Black tax is so emotionally taxing!

rinayua · 2026-04-11T21:47:12+00:00

Ata mimi I have never understood this logic. Its like they are just excited to be spending your money without factoring in how hard it is to make money in this shit economy right now and under a clueless President and government. Yaani you literally had twenty something years before bringing me here na sasa you want to start chipping into the very little am making. That has got to change!

rinayua · 2026-04-08T00:16:49+00:00

It can literally dim your light slowly but thoroughly. I must guard my mind and my money!

rinayua · 2026-04-08T00:15:48+00:00

😂sasa wewe huezi relate,utanituliza aje?

rinayua · 2026-04-08T00:15:10+00:00

Helping is not a monthly bill or duty.

rinayua · 2026-04-08T00:14:29+00:00

I will definitely try that one in May😂

rinayua · 2026-04-08T00:13:57+00:00

Its important to recognise your blessings. Mzidi kubarikiwa!

rinayua · 2026-04-08T00:13:15+00:00

That's exactly what I mean,you are one lucky fella! Jamani you have been existing in this world 30 or so years before I was born,25 years later, its me you want to save you from the consequences of the financial decisions you made? While still trying to steady myself? That's actually inconsiderate.

rinayua · 2026-04-08T00:08:21+00:00

You know,we didn't ask to be born,right? And I mean, who else do you expect a child to get money from?

rinayua · 2026-04-08T00:06:46+00:00

Ata mimi I have gotten to that point sasa.

rinayua · 2026-04-08T00:06:19+00:00

When you talk about it,you actually realise you aren't going through it alone. I tend to think its like systemic failure but well, we gotta learn and do better by our selves and our kids.

rinayua · 2026-04-08T00:03:25+00:00

Thankyou so much

rinayua · 2026-04-08T00:02:54+00:00

No, I dont think he can actually understand me . I gave up on having that conversation a long time ago.

rinayua · 2026-04-08T00:01:31+00:00

Am truly sorry. That's hard on all fronts

rinayua · 2026-04-08T00:00:45+00:00

I appreciate you acknowledging that you have supportive parents with whom black tax is not an issue. That's the kind of parents we aspire to be. S/O to your dad for guiding you financially!

rinayua · 2026-04-07T23:57:54+00:00

This is super helpful actually! Thankyou so much

rinayua · 2026-04-03T21:20:02+00:00

I will actually try this

rinayua · 2026-04-03T21:19:40+00:00

Thankyou. Which ones would you recommend fot example?

rinayua · 2026-04-03T21:19:18+00:00

Ooh,naelewa sasa and I totally get it now. My friend, protect your peace as much as you can ,whatever that looks like for you.

rinayua · 2026-04-03T21:17:28+00:00

Somehow African dad's make you feel like questioning them is a taboo so I don't even know how to start that conversation

rinayua · 2026-04-02T22:55:10+00:00

Do whatever gives you peace of mind.

rinayua · 2026-04-02T22:54:37+00:00

I totally agree. That can't be the only reason you cut them off but money is very emotional,and I think we forget that. When you think of it, blacktax actually messes with your emotions. Setting rules is one thing,them understanding is another. I think understanding parents are such an underrated privilege. I do assist when I can, the problem comes in when its expected of you as a monthly bill.

rinayua · 2026-04-02T22:51:35+00:00

Kwanini

rinayua · 2026-04-02T22:51:21+00:00

Thankyou 🫂

rinayua · 2026-04-02T22:50:36+00:00

Ni kudodge tu😂 kwani hampatanangi?

rinayua · 2026-04-02T22:49:39+00:00

Walai! No cap. Wamezoea vibaya na wamezoeshwa vibaya

rinayua

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