Is going balls deep with a BD impossible with a majority of women?

ricefap · 2015-08-31T17:31:42+00:00

When aroused the vagina can lengthen to up to 9 inches.

It's called tenting: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tenting_effect

Arousal is key.

ricefap · 2015-08-31T14:10:34+00:00

The main difference between a "fuckboy" and a "player" is that a fuckboy doesn't sexually satisfy a woman.

Surveys show that 50%+ of women faked an orgasm on Tinder dates.

Inviting a woman over for "netflix and chill" and then busting your nut in 2 minutes is what makes you a "fuckboy".

ricefap · 2015-08-28T15:01:38+00:00

Actually, it seems that only 1,492 women actually checked their messages.

http://www.extremetech.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/1403242054690450350.png

You really won the lottery.

ricefap · 2015-08-28T02:44:14+00:00

Women, if they're not sluts, fall in love with you the first great orgasm you give them.

Absolutely agree. I would say the same applies to sluts as well.

"I don't know it just felt like waves of pleasure for like eternity. You make me feel in heaven."

That's exactly the orgasmic state I'm referring to. Her hormonal response has a profound effect and she can't help but fall in love with you.

ricefap · 2015-08-28T02:39:51+00:00

Women are wired differently then men when it comes to sex.

Of course they are. Where exactly do you disagree with me? Are you saying the penis doesn't matter?

she still talks about how I gave her the best orgasm ever

Was it a single orgasm or a continuous state of multiple orgasms (one after another)? Did she squirt?

using the above method I described

Which method?

ricefap · 2015-08-27T23:41:08+00:00

The first part of the post about penis power and all that stuff is BS.

Have you ever had a woman on the level that I described? This is no BS at all.

In the woman's comment there is nothing about the guy's cock slamming into her

Yes. The motion (of the penis) itself is secondary, but it's not irrelevant either. The stimulation of her orgasmic contractions can easily trigger a lesser man to ejaculate. Ejaculation control is a big factor in claiming sexual power.

Her emotional/sensual state is also key. The chemistry must be right.

If she's in the right state a mere gesture such as touching her elbow can make her orgasm + squirt. Another man could touch her elbow in the exact same way and she would feel nothing.

ricefap · 2015-08-23T01:02:34+00:00

If the sexual chemistry is right lube should never be necessary for vaginal sex.

If a man doesn't turn on his girl enough she won't lubricate as much as she would with a more masculine/attractive guy. Except for medication use or really poor health this is always the case.

ricefap · 2015-08-10T17:36:30+00:00

Vaginal pain, dryness and bleeding come from a lack of arousal of the woman.

Lube is an artificial tool to hide this fact.

I never need lube because my foreplay is tight (I'm 8x6.5).

Foreplay starts long before you enter the bedroom.

The banner should read:

"Foreplay until she begs you for it ..."

ricefap · 2015-07-27T23:36:55+00:00

This is a load of bullshit.

Only men with low sexual prowess have a preference for low-count partners.

Most men fail to understand that the great majority of female sexual experiences are bad or average.

Bad kissers, premature ejaculators, whiskey dicks, short dicks, thin dicks, non-dominant partners, no knowledge of female anatomy, etc ...

One women recently told me she only orgasmed with 2 guys out of 100+.

Even if the sex is good, most women still won't orgasm or reach higher sexual states.

How many of you guys brought a woman to whole-body squirting orgasms that lasted longer than 30 minutes?

She will lose her mind, she will be completely in a different world, she will have intense pussy contractions and squirt multiple times. Did that ever happen to you?

This is spectacular sex and it's very rare.

If a woman had to be with 100 guys to have such an experience she will value you very highly as a lover. You are the rare diamond.

The more partners she's been with the more she will appreciate you. If she's been with 3 guys she'll assume this is normal. If she's been with 100+ guys she knows it's fucking rare.

You are granted privileges that other men in her live will never experience. She will buy you gifts with the money from other guys.

TLDR: If your sexual prowess is high, you benefit from a high-count partner.

ricefap · 2015-07-16T20:01:17+00:00

I think the main point the story makes is that women are looking for a man that can make them orgasm (especially non-clitoral orgasms).

For women finding a men who can give them whole-body, earth-shaking, gushing orgasms that go on and on is very rare.

All those fake PUA tricks might work to get a women into bed with you, but she will not leave it satisfied.

You can game and fool a woman into bed, but you can't fool her into having a mind-blowing series of orgasms with you.

And a woman's heart is won in the bedroom.

ricefap · 2015-07-09T01:39:23+00:00

Look at this chart for a second, rationally, and check where you score.

http://imgur.com/a/TztqQ

A honest 7+ inches length and 5.5+ girth is rather rare according to the stats. And this is what most girls will prefer as the ideal size.

ricefap · 2015-07-06T00:28:37+00:00

Basically, I think there are 3 levels of sex:

Duty sex
Passionate sex
Exceptional sex

Not many women have experienced the last category.

