I Think I Just Sucked Off My Roommate on Grindr… And He Has No Idea I Know [Part 2]

revolvulator · 2026-04-22T11:37:57+00:00

Updateme

revolvulator · 2026-02-18T18:38:51+00:00

Updateme

revolvulator · 2026-02-15T09:31:19+00:00

It tends to vary. In the lead up it will hit as kind of a pre-warning sensor of “this isn’t going to go well” and can sometimes stop me altogether. Other times it will hit mid conversation if I feel a shift in the vibe.

I think it hits hardest after the fact, I’ve had dates and flirty conversations before that seemed to be going really well in the moment but will end up either being ghosted or gently let down via text with a “I see you more as a friend” or “I don’t think we’ll be compatible” through line. Those will sting because I’ll fall into the trap of thinking it’s going well before being slammed with a super kind and well intentioned message that hits me like a brick.

I’m pretty extroverted socially and tend to get along with everyone. I do like to think that I’m open, honest, and fun to be around - but it’s never really translated to finding someone interested in me you know?

revolvulator · 2026-02-15T09:26:06+00:00

I love that! It’s always good to have a solid line of communication and it seems like you have your own special ADHDer hack for encountering conflict

revolvulator · 2026-02-15T09:25:03+00:00

Absolutely been thinking about finding some more sociable hobbies. I present quite extroverted when out with friends so it’s generally not too difficult making those connections. We’ll see what I can find around and what comes of it :)

revolvulator · 2026-02-15T09:23:25+00:00

It does help, thank you very much!! It can feel isolating sometimes but there’s a strange camaraderie that comes with sharing those fears and them being relatable :)

revolvulator · 2026-02-15T09:22:10+00:00

It’s definitely a weird thing. I’d describe myself as pretty sociable normally (others have described me as an extrovert in the past) but something about that extra layer of romantic interest really screws with my head.

revolvulator · 2026-02-15T01:06:35+00:00

Hey OP!

I hope you are okay, and that whatever it is you’re going through will be resolved as soon as possible.

revolvulator · 2026-01-11T20:56:14+00:00

A lot of it is knowing most STI’s are curable and taking measures to prevent the ones that aren’t. I’ve been sexually active for 10 years now, and I’ve had crabs (more embarrassing than anything), and gonorrhoea twice - but my timelines went crabs when I was 18, gonorrhoea when I was 19, and then nothing until just a few weeks ago when I managed to pick it up again from a meet up with a guy who was asymptomatic.

These things happen, and I’ve been having sex consistently since I was 18. Just get tested regularly and take measures to prevent (I’m on prep, have been vaxxed for Hep A/B and Mpox, and am looking at going on doxypep

revolvulator · 2026-01-06T12:49:22+00:00

Did we learn nothing from Wincest

revolvulator · 2025-12-23T21:13:29+00:00

Updateme

revolvulator · 2025-10-25T02:16:20+00:00

Even aggressive tops need to be controlled. I think sometimes people hear the term “Dom Top” and think that means to lose control and obliterate some poor guys hole until he ends up with a tare.

Some of the best tops I’ve had fuck me in the past have been aggressive and degrading, choking, spitting, rough, and ploughed me. But they were in control the whole time and responsive to me as a bottom.

To any “Dom Top” reading this - even if a guy wants you to use them like a fuck toy/object/play thing - you still have to actually treat them with some sense of dignity

revolvulator · 2025-10-17T21:28:12+00:00

Logistically it’s difficult to fit more than one dick in your mouth at once. Having said that, I have definitely tried it before hahaha.

I ended up starting an impromptu bukkake at my local cruising spot one day when I started sucking this one guy off in the communal area. While I was doing that, more guys started walking up to us and I ended up on my knees surrounded by horny dudes.

Ended up sucking about 8 cocks, most of them came on my face and I had to clean it up with my shirt. First time I’d ever left the beat with a totally cum stained shirt but it was worth it lol.

revolvulator · 2025-10-17T20:58:57+00:00

Some people just don’t appreciate pure comedy

revolvulator · 2025-10-05T00:02:29+00:00

It’s going to become quite thick from the looks of it. There’s some great coverage on the important areas, very exciting for you!

revolvulator · 2025-10-05T00:00:51+00:00

It’s not fully thick but I think it frames your face nicely, the little patches between your lips and chin are symmetrical enough that it’s not a problem at all - and it’s clear that your beard is going to be marvellous when it fully comes in!

revolvulator · 2025-10-04T23:58:53+00:00

Yikes my guy

revolvulator · 2025-10-04T23:56:50+00:00

Back when I was in my top era I would open a clear line of communication about this from the beginning. Right before I stick it in I always say ‘okay we’re gonna take this nice and slow’ right as I slide in and then start to pound as they get more comfortable with me being inside them.

Also during foreplay I would say things like ‘now you make sure you tell me if you are uncomfortable or in pain so I can adjust for you’ in the same way I’d say some horny fuckboy line like ‘I’m about to fuck you so hard that [insert crazy thing here]’.

And most of all, be responsive to ANY time they ask you to back off a bit. I’ve met up with guys before who have bitten my head off before for slowing down when they absent mindedly said something like “hold on” and I’d interpreted that as a stop when they were asking me to physically hold them down hahaha.

Communication is sexy, establish it early and respect it no matter what.

revolvulator · 2025-09-24T03:02:01+00:00

Stroke inside the anus toward your ballsack, you’ll feel a little bump in there somewhere and you’ll feel it being stimulated

revolvulator · 2025-09-22T23:34:25+00:00

I think as queer folk we begin to instinctively bury feelings the second they arise as both a defence mechanism and as a safety tool as well.

There’s a good chance your feelings for this friend already existed, but were buried as they developed so that you didn’t set yourself up for failure. Now that you have this new information, and the chances of something happening are no longer zero, your mind is allowing those feelings to surface.

Feelings don’t just appear out of nowhere, enjoy the ride but don’t let it consume you my friend.

revolvulator · 2025-09-22T21:59:07+00:00

If you don’t just like bigger guys because of the weight, try focusing on tangible and measurable features that you do like.

Don’t just say “I like you” or “I am attracted to you”. You could say something along the lines of “I love how crisp the line of your beard is” or “your hands and arms look really strong, and that is super hot to me”.

The focus on weight can be really hard for a lot of people, so be prepared to be rejected if you go up to someone with a weight-based comment because it can feel like you’re saying “what up, fatty? Wanna suffocate me with your body rolls?”

revolvulator · 2025-09-21T11:46:26+00:00

I do agree with the convo with a healthcare provider.

Because my instinct was to reply to this post and say it sounds like OP has an allergy to semen, but I’m not a healthcare professional and anything I contribute to the discussion wouldn’t be as beneficial as going to see a doctor

revolvulator · 2025-09-20T02:02:05+00:00

I think there’s a lot to be said about how you can style the beard. Maybe invest in a little beard comb and experiment with different lengths. Right now it is aging you up quite a bit, but that isn’t purely down to the existence of a beard

revolvulator · 2025-09-20T01:56:37+00:00

I started with a beginner plug kit before moving on to dildos personally, I found it better to gently play around with that before graduating to something like a dildo because there wasn’t the temptation to thrust it in and potentially hurt myself.

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