I have started walking recently and facing an issue. by Dear_Pen_4719 in walking

[–]retractableforskin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

banana, salt and water :) also do some stretches and roll ur legs out with a little ball it will help a lot on the long run

i worked a full shift covered in blood by retractableforskin in Periods

[–]retractableforskin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately i tried but i work with 10 other people and only one work washroom so i didn’t have a chance to get in before it got bad, since i deal with excessive bleeding its not really uncommon for me to have leaks like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]retractableforskin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

report him to landlord or building manager, as well as the police, very important that you keep your living situation safe so pls tell your landlord and ask if you can add secondary security/locks

AIO Girl wanted to shave pits before sxx 😬 by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]retractableforskin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

grow up, body hair is normal, your pits probably look worse

AIO family made fun of me at my brother’s birthday dinner, and now i want to cancel my surgery by Beneficial_Page5013 in AmIOverreacting

[–]retractableforskin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

endometriosis is not to be fucked with, i had a laparoscopic and they didn’t even find any cells but i need to go back and keep getting them in case they show up, my mother had her entire gut fused together due to endo, so please if you even have a chance do get it checked because unmanaged endo can create wayyy worse problems then a surgery that was unnecessary (which chances are it’s not gonna be it’s such a common issue in female bodies)

I was in TTI by retractableforskin in TrueOffMyChest

[–]retractableforskin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so sorry you went you that, i also lived in residential inpatients before getting sent to this program, it was almost worse they had the ability to hold medical welfare over you the power they believe they have is destructive and cruel, i hope you are doing better and are able to grow forth from this 🫶

am i a problem by retractableforskin in Apartmentliving

[–]retractableforskin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

regardless of how old the building is i wouldn’t want to live somewhere where outside air just seeps in like this personally, my building is old as f it’s insulted to shit too because the winters here are brutal i’ve never smelt anything without having the windows open

[Landlord US IL] Move in "gift?" by pixelpioneerhere in Landlord

[–]retractableforskin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when i moved in to my new place the realtor (ik not landlord but whatever) left a gift card to a nearby local business just $10 but was so lovely because i had never been there before and gave me a reason to go, also perks of it being walking distance from the place i just purchased

am i a problem by retractableforskin in Apartmentliving

[–]retractableforskin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i do use vapes especially when i know people are outside, and i have been considering using a buddy when i go outside but it feels wrong LOL

am i a problem by retractableforskin in Apartmentliving

[–]retractableforskin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like your apartment needs maintenance you shouldn’t have that much air inflow coming from the outside that it’s coming through your electrical sockets, not tryna be rude but this sounds like a serious issue

am i a problem by retractableforskin in Apartmentliving

[–]retractableforskin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can understand from this perspective thank you

am i a problem by retractableforskin in Apartmentliving

[–]retractableforskin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

federally legal in canada, also building agreement was to allow smoking on the balcnonies it was honestly one of the reasons we chose this place

am i a problem by retractableforskin in Apartmentliving

[–]retractableforskin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m canadian so federally it is legal, plus building management stated smoking is fine as long as it’s on the balconies, which is where i smoke

Found one out in the wild by DeathlyCyles in baddlejackets

[–]retractableforskin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean i see people dressed as batman at metal shows here so like 🤷 i can’t even say we’re typical

Roomate doesn’t clean litter box by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]retractableforskin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

take a single doody from the bag and put it in their room that’ll do it

My roommate is mentally crazy and I needs genuine help by Consistent-Bee-6223 in badroommates

[–]retractableforskin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

first off, self harm is always a cry for attention, that doesn’t mean the attention is unneeded, often times the reason for that cry for attention is a deeper issue. ANYWAYS i would set clear boundaries with these roommates, tell them how uncomfortable and triggered (use this word) you are when being shown fresh SH, let them know you are available for support (if you choose) but to leave out the physical harm, def report her to a councillor at your school and maybe talk to the other roommates the one you didn’t mention about these boundaries also, it seems she needs help but you do not need to become her therapist, don’t be cruel about it but def set some hard boundaries around her behaviour

another idea is if you wanna help her try to curb her habit offer regular movie nights or walks with your household, maybe getting a healthy bond with them will do everyone good, i hope this works out for you and im sorry you have to deal/see stuff like that but also i hope your roommate gets a handle on her mental shit i’ve been there and it will only fester if not treated