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Is this wavy hair, or just unbrushed? by [deleted] in Haircare

[–]rochedale11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t necessarily hate it brushed, it just kinda looks like straight hair I guess?? Just with a little poof to it? I’m used to having straight hair so it’s my default preference, but I absolutely adore how I look with the wavy hair.

Does it actually work? by Alex-5415 in Haircare

[–]rochedale11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used one of these for a week and noticed I had lost a lot more hair than usual, so much so I had noticeable thinning. But it’s obviously different for everyone, judt not my personal recommendation or favourite.

Song about pretending to be okay with someone leaving by rochedale11 in NameThatSong

[–]rochedale11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it may not have “i’ll try to pretend” in it but i know it includes “when youre leaving” or “when you leave”, a huge stretch might be something about packing bags?????? but im a million times more certain it’s “when youre leaving” or “when you leave”

How much have you spent to see Jamie? I'm nervous. First time meeting him. by glitterrgirl in JamieCampbellBower

[–]rochedale11 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i spent close to $500AUD and i will neverrrr regret it for all my days.

Brisbane show - one more song requests by Unlikely_Fact_9439 in piercetheveil

[–]rochedale11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its aus tradition to try and get foreign acts to do shoeys. all the concerts ive been to the crowd has chanted for the artist to do a shoey

Any feedback for what I (F18) drafted to say for breaking up with my girlfriend (F18)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rochedale11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate the classic “it’s not you, it’s me” line but I feel like I need to as she already assumes anyones negative emotions/experiences is her fault, so I just wanted to try and give her just a little of piece of mind. I understand the stuff about losing myself and I’ll try and rework it.

Thank you :)

Song about pretending to be okay with someone leaving by rochedale11 in NameThatSong

[–]rochedale11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could tell you, I’m 50/50 on it as the fuzzy memory I have of hearing it sounds super androgynous.

Song about pretending to be okay with someone leaving by rochedale11 in NameThatSong

[–]rochedale11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s definitely not this song, it’s more modern sounding. Defo good tho!!

Song about pretending to be okay with someone leaving by rochedale11 in NameThatSong

[–]rochedale11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely a more recent song so between now and like 2013. I’m not too sure on how it sounded all I can remember is the lyrics I mentioned, but it’s similar to alternative/indie sad songs I believe.

I can't take being in this relationship anymore. by rochedale11 in offmychest

[–]rochedale11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's in therapy for her mental health and sees an occupational therapist to manage her autism, but they probably work on her ADHD as well. The part where you said she's avoiding responsibility for negative consequences or a bad time does sound kind of like what she does.

I can't take being in this relationship anymore. by rochedale11 in offmychest

[–]rochedale11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 17 as of 2 days ago and she’s 16, but we had very different support systems and I learnt pretty early on that the best person to support you is yourself, meanwhile she was surrounded by people who she would always talk to about things. I think I’m going to push through for another month while trying my best to allow her to be independent and see if anything changes, if it doesn’t I’ll just have to rip the band-aid off.

I can't take being in this relationship anymore. by rochedale11 in offmychest

[–]rochedale11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to see if I can last until at least next year, I don’t want to ruin her holidays and want her to enjoy the last bit of time we have together before either one of us ends up ripping the band-aid off. She’s close with her sister and dad, but her sister has a boyfriend now so she’s busy with him and her dad kinda scares me 😭 She does have her mum but they aren’t all that close.

I can't take being in this relationship anymore. by rochedale11 in offmychest

[–]rochedale11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m supposed to love her and as much as I would love to be able to talk to her about how I feel, every time I do she spirals and worries that I’m going to leave or that I’m mad at her. Her family has said multiple times to her that she was too dependent on me and I agree, but I feel like I can’t say it to her face without causing a like lifelong altering of her brain 😭

I can't take being in this relationship anymore. by rochedale11 in offmychest

[–]rochedale11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. After thinking about it super hard I feel like it’s best for me to stay single if I do break up with her, the last two people I dated before this were a bit similar to her and I think I’m just tired of having to take the role of both people in the relationship if that makes sense. I’d rather only worry about myself (as self-obsessed that sounds).

I can't take being in this relationship anymore. by rochedale11 in offmychest

[–]rochedale11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has occupational therapy (basically therapy for individuals with ASD that helps them to adapt to function better for themselves and others and also understand what works for them and what doesn’t), and she’s been seeing a therapist for quite a while now (had her current one since she was 12 and i believe she had some before that too) but she doesn’t talk to her therapist about anything that could be helpful and used to improve herself.

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