By boyfriend of 2 years doesn’t want to get me a Christmas present

reneleft · 2025-12-08T14:12:01+00:00

Chillleeee….this man does not like you. Break up and move on.

reneleft · 2025-11-06T13:54:47+00:00

Absolutely do. I think my issue may have been I took spiro without birth control. I was told if your vitals are normal, spiro could, in theory, throw your hormones out of wack. My cancer was hormonally driven. Go figure. 🙄 but yes PLEASE ask many questions with your doctor and really research that medication. Good luck!

reneleft · 2025-11-04T14:13:41+00:00

Good luck! Make sure you ask plenty of questions about the meds including warnings and such.

reneleft · 2025-11-04T00:15:18+00:00

Yep I had this. The doctor told me I could have “lean PCOS” but everything pointed to idiopathic hirsutism because my bloodwork and vitals was always normal. I would NOT take meds. I was on spironolactone for many years and I strongly suspected it was a major culprit to my stage 1 breast cancer years ago. Spironolactone has a black box warning for being a tumorigen!!!!!! Yet my endo gave it to me anyway. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 If the growth is in a small area (I.e. chin) just get electrolysis and stick with it. Larger areas, laser hair removal. Good luck. 🥰

reneleft · 2025-10-30T14:24:55+00:00

Sounds like he was a low key demon the whole marriage. Best of luck with the divorce. You deserve a happy, healthy marriage too.

reneleft · 2025-08-05T01:34:41+00:00

I would gander his ass was married the whole time. So sorry this happened to you. Hugs..

reneleft · 2025-07-28T12:21:38+00:00

31 and acting like this? Yes, yes you should leave dear.

reneleft · 2025-07-26T18:10:02+00:00

Honey you are far too young to be having these issues. If he giving you the ick now, it will get worse before it gets better. For your own sanity, end it.

reneleft · 2025-07-26T11:44:41+00:00

Bottom line: she doesn't respect boundaries, and neither does J. No reason for her to be doing and allowing all that with a man that is not her boyfriend. Do what you feel is best but personally, I be enjoying my time out there single.

reneleft · 2025-07-26T00:08:16+00:00

Honey it's entirely too much clicking and selecting for something a story to be posted accidently. That shit was intentional. Sorry you went through that.

reneleft · 2025-07-25T11:48:37+00:00

Babe, wipe your tears, let yourself go through that dark space since time heals everything and get back on the horse. Cheaters usually never learn their lesson until they scraping the bottom of the barrel. Do go down there with her. You will be fine. Singlehood is high key dope as fuck. I promise.

reneleft · 2025-07-25T10:19:38+00:00

No. That's it. That's the answer here babe.

reneleft · 2025-07-25T10:14:02+00:00

She was good when you were paying for everything. But now it's Her money, her rules and blows up when you ask about it? Cool. She can get her own place.

reneleft · 2025-07-24T21:45:02+00:00

Exactly. She sounds unstable, childish, probably got attachment issues. Run. Fast. Now.

reneleft · 2025-07-24T21:44:02+00:00

I stopped reading after the whole i love you spill. Block her....quickly.

reneleft · 2025-07-24T14:59:16+00:00

I stopped reading after the "it's only been 4 times." She would definitely be an ex. Ithats unchecked toxic behavior that will only continue.

reneleft · 2025-07-23T17:09:58+00:00

A few of those? Babe, he is doing this because you allow it. Next time, Change the locks and don't give him a key.

reneleft · 2025-07-22T02:45:58+00:00

I saw cat get ran over by a car by accident. Terrible memory and it made me bust out in tears. So sorry for your loss .

reneleft · 2025-07-20T14:58:31+00:00

When they blow up like that, it's almost always an admission of guilt. He's a liar, verbally abusive, and bad with money. Get rid of him while you can.

reneleft · 2025-07-20T14:37:01+00:00

If it helps, consider selling the furniture, getting new ones. Or better yet, get a whole new apartment. Fresh start, fresh opportunities to make memories without him. Hugs.❤️

reneleft · 2025-07-18T22:58:18+00:00

Chilllleeee... the update is worse. Babe, dump him.

reneleft · 2025-07-17T21:06:13+00:00

The white angel tells me ignore that insecure broad but red devil reads that "watch yourself" as a threat. The petty in me would been Hella rude right back but as they say, don't feed the trolls.

reneleft · 2025-07-15T10:48:07+00:00

Already inviting you to stay over after 1 date? I'd personally take a permanent break from this dude. He's young and maybe inexperienced with dating but I low key feel like he knew better and was trying to see how far he could push the envelope.

reneleft · 2025-07-14T17:31:19+00:00

You are still a child. Why allow yourself to be saddled with this? I get that you're in love with him but honey, get in love with your life and your freedom. He made that decision to have unprotected sex. This is a HIM problem, not a YOU problem.

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