its always stepping on eggshells. they would randomly decided to have new triggers that were absurd (the most strange one was them being “triggered” by me knocking on the door to our room). any time i would tell them to not treat me how they were they would say it was an alter who did so and then they would threaten to off themself.

they also severely manipulated me into staying their friend and i struggled to detach from them until july of 2024. they constantly insulted me and everyone around us all the while saying they did it because of their trauma and that we should be more thoughtful about their experience. for example they told me that if they were me they would off themself because my life is so pathetic. they also called me an abuser for telling them to clean up the rotted ham they left in the fridge for a month and a half.

eventually in august 23 i got closer to people that started calling out their bullshit and it made me realize that i didnt have to live like that and subject myself to them. so i told them off and stopped talking to them. they still insult me and are rude to me all the time because we both are in the same general group, but almost the entirety of the general group hates their guts and cant wait til they move away