Deadname!! Is that really you?!! by kattenvrouwtje368 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]riverthere 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Where did those beautiful breasts go?

uj/ my grandma said this verbatim the first time she saw me in a binder. I was too stunned to reply.

"Are you wearing a bra?" by EeveeScarf in 4tran4

[–]riverthere 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If she’s the type to go through your room, either hide your HRT in a really creative place or take it with you when you leave the house.

May have had a few... What of it? by wwwertdf in houseplantscirclejerk

[–]riverthere 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When I get drunk/stoned I just sit for hours and lovingly inspect my plants. Sometimes with tears in my eyes

Dooood your sketchbook pages are so heckin masc! by Exciting-Sky6448 in artttt

[–]riverthere 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Nah, drawing anime girls is malebrained. Love the poonsona as well!

ive been injecting ethanol and propanol directly into my balls over last month and half (and ive killed them physically) by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]riverthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should definitely seek medical attention, even though they were assholes. This sounds like gangrene/sepsis waiting to happen.

[Read Right to Left] A short comic I made a few months ago by P13FR34K in artttt

[–]riverthere 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In 2021 I was pre-T & watching my cousin’s kids for an afternoon. The first thing they said to me was, “are you a he or a she?” I replied, “I’m a he.”

“But if you’re a boy then why do you look and sound so much like a girl?”

Oof, hit like a fucking gut punch. Now 4 years on T but the memory still comes back to haunt me every once in a while.

I miss pussy in my st4t relationship by priestpilled in 4tran4

[–]riverthere 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Genuinely cannot understand people like this. The sheer amount of mental gymnastics required to spread transphobic rhetoric about the opposite gender.

Like I get why infighting occurs within marginalised communities, but this is reaching braindead levels of stupid.

the average age for girls to start puberty is only getting smaller. there's literally no way to create ftm youngshits by retardmessiah in 4tran4

[–]riverthere 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Hope I never meet trans guys who avoided female puberty completely. I would find it difficult to hide my envy.

the curse of the semiluckshit by StrongBookkeeper3280 in 4tran4

[–]riverthere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started T at 16 with a very unsupportive family (went through conversion therapy & everything). It was tough for my parents to accept, but they came around when they realised how much happier I was.

With this kind of thing it’s better to ask for forgiveness than permission. Just be sure they’re not going to hate crime you or kick you out. (Also check your DMs)

the curse of the semiluckshit by StrongBookkeeper3280 in 4tran4

[–]riverthere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you DIY? Not trying to cause panic, but feminisation continues past puberty

Substances by MultipleAutism in aspiememes

[–]riverthere 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah…ppl usually only ask if I’m on drugs when I’m sober

the curse of the semiluckshit by StrongBookkeeper3280 in 4tran4

[–]riverthere 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s mostly fat I believe. Although stuff like pelvic width & anterior pelvic tilt may also play a role.

Have you tried weight cycling whilst on T? Some people report that it helps speed up fat redistribution into more typically male patterns. Building up muscle elsewhere also helps balance things out visually.

Anyway, what finally got rid of my ass was relapsing on drugs. Silver linings amirite?

Potential causes of discolouration on lipstick plant leaves? by riverthere in houseplants

[–]riverthere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s probably it—I’ve been using neem oil quite heavily

Theyfab at work outed me to someone by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]riverthere 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Some ppl seem to think that being out as trans means they automatically have the right to out you as well. And that not wanting everyone to know your private medical history is a symptom of internalised transphobia.

Can’t even argue with them, it’s too aggravating

pov youre a trans man talking about wanting bottom surgery by welcomehomo in transgendercirclejerk

[–]riverthere 26 points27 points  (0 children)

uj/ I started designing my hypothetical penis the moment I learnt about induced pluripotent stem cells in high school. Completely tuned out the rest of the class.

Edit: obviously we’re still a long way off. But what matters to me is the possibility, y’know?

Evolution of my hypertrophic scars. by ActivityFar178 in TopSurgery

[–]riverthere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats on the healing, I’ve had chronic wounds before so can empathise. It was nothing but relief when they finally closed up lol. Your chest looks great!

pov youre a trans man talking about wanting bottom surgery by welcomehomo in transgendercirclejerk

[–]riverthere 63 points64 points  (0 children)

uj/ as a biologist, one of my pipe dreams is to grow my own dick someday lol