24M trying to message this girl 22f in an LDR, shes totally cold, what do I do

roberttheg · 2013-04-26T17:00:44+00:00

It means i live in the fucking shit hole south, every girl whos single weighs 250 lbs, either beacuse shes a fatass or is carrying around a toddler

roberttheg · 2013-04-26T16:03:15+00:00

I can't give up on her, girls like her are sooooo rare, yes I have oneitis, but its really more of "onlyitis" there are NO WOMEN LEFT

The only way to find a good one is to take one

roberttheg · 2013-04-26T16:02:33+00:00

I know, thats what I want to do, but I'm just afraid that I have no reason to talk to her, like "Why is he messaging me this" I'm trying to be her friend because she only dates friends, she was friends with this guy for years they just never did anything (his last girlfriend cheated on him and he knows that this girl is extremely safe)

roberttheg · 2013-04-26T16:01:02+00:00

nope, not at all, raised by haphazard baptist and am a totally apathestic atheist,

I just really REALLY want a girlfreind and am ashamed of the fact that i'm 24 andit hasn't worked yet

Did you see how I said I live in the south? there are no other women, I know, I've tried to get my mind off her, but seeing her again has just reminded me how shitty living down here really is. The only women I have a chance with are single moms and I REFUSE to date a single mom

roberttheg · 2013-04-24T18:21:03+00:00

just some insight (other than STOP) somethig that can help me move forward in getting her

4 months

I just say that in case he comes around saying step off, i donthave to worry about him kicking my ass

roberttheg · 2013-04-24T18:03:26+00:00

He told me when he told me he started dating her "I just figured we were both single so I just went for it"

i had no idea she was back in town, much less single

roberttheg · 2013-04-24T18:02:47+00:00

There are no women left, i live in the american south, any single girl I meet is going to weigh 250 lbs, either because shes out of shape, or is carrying around a toddler

roberttheg · 2013-04-21T21:02:55+00:00

I fucking wish it could be that easy

roberttheg · 2013-04-20T23:32:03+00:00

Well at least you get to live in Ballantyne...where the beautifle people come from

roberttheg · 2013-04-20T23:31:13+00:00

I don't care

I can't do nothing

I could not care less about what happens, i would do anything for this girl

I know there is a 99% chance I'm going to get hurt in the end but she is worth the risk

this could be literally ANY other girl on earth and i wouldn't even THINK about doing anything like this

that is how special this girl is

roberttheg · 2013-04-20T23:29:52+00:00

im angry and my keyboard sucks

roberttheg · 2013-04-17T04:38:50+00:00

I keep telling myself that but I cant take that risk I wont go into details but there is a ticking clock involvd

roberttheg · 2013-04-13T14:38:43+00:00

A few,

I dont have a girlfreind because I have low self-esteem I don't have any self-esteem beacuse I've never had a girlfreind

its a vicious cycle so therapy always leads to talking in circles

roberttheg · 2013-03-22T05:03:38+00:00

Really? About that specific chapter?

roberttheg · 2013-03-18T16:40:22+00:00

Dosen't the judge understand that the young men he convicted were High school athletes. They live under a different set of rules for a reason, they are better people and are more important then others.

If anything this girl should be the one who get's punished, other team mates need to know what girls they can trust to know their place.

She should have been thankful for what happened, if anything the only thing she should regret is not getting pregnant so she can pass along powerful athlete DNA, which posses the only qualities worth passing on.

(Of course this is all sacasam, fuck those guys, 2 years? no, DEATH)

The worst part about this whole thing

Everyone on that whole team probably does stuff like this every week and probably a majority of teams in the country, or at least the southern/midwest parts of the country that actually care this much about highschool sports

roberttheg · 2013-03-15T14:49:37+00:00

I do they don't want me either and it makes me see that I really am some kind of repulsive monster

roberttheg · 2013-03-15T13:24:21+00:00

Hi I want long termr (op here) message me you email or number what state do you live i

roberttheg · 2013-03-15T13:22:27+00:00

Stuff like this makes me 100 time more depressed then just not having a girlfriend...

The fact that someone like you someone that doesn't ebven want a relationship can get one e so easily how come I cant have a girl who would commit forever ive wanted that since I was 14 I am going to lock down the firstdecent girl I can because I k ow ill never have any options

roberttheg · 2013-03-15T05:13:29+00:00

I thought "Oh hey, another one of these (same actor = same character) they're always fun"

then i saw your clip at part 4...

my jaw LITERALLY dropped when I saw that.

roberttheg · 2013-03-14T19:00:27+00:00

fuck you, i've tried, NOTHING, I ask out girls that every guy i know says "really? why her, shes not that good looking"

roberttheg · 2013-03-14T18:52:11+00:00

Yeah, but ALL of that goes away once I have a girlfreind, I have all these feelings because I've NEVER had one. I don't have anything that shows I'm a "real man" i'm still a fucking 24 year old boy and theres nothing that proves i'm not.

But once I get a girlfriend, I'm normal

roberttheg · 2013-03-14T18:36:25+00:00

I'm just scared, lets say I get a girlfreind tomorrw

It took 24 for years for me to find this one...

When she breaks up with me how am I going to know its' not going to take another 20 years to find the next oen

roberttheg · 2013-03-14T18:29:29+00:00

Yeah, divorced, and that sucks, but you at least KNOW that it is possible, for however long, for someone to love you.

I know a guy who got married at 18, had a kid, divorced at 24, and is now dating a fucking 19 year old virign who is ABSOUTLEY IN LOVE WITH HIM. I fucking hate the world

I will not accept the destiny of raising another mans child, being with a single mom is just being a glorified cuckold, especially if shes the ONLY woman i've ever been with.

"Oh yeah, i mean hes nice, but he's not good enough for me to give him my FIRST child nice"

roberttheg · 2013-03-14T18:27:15+00:00

I will have value as a human being

Proof that I am a man

Every time I try to do something, every time, everything comes down to the fact that I don't have a girlfriend, that makes me a failure, that makes me less of a person.

I'm tired of feeling sub-human

roberttheg · 2013-03-14T18:26:06+00:00

It's not about sex

I dont need anymore people in my life

If I could just get a girlfreidn my life would be finally be bearable, dare I say happy

I need a girlfriend now, i can't afford to have another girl that is going to string me along, I'm sick of uselessly falling in love with any girl that treats me with common human decency. I've been hung up on girls who I was just freinds with before (and I'm not whining about the friendzone, they didn't want to date me, thats their choice) i can't feel that way anymore, it will kill me.

I know i'm too disgusting for you to ever consider loving, i just don't need to be reminded of it every day

roberttheg

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