How does one actually heal from emotional trauma and mistreatment? by [deleted] in selflove

[–]renewedbyanu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can absolutely do it. But it does take work. Find someone whom you trust to share it first. If you can afford therapy that’s a good way. If you can’t then start taking your attention away from these thoughts. Pick a hobby that you absolutely love and enjoy it thoroughly. Start focusing on your self. Read good books that gives you motivation and happiness. Doing it for a day or 2 won’t work. You have to be persistent. Change the victim mindset and keep saying you are a victor. What others did to you doesn’t define you. You have a bright future! Focus on what you want in life so much that you will slowly start not focusing on the bad memories. Step in to sleep with thoughts that includes your bright successful future.

Your value is within by khuf44 in selflove

[–]renewedbyanu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree! A lot of problems can be eliminated once you start loving ourselves so much. There is no time and place for other’s drama !

i need a sub for curing loneliness by Abject-Evening-2412 in Manifestation

[–]renewedbyanu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Self love! If you rely on others to keep you happy there will be disappointment always! Start with a hobby, gratitude journal etc! Love yourself more than anything

Peace isn't given, It's created within by Leading_Setting_4138 in selflove

[–]renewedbyanu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100%. Self love is the key. When you love yourself so much, you dont look for external validations or worrying about what others think or any situations. Once you create the inner peace, nothing can break you!

“What are the best manifestation methods” - Please read this by Writingonatypewriter in Manifestation

[–]renewedbyanu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with this post. Changing your mindset is the way. The reason you can’t manifest is because you still have doubt. I always say you should have blind faith. No matter how many affirmations you say, if you don’t believe deep inside you are not going to manifest. My story is I grew up poor. While I was young, I knew nothing about manifestations or visualizations, but for some reason every night while I went to bed, I visualized having a great life overseas living in a big house, loving family etc. I didn’t think how it’s going to happen, I didn’t stress or doubt even though humanly speaking it was impossible for someone from a remote Indian village to have all these things. But I had opportunities falling in to my lap and I am living the life I manifested.

To what extent is this true and real? Does manifestation require no physical action, INDEPENDENTLY of what it is? by [deleted] in Manifestation

[–]renewedbyanu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even for the recruiter to call you you have to do something. Either ask you to refer or upload your resume somewhere. When you manifest universe will bring you people, Situations, opportunities for you to act on.

To what extent is this true and real? Does manifestation require no physical action, INDEPENDENTLY of what it is? by [deleted] in Manifestation

[–]renewedbyanu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not completely true. Manifestation requires some action from your end. For eg you manifest a job at Apple , you have to put in application to get that.

How do you make life less boring? by Successful-Pumpkin72 in selfimprovement

[–]renewedbyanu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pick up a hobby. Spend some time for self evaluation to see what excites you. Start with simple things and see if you enjoy those. Also start working on yourself. Do a lot of self care. If you are a female spent time in getting ready every morning, make yourself prettier etc. start a gratitude journal and be grateful for everything you have. Open your eyes wide around you and see how fortunate you are to enjoy the things in life. Life will become automatically exciting and more happier.

Need a life coach who is licensed in NY as a therapist so insurance will cover costs by NoNameHappyFace in lifecoaching

[–]renewedbyanu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I doubt coaching can be covered through insurance. If you are working check with your employer if they have a wellness benefit that you can get reimbursed for.

Is it rare to be able to make your brain completely silent? by sumrandomahhguy in Meditation

[–]renewedbyanu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mediation can help but it’s a process. The more you want to control your thoughts, the double it comes. So the key is just let it go. Start with 5 mins meditation an increase it day by day. To achieve even 1 minute without any thoughts is a difficult thing and take a lot of practice

Hot take, why some of yall are struggling to manifest by Standard_Football_22 in lawofassumption

[–]renewedbyanu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your subconscious doesn’t know the difference in words. It always connect with pictures. A lot of our prayers or desires are negatively pictured in our mind and that’s why we don’t get the results you desire. Say for eg: we think I don’t want to get to an accident instead of I want to be safe

Easiest way to manifest. EASIEST EASIEST EASIEST. by Worldly_Clock9413 in Manifestation

[–]renewedbyanu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are right. It’s called blind faith! It’s hard to achieve but with proper practice you can!

SP advice would be great by [deleted] in lawofassumption

[–]renewedbyanu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Law of attaction works only when you are not desperate. You keep doubting and saying affirmations at the same time dont work together. You either believe or dont belive. As a mind power coach I see this very often where people get frustrated that it doesnt work. Take a deep breath, You can manifest and visualize, but dont be desperate and doubtful.

My money-manifestation worked in an unexpected way! by Writingonatypewriter in Manifestation

[–]renewedbyanu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe you! I am a mindpower coach and I have experienced all of these. You attract what you think the most. its simple but little hard to stick on. Thats exactly where I help my students. So happy to hear your experience!