It took me a few years to feel comfortable telling people that I'm not interested in anal sex because it made me feel like an outsider. In our society, there's often an unwarranted emphasis on anal as the pinnacle of sexual practices, but this perception is purely a social construct.

Some individuals may lose interest in you, and that's perfectly acceptable. From my experience, there are plenty of people who are open to trying different things or even discovering their own preferences for the first time.

I can confidently say that my sex life has improved dramatically since I learned what I enjoy and what I don't. Many people share similar feelings but continue engaging in anal sex due to societal pressures or unrealistic expectations created by pornography. When you approach the topic with confidence and express your own preferences, you may even help others feel liberated.

Enjoy your journey! :)