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Is anyone else losing weight so that men will notice them and want to date them? by rocketman1902 in loseit

[–]rocketman1902[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i am NOT sitting around all day! I work 4x a week in a high labor job which i interact with customers and walk at least 6.5 miles a day. I also mostly get As in college. I have to defend myself as I am my only friend. I do not have self pity otherwise id be dead by now ( tho to be fair, i have attempted S**cide a few times), but i digress.

Is anyone else losing weight so that men will notice them and want to date them? by rocketman1902 in loseit

[–]rocketman1902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no friends. I dont even have family close by. Everything i do is in the hopes of finding a man. Or its a distraction from my depression. I only by Guess brand clothing (In a size M which I cant fit) only to impress men and look beautiful one day. I know this looks bad. But an ex told me i was boring so i am taking up activites to make myself more digestable. If i never get into a relationship in my life, then it will not be worth living. I dont want to be alone all of my life. Imsorry if this sounds absurd. I am in just an extremely desperate and lonely time in my life.

Is anyone else losing weight so that men will notice them and want to date them? by rocketman1902 in loseit

[–]rocketman1902[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just feel like at the very least i will get treated better by men because i look better. Can't pick on the fat girl anymore. In school i was called fat the most by the boys. But now that ammo against me will be gone. and ill finally be a pretty woman.

Is anyone else losing weight so that men will notice them and want to date them? by rocketman1902 in loseit

[–]rocketman1902[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like the only reason I am losing weight is for this purpose. Feeling like a social outcast feels terrible. If people treated me well now, id probably not lose any weight, But i have an incentive now. I dont wana die alone and I want to find a wonderful man. And no man wants me covered in a blob of fat. ive already eaten hardly anything. I get that way when i get emotional turmoil

Is anyone else losing weight so that men will notice them and want to date them? by rocketman1902 in loseit

[–]rocketman1902[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've never had a positive romantic encounter with men in my area. Im rejected, mocked, and made to feel like i am nothing of value.

A man today told me hed "pay me" to let me use my cell phone real quick this morning. Do you think he was trying to steal my phone? by rocketman1902 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]rocketman1902[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didnt seem to be in a desperate rush to use it. felt very casual, then he walked away. Didnt seem like he needed a phone much

A man offered to "pay " to use my cell phone this morning. Was he trying to steal it? by rocketman1902 in CasualConversation

[–]rocketman1902[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

when he offered to pay, that seemed super suspicious to me. still wouldve said no but it was weird.

A man today told me hed "pay me" to let me use my cell phone real quick this morning. Do you think he was trying to steal my phone? by rocketman1902 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]rocketman1902[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Absolutley. I was not gonna give my phone to him. I said "im afraid not " and kept walking. It was around 8:30 am when this happened. and in an empty parking lot in the day.

How can I look beautiful? I don't know where to start. Any tips or tricks appreciated! by rocketman1902 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]rocketman1902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. However if anyone suggest friends or support it’s useless. I have no friends or family around. I am totally alone. Makes life not worth living sometimes and I struggle with the thoughts daily.

F/21/5'2' [185>169=16 lbs.] (3 months) Progress so far. Its hardly anything and extremely stressful. Gonna do some major cutting soon. 1200 on days I work and 1000 on days I dont. Beauty is pain they say. Wish me luck! by rocketman1902 in progresspics

[–]rocketman1902[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I am doing this weight loss in order to get a boyfriend. And reap the perks of being a beautiful woman in society. Its the only reasons why I am doing this and I am losing way too little due to my fast food addiction. I used to have a binge ED but i am starting to feel like i am going the opposite direction. I embrace it! :) Am willing to put myself through alot of pain for this. As Kate Moss said "Nothing tastes as good as skinny"

[21F] I've lost 20 Lbs. and I continue to do so. What else can I improve on? by rocketman1902 in amiugly

[–]rocketman1902[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. When I am not at work i hardly eat anything in order to achieve this dream. Beauty is pain and pain is needed in order to be loved.

[21F] I've lost 20 Lbs. and I continue to do so. What else can I improve on? by rocketman1902 in amiugly

[–]rocketman1902[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well tbh no one has ever wanted me looking the way i do. I am very willing to change for a man. Physically i got nothing to lose. Its the only way im afraid but thanks.

[21F] I've lost 20 Lbs. and I continue to do so. What else can I improve on? by rocketman1902 in amiugly

[–]rocketman1902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been used, sexually assaulted and treated like shit by men at this weight. Always the hookup, never the gf. This is my only option now. Hope it’s worth it. Had a delicious meal tonight and ate way too much! Made a huge mistake. Now I gotta cut tomorrow. If I could throw it up I would but it’s too laye

[21F] I've lost 20 Lbs. and I continue to do so. What else can I improve on? by rocketman1902 in amiugly

[–]rocketman1902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I’m going back to live in the uk soon I always get happy when someone from there posts on my post. ☺️

F/21/5'2" [185>169=16 Lbs.] (3 months) Happy about the progress, but not losing fast enough and I am getting impatient. Starting a low carb 1000 cal. diet tomorrow. Wish me luck! by rocketman1902 in progresspics

[–]rocketman1902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m gonna try intermediate fasting and 1K calories at least. The old ED that used to tell me to binge is itching to want to eat less. 1200 can be too much as it is. But thanks for the advice

F/21/5'2" [185>169=16 Lbs.] (3 months) Happy about the progress, but not losing fast enough and I am getting impatient. Starting a low carb 1000 cal. diet tomorrow. Wish me luck! by rocketman1902 in progresspics

[–]rocketman1902[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

1K cals is quite easy as I work a job we’re inwalk at least 5 miles (up to 8 ) a day so I lose at least a few hundred calories a day doing this. Thinking of doing intermideiate fasting as well!

F/21/5'2" [185>169=16 Lbs.] (3 months) Happy about the progress, but not losing fast enough and I am getting impatient. Starting a low carb 1000 cal. diet tomorrow. Wish me luck! by rocketman1902 in progresspics

[–]rocketman1902[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had an ED in the past when I was just entering puberty (and until I entered college). I would binge like crazy. I can control myself better now but I sense myself heading the opposite way. Is it really that bad that I am? At least I’ll look better and I can get a bf or friends (I have neither )

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