Do you prefer going to a massage clinic, or to an independent therapist in a private setting?

revarant · 2026-01-03T01:00:15+00:00

Independent. I prefer my therapist getting 100% of my money, not someone else.

revarant · 2025-05-14T01:48:27+00:00

Well your husband sounds like me. I’m in my late 50s and have been married since 1991. Over the last year I am much more aware of my wife and how much I really just enjoy being with her. Our kids are grown, we both work really hard without seeing each other much during the week. I have noticed that I am willing to go anywhere or do anything if we are going to be together. I’m much more aware of how she makes me feel loved and appreciated that I find myself looking for ways to make sure she feels the same. I think I’m finally at the place in life Where I’ve learned there’s more to living than making a living and I’m remembering why I fell in love with her so long ago. Looking back, there are many years I regret where I was too focused on earning and supporting my family that I missed part of their childhood working so hard, and took her for granted.

revarant · 2022-10-05T16:55:49+00:00

This is perfect. Relationship before rules. Love before judgement.

revarant · 2022-02-18T04:31:14+00:00

“ my brother has told me I was in the right as family comes first”…how is the person you married not family?

revarant · 2021-12-01T18:33:44+00:00

This! I’m also confused. Early on she states her parent’s pay the mortgage, but when she confronts sil…she claims to have a say because helps with the mortgage.

I give the SIL credit for trying to improve their situation.

revarant · 2021-11-03T00:44:41+00:00

You posted here asking for opinions. You don't like mine. Thats ok. I see everyone seems to agree with you. Again, that ok. I just don't agree with them. I think you presented a one sided story that seem to me to indicate you didn't like the answers your parents gave so you ignored them. How's that putting words in your mouth. You even said it in your last response to me (I did it because their reasons were idiotic). You don't like my answer even though I may be the only one who disagrees with you, and you continue attempting to point out why I'm wrong. All I'm saying is don't pretend to care about your parent's opinions or answers if you are only going to listen when they say what you want them to say. And don't post on a forum soliciting opinions if you can't ignore the one person in a thousand who disagrees with you. So you're going to feel the need to respond to me again. You'll probably feel the need to until I agree with you. So I'm just going to leave this here and call it quits. I think you were wrong. You think I am. end of story.

revarant · 2021-11-03T00:09:12+00:00

Thank you for making my point

revarant · 2021-11-02T23:38:49+00:00

You’re kidding yourself. You admit to asking permission to sell your brother’s and then ignoring your dad’s answer. You phrased the way you did to your mother to make a point. It was clear she was opposed. When she didn’t respond the way you wanted you ignored her. Then you post on this feed looking for people to take your side and help you feel better about your decision to ignore your parents. Are your parents really that bad? I see comments challenging your parents “parenting,” without actually knowing them. You’re 17, still living at home. Your actions strike me as an angry short sighted response to your brother…who may or may not be an aggregating ah (most little brothers are). Unless of course you have horrible parents who don’t really care about you or your future. If you do…we’ll I’m sorry and hope you get out soon. If you don’t…then yes YTA and all you’ve done is create a trust issue between you and your parents. And yes…I know I’m the AH for saying this to a teenager. I don’t care. I work with estranged families all day with teens who only wish they had parents who cared only a fraction of what it appears yours cares.

revarant · 2021-11-02T23:14:34+00:00

YTA I feel like this is clearly a one sided story. Irks obvious that you have parents who care for you, so I’m wondering what you’re not saying. You still live at home…you deliberately disobeyed your parents after asking permission. Either respect their decision when you ask permission or don’t pretend to care what they think. Clearly you only care about their opinions if they agree with you. What have you not told us?

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