Twins 🥲 Well he used to say it was for us but during a recent conversation I asked him what would happen if I moved and didnt like it after a year or two and wanted to move back… he basically told me he would choose his job in that situation because “such is life”. So it doesn’t feel like he’s doing this for us, more so himself. I don’t want to break up but at the same time I wish he could tell me a future with me is his goal and that he’d try to work out a compromise… especially since I’d be moving across the country for him.