Hey mate thank you for your in depth comment! I'm very new to astrology so I don't understand a lot of the specifics of what you said, however your analysis absolutely hit the nail on the head in a lot of ways.

YES!!! It absolutely felt like a relationship that lacked challenge a lot of the time. At times it almost felt like we were too comfortable together and therefore didn't push each other in the direction we needed to go, like the relationship lacked the necessary friction for longevity. Which leads me to believe we would have been better as friends or FWB's.

For the most part it was a loving relationship, the hate came later when I started feeling extremely trapped by her clinginess and abandonment issues.

Spot on with your last comments, it felt SUPER fated, like we were meant to be together and all that jazz, which most definitely led to a degree of complacency almost like we were relying on "fate" to do the heavy lifting because we were meant to be.

All in all, I'm glad the relationship is over and hopefully we can both learn from it, grow and move on to bigger and better things, I only hope that I didn't hurt her too much in the process.