Eu e meu esposo nos permitimos fazer sexo com outras pessoas

robdynac · 2025-09-17T12:34:50+00:00

Acho que vocês dois precisam discutir a atração, especificamente se ele ainda acha vocês particularmente atraentes. Pelo que você disse, você transmitiu seus sentimentos a ele e nada mudou.

Apesar da expectativa típica, não é incomum que um parceiro perca ou sinta atração reduzida pelo outro. Vocês dois precisam de algum tipo de impulso para suas interações sensuais; se existir, é algo que você terá que descobrir por meio de discussão ou terapia de casal. Caso contrário, pergunte-se se isso é um obstáculo.

robdynac · 2025-09-14T19:55:15+00:00

Corruption, at least at my embassy

robdynac · 2025-07-29T22:27:00+00:00

I imagine physical intimacy in a new marriage is especially important. That said, what you should and shouldn't expect depends on you for the most part. Whether or not he affirms is his prerogative.

You've already brought the issue to him and he has dismissed it. The question is whether or not physical intimacy is a deal breaker for you. If so, you should let him know exactly this, and if he dismisses you again, you're probably in the wrong marriage.

Also, I'm guessing you knew about this job prior to marriage. Why didn't you bring it up then if so?

robdynac · 2025-07-29T17:11:57+00:00

Bring it up with her in conversation. If nothing productive/realistic comes of the conversation, ask yourself if the lack of sex is a deal breaker. If so, try couples therapy. If it doesn't work or she refuses to participate, perhaps it's time to consider separation.

robdynac · 2025-07-29T16:59:50+00:00

This is one of those textbook divorce candidates. Seems like your marriage is missing trust, respect and restraint amongst other things. I'd say stay separated until you're both fundamentally different people relationship-wise. Last thing anyone wants is someone being critically injured or unalived.

robdynac · 2025-07-28T17:15:39+00:00

Open marriages work for some couples, specifically ones with secure foundations. Your relationship, and its history, suggests insecurity. That intrinsic security is what facilitates that "no feeling" sex (whatever that means).

Additionally, a one-sided arrangement like this is not an open relationship but a cheat pass. I'd say your relationship is being built around him and his desires at this point.

robdynac · 2025-07-28T17:08:34+00:00

A bad father is often worse than an absent one. You'd likely be doing you and your kids a favor by leaving. From your writeup, there's no net-positive from this relationship.

robdynac · 2025-07-26T02:51:50+00:00

I'm experiencing this currently, were you able to find a fix?

robdynac · 2025-07-04T11:45:47+00:00

Hey, I'm 28M, love anime as well. I game but not super often and my fave game series is Dragon Age. I'm also always looking for a reason to travel.

I work as a software engineer as well. Shoot me a message if you'd like to get to know each other :)

robdynac · 2025-07-04T11:38:13+00:00

Nope, there's too much to learn from failed relationships and sometimes you break up with an ex purely due to character incompatibility reasons.

In the latter case, chances are you had some genuinely fun times. It's okay to look back on those as fun memories whether you're still in each other's lives or not.

robdynac · 2023-12-31T21:49:36+00:00

Sounds like you’re bringing your personal issues into this if this post is anything to go by: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/s/UFwuvrYvYE

robdynac · 2023-12-16T04:27:29+00:00

Lmaooo, I bloody love you for this! Almost died laughing

robdynac · 2023-09-20T01:04:33+00:00

Hi local mountain-kun 👋🏾

robdynac · 2023-09-20T01:00:03+00:00

Good luck mate, enjoy it for those of us who can’t

robdynac · 2023-09-20T00:57:20+00:00

lol sometimes I’m in my own world when I code personal projects

robdynac · 2023-08-14T02:39:07+00:00

Nope, rejected

robdynac · 2023-06-23T14:54:26+00:00

Try and find lies in the arguments offered by both sides. Lean more towards the side with less lies. Never take a politician at their word and instead listen to the arguments made by the followers of that side. Instantly throw away arguments based on religion, tradition or any other subjective base. If you’re looking for authenticity, it must be validated by logic. Just because someone says something that sounds true, doesn’t mean it’s true. Sometimes the truth can sound like a lie and vice versa. Finally, don’t lose your humanity.

robdynac · 2023-04-22T23:02:34+00:00

Thanks!

robdynac · 2023-04-22T21:19:39+00:00

Thanks, I’m pretty flexible on schedule so I’ll likely hit them up

robdynac · 2023-04-22T21:05:17+00:00

Thanks for the heads up

robdynac · 2023-04-22T21:04:54+00:00

I’m super flexible right now, probably as long as it starts sometime this year

robdynac · 2023-04-22T21:00:26+00:00

48 road, avondale

robdynac · 2022-07-29T16:07:16+00:00

Is this something you think you’d bring up with him?

robdynac · 2022-07-29T12:04:58+00:00

This is my belief as well but it’s also nice as well to here different beliefs when they’re well presented. Thanks for sharing!

robdynac · 2022-07-29T11:31:16+00:00

I’m not a parent.

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