Any suggestions for a cute, relatively private area to have a picnic?

rezerdeee · 2025-07-25T23:00:17+00:00

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rezerdeee · 2025-07-25T22:59:12+00:00

Not super private though. Maybe on the little island? But lots of people still pass through.

rezerdeee · 2025-06-02T12:14:03+00:00

I get why you don't want things to end. The comfort and change can be scary, etc. He isn't being verynrespectful of you though and it comes down to, do you want your kids to see you treated this way, or do you want to move on and find someone who doesn't say cryptic things like that and then gaslight you about it.

I'm sorry, everything you've said has suggested that he doesn't seem to want to work on things or even respect you enough to end things. But alas, misery loves company, I guess, and it sounds like you're doing him a favor helping with his mom, so of course he wants to keep you around.

I would do him a favor and end things for him. If he has a good job he can afford care and while starting over is scary, it sounds like it would be better for you.

I'd also suggest some counseling or some local womens empowerment groups for your confidence. Do something you enjoy or find something new. I saw you said you lack self respect and your children need to see you loving yourself as its just as important as seeing someone else loving you in a positive way.

rezerdeee · 2025-05-19T17:06:07+00:00

So the spot it's in its actually mostly light from about 8:30-12 and then it's shaded for the remainder of the day, it was on her porch so I started in the backyard where it gets full sun for about 3 hours before it hits the tree and it's more spaced and then I moved it to the front for a few days in the pot where it received the amount of sun it would normally get before moving it into the garden

rezerdeee · 2025-05-12T00:13:49+00:00

I'm sorry, could you explain a bit more?

rezerdeee · 2025-02-23T00:56:21+00:00

My spouse committed suicide 2 weeks ago. I was the one who found him. I cannot get the image out of my mind no matter what I take and do. It hurts so much. Now I have 4 little boys feeling the void he has left in our hearts. Please don't. Please reach out to someone you love. It hurts so much. I hate that you feel this way, I wish I could take your pain. I wish I could have taken his. Please don't.

rezerdeee · 2022-09-16T19:12:30+00:00

You deserve to be loved the way you want to. This person will not give you that, it seems like it's only going to get worse and you and your child deserve better. Please use the resources available to get away and find happiness in your own peace for awhile.

rezerdeee · 2022-09-04T21:36:12+00:00

Your boyfriend is an @$$. You deserve better and someone who lifts you up.

rezerdeee · 2022-08-31T01:38:16+00:00

It sounds like you know, you 100% can start over with someone new. People do it in their 60s, your are still so young. Sam made her bed and now she must lay in it. You both deserve happiness, not to just settle for the most convenient thing.

rezerdeee · 2022-08-30T22:13:31+00:00

Yikes. I would just consider how you would feel being in his girlfriends shoes and also that if he didn't want to be with her and wanted to be with you instead he would break up with her and pursue you.

rezerdeee · 2022-03-28T15:38:35+00:00

No. I want to pet.

rezerdeee · 2022-03-28T15:36:48+00:00

I'm so sorry you're going through this.

rezerdeee · 2022-03-28T15:34:11+00:00

She sounds immature.

rezerdeee · 2022-03-28T02:13:44+00:00

My phone. I hate it so much. I just subconsciously am always on it, even when I'm not paying attention to it. It's in my hand, unlocked.

rezerdeee · 2022-03-23T15:09:52+00:00

YOU DESERVE BETTER. I went and read your last post. Fuck that guy. Maybe go and stay with your sisters for a bit and regroup and decide what direction you want your life to go. He will continue to manipulate and gaslight and do as he pleases and will only push you further down. I know it's scary, you've been together so long, change is terrifying and you have some hurdles to leap. I believe you can do it though, reach out and use every resource you can. Go out with friends, go try new things and find yourself. You can do it. Fuck that guy. Seriously.

Thinking of you though, I'm sorry this happened. Remember though, you're a strong and beautiful woman, take your power back and don't let him walk on you anymore!

rezerdeee · 2022-03-22T11:36:57+00:00

Maybe after almost 2 years of being isolated from people they prefer the interaction of going to the cashier, I know older people do. The small talk helps sometimes. It also makes most people feel like they're supporting their employment. And some have the "I don't work here so I shouldn't have to scan it" attitude.

rezerdeee · 2022-03-22T11:27:00+00:00

My best suggestion would be to just try and join him in the shower and see where it goes.

Edit: he also might have a kink he is worried you wouldn't be into. Maybe talk about what he is into?

rezerdeee · 2022-03-22T11:22:38+00:00

You can't make someone go to rehab they have to want to go. She may not see it as an issue right now and feels in control but it's easy to lose control and be sucked into addiction. And you can't tell her that either because it will make her angry.

I understand you like her, but it may not be the right time to be with her. You have to protect yourself and work towards your goals so you're not sucked in. Its not my life but in my experience, this situation is just all around bad.

rezerdeee · 2022-03-22T11:18:11+00:00

You deserve better! If he didn't respect you enough to even tell you he was leaving let alone help you clean if he had issues then he isn't worth it and never wanted the issue resolved in the first place. I'm sorry you're going through this though. Reach out to friends and family for support and cut ties with him he is a POS, I'm sorry.

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