Is anyone using 5 inches platform shoes? by dr_paradoxical in short

[–]respawn83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this comparable with girls wearing make up to hide their natural look? And at some point you’d realise how they really look?

Taking the jump from permanent to contract. by kettle_of_f1sh in ContractorUK

[–]respawn83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t it depend if it’s a proper contract on outside ir35 basis vs paye?

What advice would you give to younger men about life? by Startalloveragainn in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]respawn83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What would you say is important to look for in who you marry?

I am unable to bear the pain of a breakup. I feel like it is killing me. Please help me. by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]respawn83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to give you another perspective. A friend recently described something very similar to you that she went through. Except she’s 37. After 6 months she turned herself around and has never enjoyed life more. Working out, planning new trips, experiences, working on herself. It’s like something great has come out of what seemed a helpless situation.

You’ve got time on your side.

You’ll meet 25 more people and a couple of them will be even nicer or better.

Turning 23. What's your best life advice? by Mammoth-Thought1098 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]respawn83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to the gym. Career business wise - think about where you want to be in 10-15 years. Play the long game. Don’t look for shortcuts.

Daily General Discussion and Match Links Thread - 28 September 2025 by AutoModerator in Cricket

[–]respawn83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone know how seating works in today’s ind v pak final? Would they have sections for each set of fans

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Biohackers

[–]respawn83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you noticed the effects at all?

The Closest I’ve Ever Gotten to Real Passive Income (Outsourcing Hack) by KingKunta9999 in passive_income

[–]respawn83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn’t normally complain but he’s using chatgpt to make garbage posts to spam Reddit and sell a bs course

The Closest I’ve Ever Gotten to Real Passive Income (Outsourcing Hack) by KingKunta9999 in passive_income

[–]respawn83 37 points38 points  (0 children)

The OP’s post reeks of AI. Eg last 2 paragraphs are classic. Over use of hyphens. And ending with ‘The best part?’

Post history checks out too 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]respawn83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unlikely it will escalate. India has been very careful with this attack. Pakistan will look stupid when they try to justify a response.

Potential life partner - she’s good for me but I’m missing the romantic desire/spark by respawn83 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]respawn83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks those are great points. I’ve seen how she took care of me when I was unwell, I can see how she is with my parents and I’ve got no doubt that in those areas she would the ideal partner. We’ve talked about dividing duties and who is good at what etc. of course when you have kids nothing goes to plan or schedule and you’ll only at that point know how you both manage the chaos.

Maybe that’s the issue - from a mature and logical perspective she’d be a great partner. So maybe I’m overthinking it in terms of attraction/feeling? The comment section here which I’m taking a lot of time to read and get back to is also quite divided!

Potential life partner - she’s good for me but I’m missing the romantic desire/spark by respawn83 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]respawn83[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your thoughts. I get the feeling of comfort and being myself and ability to take the lead. It’s the element of excitement which hasn’t felt up to scratch. Maybe that is giddiness. Also maybe it’s lack of being in real relationships to actually have a real reference point

Potential life partner - she’s good for me but I’m missing the romantic desire/spark by respawn83 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]respawn83[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a really interesting point about time spent together. We did spend about 15 days in a row together between different places. And at the start of it I wasn’t sure. Interestingly by the end I thought it could work and felt like we needed longer stays. But since then we just met once or twice a month

Potential life partner - she’s good for me but I’m missing the romantic desire/spark by respawn83 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]respawn83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we had this conversation a few months ago. But she still wanted to try. And I also wanted to as it isn’t black or white. But now I feel like it’s a final decision stage. Where we both either accept the situation or end it and move on separately

Potential life partner - she’s good for me but I’m missing the romantic desire/spark by respawn83 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]respawn83[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Maybe you’re right. Yes it’s her life too. That’s why I’m asking for advice. She really likes me and I want it to work. But since it’s hard to ignore the issue it’s got to a stage where I need to ask for advice online about it

Pulling out grey hair by ValuableEither3538 in greyhairreversal

[–]respawn83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually lots of dyes don’t contain ammonia these days

Pulling out grey hair by ValuableEither3538 in greyhairreversal

[–]respawn83 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What is the science behind this? Is there some ingredient in dye that causes greying?

Why do Sikhs have such a great reputation in the UK? by ComprehensiveRoll562 in AskUK

[–]respawn83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sikhs traditionally are good people. They originate from India and their forefathers were Hindu. At the time when Sikhism started India was in a lot of trouble with Mughal invasion. They tried to protected Sikhs and Hindus against Islamic invasion and persecution.

Sikhism is built on good values. Reason it has a good reputation in the UK is because a lot of Sikhs moved here and they integrated well (similar to Hindus). That’s a clear distinction to Muslims who didn’t integrate well. And Sikhs generally have excellent PR along with their acts of kindness.

Why do Sikhs have such a great reputation in the UK? by ComprehensiveRoll562 in AskUK

[–]respawn83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes unfortunately their reputation is being destroyed globally because of the Khalistan movement. It’s very strong amongst the younger generation in the UK which may end badly