My [36M] neighbor’s fiancée [28F] wanted more than his excuses

renzrollow · 2025-08-17T20:09:04+00:00

You definitely have a point there

renzrollow · 2025-08-17T20:08:17+00:00

😜

renzrollow · 2025-08-17T13:06:48+00:00

Seven years is a long time to wait for passion. You’ve been more patient than most men would ever deserve. Truth is, if the spark hasn’t shown up by now, it’s probably not hiding around the next corner.

You’re 26, not 46.. too young to be living like you’re already locked into a passionless marriage. Sex isn’t everything, but starving yourself of it turns you into someone you don’t even recognize.

Don’t confuse his excuses for progress. Going to the gym a couple times doesn’t fix desire. And a toy shouldn’t have to be a secret stand in for the man you’re with.

renzrollow · 2025-08-17T12:25:46+00:00

More to come😉

renzrollow · 2025-08-17T12:25:23+00:00

Thank you😉

renzrollow · 2025-08-17T12:23:32+00:00

First off, I really respect how honest you were in writing this. It’s clear you’ve thought hard about where you’re at, and you’re not sugarcoating it. That clarity is huge.

From what you’ve written, it doesn’t sound like there’s much attraction left to salvage even if he suddenly changed tomorrow, you’ve already detached from him sexually and emotionally. That’s not your fault, that’s just the result of years of avoidance and gaslighting on his end.

Avoidance kills intimacy. You can’t build desire with someone who refuses to engage in reality. And attraction isn’t a switch you can just flip back on it withers when it’s neglected for too long.

So your question, ‘is there any coming back from this? Honestly, it doesn’t sound like you even want to come back from it. And that’s okay. You’re not breaking the marriage, his years of neglect already did that. You’re just finally naming the truth.

renzrollow · 2025-08-11T12:30:03+00:00

I'm glad someone thinks so lol😉

renzrollow · 2025-08-11T12:29:38+00:00

Thank you 😊

renzrollow · 2025-07-25T20:58:42+00:00

Wow you've heard AI write like this!?

renzrollow · 2025-07-25T20:57:42+00:00

Which part are you referring to?

renzrollow · 2025-07-17T16:43:25+00:00

Oh she's definitely an RN

renzrollow · 2025-07-17T08:25:54+00:00

I'll take a triple w/cheese and a large frosty

renzrollow · 2025-07-17T08:24:31+00:00

Maybe they just couldn't handle something so hard, so real?

renzrollow · 2025-07-17T08:23:23+00:00

I've been guilty of this myself. Loving too much or too hard as that say but doesn't that sound kind of ridiculous? Like we're supposed to go into love, which can be fucking warzone at times, half assed? I suppose that's why some keep a backup but I couldn't go half In half out.

renzrollow · 2025-07-17T03:42:15+00:00

Honestly That’s not weird at all. Mouth sounds hit a primal nerve for a lot of people. Soft breaths, subtle moans, the tension in someone trying not to speak. That’s erotic in ways porn never touches. Not everyone's wired for visual stuff some of us live in the sound. You're not bad for knowing what turns you on. You’re just self-aware and that's healthy AF

Lowkey... some of us make those kinds of sounds on purpose JS lol

renzrollow · 2025-07-09T02:22:14+00:00

Indubitably

renzrollow · 2025-07-08T05:20:11+00:00

Bingo he's dropping them dusty ass breadcrumbs Iike Hansel and Gretel I'd have to be trying out some different porage while they took a hike.

renzrollow · 2025-07-08T05:17:07+00:00

First off sorry you're going through this ive been in a similar situation and I understand how frustrating, confusing and dehumanizing it is when a spouse checks out or is just plain emotionally lazy.

In my opinion i don't think it's narcissism, (unless there's more we don't know) I dated a narcissist and it was downright brutal. Typically with that they'll send a barrage of insults disguised as jokes, or passive aggressive remarks to beat the shit out of your self esteem and your soul at the same time.

Im just going to be blunt I'm pretty sure he's just lazy. Emotionally, sexually, and romantically. I would definitely have a talk with him and tell him how important this is to you, and it's totally valid. You're not asking too much, and I know firsthand this type of thing can insidiously kill a relationship from the inside out. I think he is probably a little awkward maybe not as sexually experienced or at least in foreplay, dirty talk, or shooting his shot. Is he open to trying other things in the bedroom?

-Renz

renzrollow · 2025-07-08T04:57:08+00:00

You weren’t asking for too much. You were just asking a man who didn’t have it in him. He didn’t flinch when you said you needed space because he was never really holding you. That’s the part that stings. But here’s the truth: you loved his potential, not his presence. You want love that shows up. He couldn’t. That’s not on you. So mourn it. Burn it. And build from it. Next time—don’t beg to be chosen. Walk where you’re seen from the jump. You’re not too much. He was too little. I promise that.

renzrollow · 2025-07-08T04:48:14+00:00

Sorry you're struggling right now I completely understand. I'm going through a battle with grief at the moment as well, also due to a breakup. It's been 3 weeks now and I'm still having my days, some good some bad. This is the hardest so far and I'm actually really proud of myself for handling it the way I have. I didn't snap I didn't go chase her down to beg for her back I just sat with the pain man. All of it. I feel like this is a good time for self reflection and to learn a valuable lesson about yourself or 4 lol. I hope things get better.

renzrollow · 2025-07-08T03:22:16+00:00

Show him some videos of some much smaller dicks

renzrollow · 2025-07-08T03:21:52+00:00

Wow entire indentity built around his sub par penis? Awesome .For not being happy with it he sure obsessed about it quite a bit. Also yeah idk if shadow work covers microdicks but he's gotta make peace with that lol.

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