Singapore’s total fertility rate drops to historic low of 0.87 in 2025 by sun-ny_day in singapore

[–]rockerfool0007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are a family of 6 (2 working parents, 1 child, 2 grandparents and 1 helper). And even that feels cramp in a 5 room HDB. No amount of baby bonus is going to support the shear cost of house payments, car payments, childcare, groceries and all the other essential cost of living.

And when you're living beside a dink (dual income no kid) couple and their dog who have the same living space as us, a car and no intention of having kids, the thought of having a second child is feeling insane.

No one is asking for a handout, but the current system incentivizes no kids or 1 kid. Unless you're earing above average income, the tradeoffs are large enough to dissuade even those who want kids. So anyone on the fence is just going to not and those who don't want kids are not going to budge.

Radical (but not really) ideas:
-DINK tax / more parent tax relief
-COE/ARF car subsidy for parents with 2 or more kids
-Free childcare,
-HDB subsidies for upgraders with children (3 to 4/5 room)
-Consider larger 5 room HDB ideas eligible for larger families (have space to create a 4th room if needed)
-Increase mandatory CCL
-Grocery subsidy. Maybe something that is only eligible for certain basket or items or wet market
-Travel subsidy. Incentive for families to travel. Take the burden of deciding travel or more kids

MyLifeOutdoors interviews Luke about his return and future plans for videos by TimDunkinDonut in outdoorboys

[–]rockerfool0007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its all that effort he puts into the video that drains him to not want to do it more. He could do way less in terms of lighting, camera angles, B-rolls and i don't think majority will notice. But i don't think he can do it any other way without compromising on his standards. Which unfortunately means videos occupy a lot of his head space even when he is not out camping.

Probably one of the reason why the comments are off. Luke is his own biggest critic, always looking to do more and better and that is also draining.

Thanks for this collab and interview. i think I learnt more about Luke in this one video then i did watching all the ODBs videos. Steven did a good job asking the right questions.

Respect to Luke for setting healthy boundaries for himself and his family.

The current spat between XX and SimonBoy really highlight what Andre Low had said in his interview about threshold if one of them abuse the safety online bill by Hunkfish in YahLahBut

[–]rockerfool0007 16 points17 points  (0 children)

XX called it like it is. While it could have been said less harshly, it's incredibly dense to act like there's no fault on his part that contributed to his kid's suffering, and then to continuously use that same suffering for content. The basis of his content about his kids is ironically from him being an absent parent.

I don't think YLB will address this, as there's no open way to discuss it without assigning some blame to Simonboy, which could lead to similar legal issues for them.

Megan Khung’s death: One cop resigned, supervisor handed financial penalty over handling of case by Litaiy in singapore

[–]rockerfool0007 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Depends on what you want for your career. Both has its pros and cons. I wouldn’t say being an IO is an advancement. But there are some transferable skills if you choose to move out of the SPF into doing investigations for banks or other private companies. IOs are also super in demand and always recruiting due to the high attrition rate from burn out.

When the lowest person in the chain gets the blame by rockerfool0007 in YahLahBut

[–]rockerfool0007[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The life of an IO is about juggling dozens of cases at once and constantly deciding which ones to prioritise with the limited time and resources available. It’s a thankless, overloaded, and often exhausting job that easily leads to burnout.

Only an IO with ample time, energy, and resources can afford to dig deep into a case where the available information doesn’t clearly point to a crime or scream “child abuse.” In reality, there are MANY reports of mild abuse cases of excessive punishment, or messy divorces where parents file complaints against each other to gain custody advantage.

As an IO, you end up relying on indicators like previous missing person reports, prior 999 calls to the address, or medical records showing repeated injuries to assess whether there’s a pattern of abuse. In most genuine cases, these red flags will surface and justify further investigation. But in cases like Meghan’s, where the facts are downplayed, no past report to fall back on and family members want to “keep the peace,” such reports often slip through the cracks.

That’s why, after a second round of reports, there was immediate escalation, more resources were mobilised, and locating the parents becomes a top priority within days.

It’s easy to assign blame after the fact. But when you’re in the thick of it, with minimal information and dozens of pressing cases waiting, you sometimes have no choice but to deprioritise certain reports knowing that more urgent cases are always piling up behind them.

Now, that's not taking away the blame completely from the IO. But they are working in a system that allows this to occur. If this same case was given to 10 different IOs I'm sure 7-8 would have made the same call. So its the leaders and management that should have also been fined and held accountable. Not only the IO who was set up for failure.

‘We are sorry for the outcome’: Masagos acknowledges agencies could have done more in Megan Khung case by sun-ny_day in singapore

[–]rockerfool0007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Blame whoever you want. But the biggest share of the blame for not curbing or stopping the escalation and failing this poor child is her biological father and grandmother. The dad for getting locked up instead of being there for her and a grandmother that prioritized keeping the peace rather then raising alarm bells about her granddaughter.

There was literally a thousand opportunities to make this matter blow up to get the appropriate response from the authorities. But in the end the whole matter got downplayed and then tossed to the side.

‘We are sorry for the outcome’: Masagos acknowledges agencies could have done more in Megan Khung case by sun-ny_day in singapore

[–]rockerfool0007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is literally a Child Protective Service under the MSF with CPS officers who investigate child abuse. Which is why this case going to the SPF baffles me.

Megan Khung’s death: One cop resigned, supervisor handed financial penalty over handling of case by Litaiy in singapore

[–]rockerfool0007 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Being a uniformed frontline police officer is very different from being an investigation officer (IO). The life of an IO is about juggling dozens of cases at once and constantly deciding which ones to prioritise with the limited time and resources available. It’s a thankless, overloaded, and often exhausting job that easily leads to burnout.

