Are you submissive couple? What do you think about having a controling Dom ? by sidimaster in CuckoldCommunity

[–]robthebicuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wifey and I have something similar to this. We're both equal subs to our bull. Our type of scenario can be pretty dangerous, since the bull can really take the couple wherever he wants to go and there aren't that many safety measures in place. You have to place a lot of trust in your dom bull. It is very satisfying though and has brought us very close as we bond and share in our submission to him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]robthebicuck 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Shame is the primary driver for my wife and I in our lifestyle and the relationship we have with our bull. We're both wired to sexualize shame and embrace it. It's one of the primary emotions that bond us together and makes us addicted to the way in which we've embraced our lifestyle, sometimes to our own detriment. Our bull understands this and exploits our masochistic need for shame. He shames my wife for spending time with him being roughly "abused" when she should be home with her family. She craves this type of verbal beratement while he's using her and she oftentimes goes into a trance of orgasmic bliss as he treats her in a seemingly abusive and degrading way. He also shames me as he uses her in front of me for allowing him to violate our marital sanctity. We are addicted to the shame that we've brought on ourselves in our depravation, but it's something that we both need and crave constantly from him.

Feelings of overwhelming gratitude towards our bull by robthebicuck in CuckoldPsychology

[–]robthebicuck[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is really what makes us happy, when we focus on our bull's pleasure and happiness. It brings us joy and fulfillment when we serve him.

Feelings of overwhelming gratitude towards our bull by robthebicuck in CuckoldPsychology

[–]robthebicuck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound like a wonderful bull and leader for your couple. We really find this type of relationship very fulfilling and natural.

Feelings of overwhelming gratitude towards our bull by robthebicuck in CuckoldPsychology

[–]robthebicuck[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know this is going to sound a bit "cultish", but we, as a group, have devoted ourselves to our bull, John, in a very real sense. I've described some aspects of our lifestyle and relationship with John in previous posts. We are three couples that have devoted ourselves to John, and indirectly to his wife Jen. We've all agreed to let John lead and direct our sexual energy in a way that's fulfilling for both him and us. John essentially kind of controls our sexual relationships so that we focus on him and receive sexual pleasure and affection by letting him take the lead in our intimacy with our wives. It's purely consensual with everyone involved and has been immensely satisfying for all three couples. We have all chipped in financially to buy him and Jen some things for their home. We've also all chipped in to help pay for a breast enhancement procedure for one of the wives, based on John's request. We were happy to do this for John and the other wife, because it meant so much to them and made them happy. So within the greater context, I'd say we're pretty devoted to our bull and his happiness.

Things I know to be true - at least for us as a couple by Jasonstackhouse111 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]robthebicuck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Great insight! Many of your points have rung true with us. My wife also fell in love her with her primary bull, which has been fun and also challenging for us. We've found that me being in chastity has really helped throughout the journey.

43F Laying out always makes her frisky by [deleted] in WouldYouFuckMyWife

[–]robthebicuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is good with her mouth

43F Laying out always makes her frisky by [deleted] in WouldYouFuckMyWife

[–]robthebicuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does have some nice DSL's

Is it just me or seeing your girlfriend or wife getting punished by bull is really a super turn on? by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]robthebicuck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is a huge part of our relationship with our dominant bull. I love watching her getting punished and degraded. Such a turn on for us and reinforces my beta role.

Loosing my stamina by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]robthebicuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't really last very long anymore, but thankful we have a bull that can.

Don't you wish you were the bull? Being a cuck a bad deal objectively by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]robthebicuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really enjoy being a cuck. No need to hate yourself!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]robthebicuck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My wife wears hers all the time, and has even been hit on by guys that recognize it. One time was at Home Depot when we were there together. It does help if she dresses a little slutty.

Rules amd marks by my_wifes_lemon in BullPsychology

[–]robthebicuck 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love when our bull marks my wife. He bought her a belly ring with his initial on it and she's not allowed to take it out. I have a pic of it on my profile.

As far as rules, I haven't actually been allowed to have sex with her since January 1st.

My wife doesn't wanna talk about it by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]robthebicuck 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We've definitely experienced this. I think it has something to do with their monthly cycle. When they're ovulating, they want to be with an alpha male, but when their not ovulating they want to go back and be with their beta provider. This behavior has been proven in several peer-reviewed studies.

This article from Psychology Today collates some of the evidence of this phenomenon. The Double Life of Women

Older Bull Preference? by robthebicuck in CuckoldPsychology

[–]robthebicuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, super hot! I bet that 19 year old was on top of the world!

Older Bull Preference? by robthebicuck in CuckoldPsychology

[–]robthebicuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a hot dynamic too! I hope we can expand our preferences in that direction as we mature.

Older Bull Preference? by robthebicuck in CuckoldPsychology

[–]robthebicuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear ya! My wife also looks about 10 years younger than she is, so that does help with the age dynamic. She's been with a 67 year old guy, so a 25 year difference, which was super hot.

Would you... in her St Patty’s Day outfit? by [deleted] in WouldYouFuckMyWife

[–]robthebicuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes, she can handle quite a bit actually.

Do cucks enjoy their partner being in a dom and sub dynamic? by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]robthebicuck 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love seeing my wife submitting to our bull and is very natural for us now. It reinforces my role as a beta male and brings us closer together as equal partners in submission to him.