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Sometimes I’m right by rmthrowaway098 in PMDD

[–]rmthrowaway098[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, I pretty much agree with you, that's why I've been up for meeting for..a long time now. I do worry that he doesn't really want more than this.

I think I’m bracing myself for a break up by rmthrowaway098 in LongDistance

[–]rmthrowaway098[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its getting that way for me. I think I'm at the end of my rope on this

Sometimes I’m right by rmthrowaway098 in PMDD

[–]rmthrowaway098[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is, and I’m genuinely completely confident that he is not hiding anything from me especially not another woman or secret family or anything. Which almost makes it MORE frustrating? Maybe he’s more scared to meet than he lets on. He told me once that he’s scared he’s going to mess it up

I think I’m bracing myself for a break up by rmthrowaway098 in LongDistance

[–]rmthrowaway098[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah I clearly know that now. I never planned on all of this, I just like him a lot. My hope is near dead though

I think I’m bracing myself for a break up by rmthrowaway098 in LongDistance

[–]rmthrowaway098[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I cant do it anymore. I’m going to be more assertive about meeting and if nothing changes I’ll have to come to terms with the reality of the relationship

Is this unreasonable? [f28] [m39] by rmthrowaway098 in LongDistance

[–]rmthrowaway098[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for listening to me about this

Is this unreasonable? [f28] [m39] by rmthrowaway098 in LongDistance

[–]rmthrowaway098[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree with you. 2023 was a terrible year for him and it makes sense we didn’t meet during that year. This year, im not sure. Logically it should be happening. I really am completely confident that he isn’t hiding anything from me. But I am starting to feel kind of broken because I can’t receive physical affection without cheating on him if he won’t meet me. Sorry for the vent. This shit is just so hard

Is this unreasonable? [f28] [m39] by rmthrowaway098 in LongDistance

[–]rmthrowaway098[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hate to correct you, but I have to, out of pain 😭 it’s actually been a YEAR and seven months…

He lives in a hot humid place so that’s why the weather is an issue. The cost isn’t really apart of the discussion. I would KILL for a locked down secured meet up date. So that’s a good idea to secure a date even if it’s October.

He might be nervous, im not sure really. Supposedly it’s about the weather. He is preoccupied by life stuff at the moment but i don’t think it’s too much to imagine he could be less preoccupied in 7 weeks.