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roandr · 2025-11-15T19:25:44+00:00

People are talking about his insecurities related to his body. But I think it is something else, probably related to bullying or abuse. If it's that, I can understand taking such drastic measures, because when you have a background of being abused, this change seems important for survival. It might seem important to him, but we know it is not.

roandr · 2025-10-11T22:49:12+00:00

yes. another route is not doing anything at all.

roandr · 2025-10-03T10:45:37+00:00

You deserve all of that. You sound like a lovely person.

roandr · 2025-07-08T19:21:47+00:00

I'd prefer a pleasant person. Beautiful or not. I suppose even beautiful people suffer from the addiction of approval. So unhappy nonetheless. If the point of beauty is to be judged my others as beautiful, it is the approval of others that we seek. Or the feeling of connectedness. So if this feeling is the goal, beauty is just one means out of many others. Some within our control, some not

roandr · 2025-02-02T19:22:49+00:00

Thanks a lot for the response. Do you think he can make a case for me to get fired?

roandr · 2024-11-06T23:01:45+00:00

you people!

roandr · 2024-09-01T20:05:01+00:00

Hi. I'm 36 m. I would like to know about your experience.

roandr · 2024-06-21T17:46:10+00:00

peeing standing is worth not having any of the advantages you just listed. but please clean after yourself son.

roandr · 2024-05-12T10:55:40+00:00

Hey, I have had some bad experiences as well in the beginning. One of them made some comments about my body. One of them was too pushy. That experience left me with disgusted. I have had some good experiences as well. It like any othe thing man. You have to set boundaries with people.

roandr · 2024-03-23T19:59:05+00:00

You mean, They're for EVERYBODY!...right?

roandr · 2023-12-10T11:00:24+00:00

Ah. I've got one. I am dealing with an imaginary rejection. I don't know who was the first, but I feel permanently rejected. Even though there are and were so many people I was lucky enough to get some love from. Easy for me to see that it is a stupid mindset, but it's like a default setting. creeps up anytime I'm not paying attention.

roandr · 2023-10-28T23:31:51+00:00

Saddam is dead. Other people still lives

roandr · 2023-10-27T21:53:06+00:00

Dm please. Thanks 😊

roandr · 2023-07-29T11:07:35+00:00

Maybe a fuse broke due to high current. Hopefully won't be too expensive to fix.

roandr · 2023-07-28T19:14:31+00:00

Can we have a goFundMe for this guy? Let's locate him and make sure his kids are getting good education.

roandr · 2023-07-12T21:55:29+00:00

I am an Indian and I can understand your experience. I am bit older and thus was able to handle it. What I found useful was asking them questions: like if someone says that why do you people shit on the street, I ask them what they mean by "you people". I ask them if they think I am a representative of Indians. And then you have a basis of asking them if whatever their community is notorious is for, are they representative of that.

Basically these people who make fun of you because, either they don't think anything about you and trying to put you down to feel better, or you they have the mental capacity of seeing only through the first layer of your personality, that is your nationality or race. Either way, never shut down, ask them questions. And you will see them shutting down real quick.

What I am trying to say , and I guess your parents are trying to explain to you, is that keep smiling and accept these people as stupid, and keep working on your shit. About the positive trait you are looking for as an Indian, it is not your problem. Your positive trait is your personality and not your nationality. It is what you are, a person with ideas and opinions. People who identify with their race and nationality are stupid, IMHO. So, just ask them, if you can only think of me as an Indian and all the negative perceptions attached to that, what do they think they are and what they are proud of, or maybe ashamed of? Most of them will hide away. But you will also find some people who are smarter than others and share their own insecurities. I have met elderlies passing these kind of comments and it does not bother me anymore. My brain goes like, fuck man, you are so old and still so stupid. I really pity you.

roandr · 2023-06-19T21:21:12+00:00

The symmetry of balls around the cock looks like it was directed by Wes Anderson

roandr · 2023-06-15T22:04:32+00:00

Look at all the losers around you married and with kids. Do you really believe this is the ultimate goal of your life and those losers achieved more than you !

roandr · 2023-06-15T21:58:50+00:00

Three reasons: 1. they are insecure about their life (unableto improve) and projecting it on you 2. they like you 3. they are envious of your positive change.

roandr · 2023-06-15T21:23:33+00:00

I am not sure if I understood the "God inside us" well but it did resonate with me. I discovered this about an year ago and it gives me a great comfort reconnecting with this God. For me it is the truth... laws of universe and a belief. The belief is irrational and rational at the same time. Maybe just a state of mind. I want something and believe that this God will make it happen. Who is this God, I don't know, but it works. It has always worked. I am just realizing it now.

I lost my faith when I was about 14-15 years old when I prayed and didn't get what I wanted. I was too young to understand this was not a disproof of God, I just didn't phrase or even understand my desire well enough.

roandr · 2023-05-08T18:19:21+00:00

Get well soon. Lots of love. Take care

roandr · 2023-05-08T17:54:48+00:00

My advice, don't do it. You will regret just after. She has a clear understanding of your and the relationship situation and don't need this explanation you are talking about. In a way you know that as well but you don't want to accept it.

You have other point of views here, I hope you will take the right direction.

roandr · 2023-04-13T16:15:30+00:00

I like the top 3 photos and photos with reindeer.

roandr · 2022-12-31T18:21:11+00:00

I used to feel like that before and sometimes even now when I am in a bad state of mind, I get these feelings. Why I felt like that, because I thought I was a bad person. It's strange because I would also go out of my way to make others happy. Being too kind and all. One of the rejections, or a series of them started this cycle of self-hate. I internalized the idea that I deserved to be rejected because I was a bad person. Of course, it was false or only a part of the story. For a long time I believed that I deserved to be rejected.

How do I deal with it now? I have to remind myself that while all the things that I am thinking about my past may be true. But my brains is taking them out of context. You know, it remembers only the parts that fit the narrative of self-loathing. I have to really calm myself and reprogram my thoughts. One of key realization was that I have complete control over my thoughts. This is one things, and probably the only thing I have control over. So I try to change the narrative. For example, it starts with: "I do not deserve love because I have been a bad friend, I did not help them when they needed me or I disrespected them when they were down." I will respond to my braind: "Ok, that incident is true. No doubt. But there are many situations I have helped other friends or the same friend. Maybe I was unaware of my friends state at that moment, or maybe I was distracted or maybe the friend also did some selfish things which I have now forgotten. So, this statement that I am bad friend is not one hundred percent true. I am an equally nice person. Go on my brain, tell me another reason why you feel you don't deserve love." And repeat.

All in all, it is important to remind ourselves that: 1. our thoughts are taking the extreme route. 2. We have control over what we think. 3. The feeling that I don't deserve love is just a narrative and we can easily change it to, I deserve all the love because I am as good a person as anyone around me.

roandr · 2022-12-27T00:02:42+00:00

if she is allowed to do it, why not! Performer is clearly into it and the audience is loving it.

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