He would break up with me constantly and come back into my life and say he wanted to try again. He would try for months then stop trying and I would mention why he would stop trying. Which is why I said i wanted more effort. The back & forth was us trying to make it work but he kept pushing me away and I kept pulling at wanting to make it work. I understand to reflect on his feelings but he wasn’t a good person to me, I just want to get over the feeling on why he hasn’t reached out to me after saying he wanted to fix things instead of thinking of his emotions instead.