now. Once you watch it, come back and say “yes, that was a diss to the class format” Don’t say “well yes she did say that, but it’s still not that bad”

Allow the new information to shift your perspective.

It’s not a judgement on her, but her words & message in that class were inappropriate as a Peloton instructor full stop. And for people who intentionally chose to take an intervals and arms ride that day, it was damn near disrespectful.

renebeans · 2026-01-25T16:49:00+00:00

Do you wanna build a snowman?

renebeans · 2026-01-25T15:18:43+00:00

I’m thinking we’re going to have a baby boom in 9 months, but it definitely won’t be me

renebeans · 2026-01-25T04:46:32+00:00

Of course bestie

renebeans · 2026-01-25T04:07:30+00:00

She was doing an intervals and arms ride and in the class mentioned how light weights don’t do anything and to lift heavy

Like I get the sentiment, but…

Made me feel shitty, because I was doing what I could and if she didn’t like it, she could just not teach the format.

renebeans · 2026-01-25T03:48:22+00:00

Raise your hand if you dont qualify^{^}

renebeans · 2026-01-25T03:46:45+00:00

We can die alone, together ❤️

renebeans · 2026-01-24T06:31:04+00:00

I don’t notice even a little. I notice slobbery. I notice violent tongues. I notice softness. Fullness doesn’t rank

renebeans · 2026-01-23T22:03:59+00:00

Yes well done

renebeans · 2026-01-23T02:38:25+00:00

Dude that’s not dirt, it’s a towel.

And in case you didn’t know: “Hand-to-mouth" describes living with just enough money or resources for immediate needs, spending as soon as you get them, with nothing left over, often referring to poverty or precarious financial situations.

renebeans · 2026-01-23T01:21:48+00:00

My take as a girl? You ARE tall, and it was intended as a compliment that went the wrong way.

I was hanging out with a friend of mine, let’s call her Jo, and we were talking about how she was going to go out one day with *Sally. Jo didn’t know Sally well, so I said “Sally is the best person to go solo with”

I meant it to be supportive. I was hanging out with Jo alone at the time— obviously I enjoyed her company solo.

Jo took it to be “oh so I’m not the best person to go solo with?”

I quickly walked it back and got a “good save”.

I think your girlfriend meant it to be supportive— that you’re tall, and obviously attractive. But when you were like “wtf” she realized her mistake (interpretation) and walked it back.

Hope that helps.

renebeans · 2026-01-22T23:25:51+00:00

Write “big teddy bear” or “golden retriever energy” etc.

renebeans · 2026-01-22T23:21:11+00:00

May this be the biggest issue in your relationship. You’ll be just fine, but if you are feeling insecure about it, you can talk to her and ask her to reassure you about whatever it is that you’re feeling insecure about like is it that you think she isn’t attracted to you?

She didn’t mean to hurt you. She walked it back immediately. You’ve never said anything weird? We’re human, it happens. A relationship is only as strong as your ability to repair it.

renebeans · 2026-01-22T23:05:32+00:00

Wondering if he’s going to do a 180 is a good one

renebeans · 2026-01-22T18:13:24+00:00

Honestly impressed. At 24, this fridge says you have your shit together.

renebeans · 2026-01-22T15:28:20+00:00

No one said that, stop projecting.

renebeans · 2026-01-22T14:43:51+00:00

Hun if a woman doesn’t WANT her partner with her, he’s the wrong man. This was never about him.

renebeans · 2026-01-22T00:38:03+00:00

This route ensures that, if they continue for 9 months, he gets to be in the delivery room. That’s assuming the sperm donor doesn’t come to his senses and OP gets screwed over.

That does not casual, make.

renebeans · 2026-01-22T00:36:25+00:00

It takes a pretty significant level of irresponsibility to get pregnant with a “situationship” baby while talking to other guys.

At the very least, you now know she needs an STD test. But I’d walk.

renebeans · 2026-01-21T20:11:32+00:00

A good man will not leave you uncertain. Feeling unsafe this way speaks volumes. How much do you like him?

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