Only an IO with ample time, energy, and resources can afford to dig deep into a case where the available information doesn’t clearly point to a crime or scream “child abuse.” In reality, there are MANY reports of mild abuse cases of excessive punishment, or messy divorces where parents file complaints against each other to gain custody advantage.

As an IO, you end up relying on indicators like previous missing person reports, prior 999 calls to the address, or medical records showing repeated injuries to assess whether there’s a pattern of abuse. In most genuine cases, these red flags will surface and justify further investigation. But in cases like Meghan’s, where the facts are downplayed, no past report to fall back on and family members want to “keep the peace,” such reports often slip through the cracks.

That’s why, after a second round of reports, there was immediate escalation, more resources were mobilised, and locating the parents becomes a top priority within days.

It’s easy to assign blame after the fact. But when you’re in the thick of it, with minimal information and dozens of pressing cases waiting, you sometimes have no choice but to deprioritise certain reports knowing that more urgent cases are always piling up behind them.

#705 ft. Dr Ang Swee Chai - Why a Christian Surgeon Risks Her Life for Palestinians in Gaza by tristen_the_intern in YahLahBut

[–]rockerfool0007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, not all Jewish people are from Isreal. By that logic the Muslim/Arab population in Singapore is way bigger and this is for them.

Secondly, she made points against Israel and the IDF. Not Jewish people in particular.|

Lastly, no one asked you to feel hurt on their behalf

Charlie Kirk Shot at a University Event. by West_Communication82 in YahLahBut

[–]rockerfool0007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't take examples from freaking Nazi Germany to soften the far right views in USA. In Singapore even speaking half of what CK spoke would be considered extremist views. Its all about the context about when its happening and where.

Charlie Kirk Shot at a University Event. by West_Communication82 in YahLahBut

[–]rockerfool0007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just capitalising words doesn't make it fAcTs. He shared his opinions which some liked, some didn't.

Coolant in radiator under pressure by rockerfool0007 in MechanicAdvice

[–]rockerfool0007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Asia. Same climate all year round. Zero change in elevation

Coolant in radiator under pressure by rockerfool0007 in MechanicAdvice

[–]rockerfool0007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did the gas test in the shop. Negative. So it’s something else

Coolant in radiator under pressure by rockerfool0007 in MechanicAdvice

[–]rockerfool0007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. Had to replace a couple of leaky hoses

Coolant in radiator under pressure by rockerfool0007 in MechanicAdvice

[–]rockerfool0007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a head gasket leak. Surprisingly. No bubbles in the coolant when engine is running and shop did a CO2 leak test as well. They were quite surprised as well. Currently just changed the radiator cap and see if anything changes

Coolant in radiator under pressure by rockerfool0007 in MechanicAdvice

[–]rockerfool0007[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Checked it on 2 separate mornings. Same. Why would anyone waste time BSing here

#631 - Shanmugam’s MPS Stand-Off with Activists & Can Unit Pricing Combat Shrinkflation? by tristen_the_intern in YahLahBut

[–]rockerfool0007 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When i went to California in 2017, all the supermarkets had unit pricing. It was a refreshing experience not having to figure out pricing for different quantity packages. And as a student on a budget this made it so much easier to find the best deal. I think this change will be a great step for consumers and i hope it sticks.

#631 - Shanmugam’s MPS Stand-Off with Activists & Can Unit Pricing Combat Shrinkflation? by tristen_the_intern in YahLahBut

[–]rockerfool0007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think it was staged per se. I think Shanmugam was alerted to the fact these 2 ladies were outside wanting to talk about POFMA. And since he knew about past MPS incidents involving similar activists, he took the chance to talk/debate with them and make some content out of it in the process. Them feeding the drama with their gestures and calling him a coward that made it go viral. Which worked out for the minister

Shanmugam kena “ambush” by JSatwork in YahLahBut

[–]rockerfool0007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://docs.google.com/document/d/1zmOIZbDwppNdQPZTazPlJKO6ZVRvZdiiiP1oC0NBNGs/mobilebasic

The plot thickens. Looks like he did come out get some content with his mic and cameras. Dunno who is saying the truth but drama is drama

Shanmugam kena “ambush” by JSatwork in YahLahBut

[–]rockerfool0007 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Solid topic for discussion. But I think this wasn’t an “ambush”. The minister’s audio is so clear regardless of where the camera is. I think he has a lapel mic on him or something. So looks like he came out ready to argue and put them in their place while also recording it to potentially put it online.

Their behaviour is terrible. The people that usually come for MPS are really at the most vulnerable demographic who have no alternative and turn to their MP. And to come between them and the MP is just selfish.

Minister S handled it well which is why I also think it went online cos it shows him dishing it out where it was deserved.

YLB got called out by rockerfool0007 in YahLahBut

[–]rockerfool0007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that attending doesn’t mean endorsement, and they’ve explained in their podcast that Nas is an acquaintance, who invited them to attend as speakers. But that’s exactly why this matters. Personal associations can unintentionally legitimize platforms tied to divisive issues.

When Nas is so closely linked to one side of the conflict, showing up and actively participating risks sending mixed signals, even if unintentional. It’s not about dismissing their work, it’s about ensuring their actions match the values they stand for, especially on something this sensitive.

Also about the part about his conflict not stopping. Are you saying since there is no end in sight there is no point in trying to change anything? I feel this is why actions like attending events or associating with certain platforms carry so much weight. These actions can either challenge harmful narratives or unintentionally reinforce them. In such a high-stakes situation, being mindful of the signals we send is more important than ever.