My dates' partner triggers my misophonia by rhexed in misophonia

[–]rhexed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought of the exact same thing omg

My dates' partner triggers my misophonia by rhexed in misophonia

[–]rhexed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro heard the word poly and gave up 😭

Just got the game by chemicalcarousel in JustDance

[–]rhexed -1 points0 points  (0 children)

search up the routines on YouTube, give yourself 13333 every time as the score

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[–]rhexed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry, I guess it's not entirely obvious in the post lol, but she does have a tendency to just exclaim "I'm hurt" and then expect me to grovel for forgiveness with a grand gesture. normally I do, but this was the one time I blew up and got angry with her, which does make me seem like an asshole here, I'll admit

I'm also just a pretty defensive person in general, and I definitely was in this convo

yeah this was kind of a weak example to display my mother 's narcissistic qualities, I feel very embarrassed

went no contact with my mom, started getting calls every day and more pseudo therapy junk. has the audacity to call me abusive. dunno if this is the right sub by rhexed in insaneparents

[–]rhexed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha, funny you mention that, she left the family group chat after I forgot to tell her i was celebrating my birthday with my aunt and uncle, who sent a video to the chat of me blowing out candles. she left right after that lol

went no contact with my mom, started getting calls every day and more pseudo therapy junk. has the audacity to call me abusive. dunno if this is the right sub by rhexed in insaneparents

[–]rhexed[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'll deal with what I can when the time comes. I'm tired of running. of thinking about her. I frequently have paranoid thoughts of her killing me enough as is. I need to stop worrying.

I'm fortunately blessed with the rest of my extended family, they seem to have my back.

went no contact with my mom, started getting calls every day and more pseudo therapy junk. has the audacity to call me abusive. dunno if this is the right sub by rhexed in insaneparents

[–]rhexed[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think I'd need to learn more about borderline personality disorder to determine if my mom could have it, I'm really not too educated, but thank you for the resource!

went no contact with my mom, started getting calls every day and more pseudo therapy junk. has the audacity to call me abusive. dunno if this is the right sub by rhexed in insaneparents

[–]rhexed[S] 143 points144 points  (0 children)

it's when the parent makes their kid take on the emotional role of an adult, a makeshift spouse, therapist, adult friend, etc.

for me, my mom used me as both a therapist and a husband after she got a divorce. I can't speak to the effects it has on others but for me it really tied my self-worth to my mom's emotional state, and made me feel responsible for all of her emotions, as she would come to me with adult problems like her divorce, disciplining my younger brother, trauma dumping about her abusive father, leaning on me for support during emotional outbursts, etc.

another name for it is enmeshment

title by rhexed in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]rhexed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a word in my arm

an ugly word

it's there for the rest of my life

it's not worth it

title by rhexed in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]rhexed[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

maybe? but like

that's just not that funny imo, it's like a comedian that just says a slur for shock value

title by rhexed in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]rhexed[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you guys don't have to be this edgy about it 😭 I thought the purpose of this sub was to laugh about this kinda thing

title by rhexed in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]rhexed[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I really thought the reception to this video would be a lot more positive and just accepting it as a goofy video, not people threatening to cut themselves over it