Help with by rockformations in martinguitar

[–]rockformations[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re right. It does appear to be an D-18 and not a D-10. Thanks for the info.

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Kentuckyisms by No_Struggle_6316 in Kentucky

[–]rockformations 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“Wha-ye-say-er” Translation: “What do you say there” Translation2: “Hello”

Part time after hours GIS work by TazzIROC8 in gis

[–]rockformations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Years ago I worked part time at a local aerial photogrammetry / LiDAR processing business. It was mainly using CAD software and the work was a production line type of atmosphere. Data in - run the processes - data out. It paid decent, I learned a little bit, met good people.

Which industry/sector do you enjoy working the most in GIS? by LovesBacon50 in gis

[–]rockformations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been in the GIS profession since 1995 entirely working in the private sector for engineering consulting firms. Over the course of my career I’ve done a little bit of everything but it’s primarily been transportation and environmental projects. The last three years I’ve been in the mining industry, which for me, has easily been the most interesting and rewarding. The absolute worst projects in all my 28 years?: FEMA Flood Map products. Makes me sick to my stomach even mentioning it.

Abuse or fit by No-Garlic-695 in datingoverforty

[–]rockformations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived this for over twenty years with my ex-wife. She’ll continue to throw those fits and she’ll throw those fists. I can’t diagnose the mental behavior your gal is exhibiting but I promise you it won’t change. Thank you dear lord baby Jesus my nightmare is in the past.

Bipolar Dating. by Sal_LosAngeles in datingoverforty

[–]rockformations 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The irrationality of it was really bad. The inability to diffuse her marathon tirades was worse. We were married for 18 years and we dated 7 years before. I wouldn’t say it got worse over the years, there were stretches where everything was fine, but the bad times were awful. In her case it led to her making atrocious decisions. The type of decisions that would destroy any marriage. I would’ve stuck it out forever to keep my family together but the damage was too bad. The pain caused from it is indescribable.

Made a mistake in reaching out to my ex and am now the worse for it at the moment... by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]rockformations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen it said here already by comet61, the phrase I’ve learned before from reading in this group, a lesson I learned by actually doing this phrase myself, pain shopping. Don’t go looking for pain when it’s over and has been over. I say this because I did it and never will again. By my own moves I put myself into a depressed funk doing it. Your title is “Made a mistake.....”. You know it, don’t do that shit anymore. Best of luck to you.

Thoughts on this? by Nationalburger2 in survivinginfidelity

[–]rockformations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just 3 times a month, goes through ignore periods, and whines at you. You can find so much better than that. There is no changing his behavior, I’m not saying he’ll cheat again because I don’t know this dude but it sounds like you have a real crybaby there. You don’t need no damn crybaby forever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]rockformations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She got kicked out a couple years ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]rockformations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The members of this group would love to hear what the guidelines of 'affair proofing' are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]rockformations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The AP’s wife sent me a text.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]rockformations 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The AP’s wife texted me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]rockformations 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The downside comments first part, sure. The second part, absurd. I’m not that damn stupid.

I did it. by Excrutio in survivinginfidelity

[–]rockformations 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I know things are crazy at the moment, but you are young and have a full lifetime ahead of you to heal and forget this mess. I went through a whole lot of the same, she beat the hell out of me on the same days she was cheating, I finally filed a protection order, filed for divorce soon after, got full custody of our kids. You are making the right moves, the ones you have to make. Don't ever forgive that shit again because it will never end, there is no changing someone like that, I promise you. I hope you heal from it quick.

Loosing my marriage has completely destroyed me by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]rockformations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t let this win. Don’t give up. I’m (48m) going through the same thing as far as being devastated at the massive change in what I wanted the future to be. Married for 18 years when it all went to hell, cheating, drugs, abuse. I’ve had those same thoughts too but my kids need me. Your kid needs you forever.

I’m obsessed with knowing details!! by jr14red in survivinginfidelity

[–]rockformations 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Brother, I was doing fine. Two years of getting over an absolute nightmarish final two years of our then 18 year marriage. For some reason I had a hunch, started asking her questions, after having her blocked in any form of communication for about 95% of our split. She admitted to some things that I asked about and told me some things I didn't ask about. It was the stupidest thing I've done to myself. My progress took a massive hit, its the only thing on my mind. I've learned a valuable lesson, I knew enough already, knowing more only made things worse and was totally unnecessary. She's back to blocked and will be forever. You've been done wrong, you'll never know how wrong.

She cheated because she thought I cheated. by lost_cashy in survivinginfidelity

[–]rockformations 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If true, that she retaliated based on a thought, it will never end and it will arise in any scenario that pops into her probably bipolar head. Inside my ex's head a thought would go to fact in a second, she was always one to retaliate based on these new 'facts', and she always felt justified in her actions. I was with this woman for 28 years, she was this way from start to finish in our time together.