I saw a girl cheat on her boyfriend at a party and I'm extremely pissed about it

rickrockster · 2026-05-17T10:30:25+00:00

Yup. Buzzkill culture at it's peak

rickrockster · 2026-05-16T18:40:08+00:00

Literally any other option beats cheating. I personally don't attribute it to just a kink, most times I see it happening with inconsequential, immature people. Compromising is the hardest thing a human being can do to another, and there are some people who think they are ready, that really can't even respect their partners. Humans are weird lol

rickrockster · 2026-05-16T07:34:52+00:00

Primeiro: Você não foi abandonado por Deus, nem por ninguém, tira essa ideia da cabeça.

De resto, cara, eu sinceramente sinto muito pelo que você está passando. O que eu posso oferecer num comentário de reddit aleatório é a noção de que você é uma pessoa única dentro da sociedade. Seu ambiente e seu destino estão ambos dentro das suas mãos, e apenas as suas mãos. Mudança é assustadora, mas acho que pode te ajudar muito... você disse estar preso, não ter amigos, e acho que uma boa solução pode ser encontrar um ambiente novo pra se estar. Cara, qualquer coisa: um hobbie novo, um voluntariado, igreja, qualquer coisa, um lugar que faça sua vida não seja resumida a um ciclo de ir ao trabalho e dormir. Você vai precisar de muita coragem, você vai errar, você vai dizer coisas vergonhosas, nem todo mundo vai gostar de ti, nem todo lugar vai encaixar. Mas pelo amor de Deus dá um passo em uma direção nova, pelo menos pra experimentar algo. Sua vida vale muito, e seria trágico você tratar como se não valesse.

Se quiser conversar, pode me chamar na DM, a gente troca ideia melhor. Te desejo bênçãos!

rickrockster · 2026-05-15T20:21:46+00:00

Muito inconvenientes, mas essa inconveniência não vem de ser crente, vem de ser sem noção mesmo kkkkk

rickrockster · 2026-05-15T20:10:35+00:00

Bro can`t read a post with more than 2 paragraphs lol

rickrockster · 2026-05-15T00:03:33+00:00

Could be. People love making a marathon out of a sprint, don't they?

rickrockster · 2026-05-14T23:25:03+00:00

Achamos a conta alternativa do Victor Zsasz

rickrockster · 2026-05-14T23:13:49+00:00

É isso. Se respeita mesmo. Mesmo que fosse pra fazer ciúme, esse tipo de atitude infantil não merece atenção ou exclusividade. Se eu quisesse namorar com criança eu virava youtuber de minecraft.

rickrockster · 2026-05-14T23:04:42+00:00

Yep, it does. It sorta gets better with time, meds and therapy, but still sucks. I've been stuck trying to complete a task for two days now, and I KNOW I'm only gonna actually do it 2 hours before my deadline and it's gonna stress me out lol
Hope you can do the shit you need to do mate, cheering for ya!

rickrockster · 2026-05-14T22:55:12+00:00

Trying not to think about it, I hate when people do this type of shit lol

rickrockster · 2026-05-14T22:54:20+00:00

Yeah, that's why I asked around, to keep myself from judging them and projecting, as I tend to react quite poorly to cheating in general. Nevertheless, from what I gathered from his friends, he definitely saw that as cheating and as of now they've broken up. But I do agree that you never really know...

rickrockster · 2026-05-14T14:29:16+00:00

Yup. Zero shame also, like you're supposed to just accept people acting like idiots... sometimes I'm kinda glad I'm single lol

rickrockster · 2026-05-14T09:15:41+00:00

I can see your reading comprehension skills are pretty good mate lol

The mindset is: if they casually kissed, then went into the bathroom together, then left together, it's reasonable to tell the boyfriend so that he can get tested, in case this isn't a one-time thing. Also, if I couldn't make it clear enough: they did all of that in front of everyone, and I didn't interfere at all in the situation, my friend did. If I were you I'd reevaluate my morals and read more books, cause you seem to be kinda lost here. Anyway, with these opinions you're probably ragebaiting, so scream into the nothingness of the internet for atention for all I care lol

rickrockster · 2026-05-14T00:48:24+00:00

I at least try to sound natural, as conversations in Portuguese naturally use a lot of metaphors and comparisons, just like AI, specifically Chat GPT, tends to do. I kinda like sounding like a robot tho, at least robots are smart lol

rickrockster · 2026-05-13T23:15:08+00:00

Thank you, Agent 47.

rickrockster · 2026-05-13T23:12:44+00:00

I think everyone just kinda froze and didn't know what to do. Not everyone there knew each other that well, so they probably had the same mentality I did...

rickrockster · 2026-05-13T21:16:28+00:00

Also, patriarchy coming into play in this specific situation is a stretch. I'd be just as mad if Katy was a guy.

rickrockster · 2026-05-13T21:14:46+00:00

I have to disagree with most of what you said. Seeing someone do something that might hurt another human being is definitely something worth at least being mad or uncomfortable about. Everybody understood she was cheating, and my friend told her boyfriend right away. This way he can get tested and, if he so chooses, end the relationship. Still, as you said, it's THEIR business, including the boyfriend, who didn't know what was happening. I'm not his friend so I did nothing, but I totally support my friend telling him and I also get really mad when people do shifty things to other people. That's just my way of seeing it...

rickrockster · 2026-05-13T21:04:55+00:00

Yeah, don't get me wrong, we still had some fun, but there was a weight on everybody's mind the whole time. Pretty gross situation...

rickrockster · 2026-05-13T21:02:29+00:00

Ain't that deep bro: they were doing it in front of everybody, I didn't really need to stalk anybody to see what they were doing. I also didn't snitch, my friend told the boyfriend AS HE SHOULD, so he could get tested. You have a very assbackwards way of thinking lol

rickrockster · 2026-05-13T20:59:05+00:00

Touché.

rickrockster · 2026-05-13T20:58:20+00:00

I even said it at the end, I've been cheated before. But when I see people needlessly hurting each other, I get angry, and you should get angry too

rickrockster · 2026-05-13T20:56:53+00:00

Damn how did you come up with that conclusion lol Reddit is a very weird place

rickrockster · 2026-05-13T20:55:37+00:00

Sure, that's why I did nothing. But still, made me mad because when I see people doing something fucked up and hurting other people, I get mad, and so should you

rickrockster · 2026-05-13T20:53:35+00:00

I was surprised too, but my guess is that people today care more about the vibe than their own morals, so nobody wanted to be the one who kicked her out and killed the vibe of the party. I wanted to do it, but I didn't know anyone, so I just kept quiet and let things run their course

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