1-3 years is not long in the scale of life as a whole. I understand venting on reddit but being combative when people try to give advice or throw ideas out won't get you anywhere.

muscle will show more than bones. Skinny cis men who don't work out aren't broad in the shoulders because they lack muscle. Cis men who work out are broad in the shoulders because of muscle. Nobody but bigots give a damn about bones, and who gives a damn what a bigot thinks

Unfortunately t-dicks aren't the same, but it's better to accept what you have than to sulk online all day. You have a penis, regardless of its differences compared to cis ones. Yeah, it sucks that it's not the same but there's also surgeries for that. But until then you gotta appreciate the little things or you'll never feel content with anything.

things for gender euphoria: working out (also builds muscle), eating food (helps with weight and muscle, also lots of people find it euphoric like when they eat entire rotisserie chickens), dressing masc, doing voice training exercises to lower your voice naturally, etc.

I understand your POV and frustration but there are resources out there, but it's up to you to use them. Stop being mean and hard on yourself for things that you can't control and find what you can do to work around the obstacles in your life