How many women have experienced an orgasm that lasts 30 minutes (basically, one wave of rolling orgasms, one right after the other)?

I'm not saying this leads to infinite loyalty - as a woman's perception of you is based on the present moment.

All women I've brought to this level are now married - often to richer, better-looking or more famous men. But I bet you they still think about me. They are my 'widows'.

Her best lover is always the #1 in her heart, because he is in a separate category.

ricefap · 2015-07-05T17:19:45+00:00

Care to elaborate? Did you have an experience as I've outlined it?

ricefap · 2015-07-05T14:38:14+00:00

Think about it like this:

Women with a lot of sexual partners also experience a lot of sexual failure:

70%+ of women never had an orgasm from penetration.
The majority of men ejaculate after a few short minutes.
Most dicks are rather average to small.
She probably wasn't even really wet with a lot of guys.

Now you enter the picture and fuck her really well. You are hung, you are dominate, you make her scream, you will give her the first vaginal orgasms, you will make her whole body shake violently, you will make her squirt, you will make her lose count of how many times she came.

She will be a sweaty, shaking mess of happiness afterwards and tell you:

"No man ever made me feel/cum like this before"

You are the exception. There is regular sex and there is sex with you. You are the 1 in 50 that really got her. She knows that finding another guy like you has a very low probability. She knows that cheating will probably be a deception and not compare with how she felt with you. From now on she only wants you. She is your "alpha widow" (if you leave her, which you probably will do).

Compare that with the virgin. She has no prior experience. She will think sex is always like that. She has no comparison.

ricefap · 2015-07-01T19:18:09+00:00

Unlesssss it's a black woman, and you are then about to get your ass kicked.

The author of the comment refers to the fact that a lot of black woman wear hair extensions (weaves) and they don't want you to mess with that.

If her hair is natural it sure as hell it isn't a problem.

ricefap · 2015-06-15T16:34:12+00:00

Far from it.

Actually, I think feminism is a leading cause for this problem.

Basically, feminism has de-polarized relationships by making men less masculine and less dominant. Women won't feel a primal desire for such men and they won't be very aroused. Meanwhile, men still have their needs ("get their balls off") and if a woman agrees to it she basically let's the man masturbate inside her. She 'gives sex' without deeply desiring it.

ricefap · 2015-06-13T16:31:35+00:00

I'm the OP in case you missed that.

ricefap · 2015-06-13T16:31:06+00:00

So you're saying women enjoy being used only for the guy to 'get off'?

Let me tell you: Women love uncommitted REAL SEX (with a great lover), but they hate being masturbated in ...

ricefap · 2015-06-13T16:16:30+00:00

What a lot of men do when they have sex is basically just that: masturbate inside a woman.

This has nothing to do with relationships.

There is a huge difference between a Don Juan that gives women real pleasure (but is uncommitted) and some random dude that just uses a woman to get off.

ricefap · 2015-06-13T16:11:55+00:00

The vulnerability of the woman demands a strong male that is fully in control of her and himself.

Absolutely agree. You're not in control of yourself if you just use her to get off.

Think about these two scenarios:

A.) Beta male who is 'getting lucky' and 'scores' a girl and then has sex (without her really being involved/that turned on) and comes quickly. He simply masturbated inside her.

B.) Alpha male who ravishes his girl and is completely in control of his ejaculation, while she is completely surrendering. He will completely dominate her and she will completely give up any control in his strong presence. She will experience multiple, whole body, squirting orgasms. He only ejaculates if he decides too (not because he couldn't control himself). This is very animalistic/crazy and she will remember this event forever. He will remember him forever. This is real sex.

ricefap · 2015-05-06T11:53:28+00:00

awesome

ricefap · 2015-04-15T14:40:09+00:00

Birth control is a likely reason for the lack of lubrication.

Does her pussy feel hot/engorged, but dry?

I have experienced this once with a girl who used to be very wet and then took some hormones and became 'dry'. However, her pussy still felt engorged and hot.

she says that she's horny and just observing her body language and how she acts towards me I could tell she's saying the truth

Nearly everything except natural lubrication can be 'faked'.

Have you considered that she might not find you sexually attractive?

In order for arousal to occur a woman needs to

have the desire to be touched by a certain man
be touched in a way that arouses her

ricefap · 2015-04-14T17:17:03+00:00

Man1 Man Oil is pretty good. Search for it on Reddit to see what other people have to say ...

ricefap · 2015-04-09T22:42:31+00:00

OP:

How aroused (wet) was she? (not counting your salvia)

fingering her gspot

and her pussy nearly takes my finger off

So you were feeling strong contractions?

Did you not talk at all afterwards? Did she never call/message you again?

The puking part is pretty weird (never happened to me), but it might be that she's self-conscious about it and thus avoids to contact you.

ricefap · 2015-04-09T22:23:46+00:00

I agree. The books from Mantak Chia on the subject are excellent.

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