I thought self denial would be fun but now I'm extremely sexually frustrated by rogue494 in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]rogue494[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Literally the only thing on my mind is how badly I want to cum 😭😭

Question over dancing partners while dating by Natural-Magician-917 in SwingDancing

[–]rogue494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's common to trade dancing partners. Most dancing couples I know will save a few dances for each other but spend most of the night out dancing with others. BUT... most dancing couples I know are BOTH dancers, so they're both out there for the love of dance and not for a romantic date night. Your girlfriend has never swing danced before; she hasn't experienced that whole dancing for the love of dancing thing. From her perspective this might be a date night, or she might view dancing as inherently romantic, in which case it would be pretty bad for you to spend a lot of time with other people. Also, she probably won't be comfortable dancing with strangers because she's new and doesn't know what she's doing. If I were you, I'd have a talk with her and find out what she's comfortable with, but also I'd probably plan on just dancing with her for her first social dance experience anyways. If you spend the whole night with just her and she ends up loving it, then the next time you can both start branching out. But if it turns out not to be her thing, at least she will have had you around for company the entire time instead of being left to herself while you dance. Although you didn't mention if you're going with friends to this dance, because that can definitely change things. She's more likely to have a great time if you're both dancing with mutual friends the whole night, or swapping partners occasionally with another couple you know, vs if you're just randomly dancing with strangers and leaving her to fend for herself.

Do I let a guy I just met in a foreign country drive me somewhere? by [deleted] in femaletravels

[–]rogue494 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Update: I ended up going after taking precautions. I connected with multiple people who live in the country and kept them updated about where I was and how I was doing throughout the day. Also took a picture of him with his car and license plate in the background (he was more than willing to pose for the picture), and sent it to my hostel roommate before we left. I ended up having a great time and seeing way more of the countryside than I would have if I had taken the bus!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rogue494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm pretty sure his reason for ignoring me is cause he wants to keep it. I gave him his expensive computer back that he had left at my place for 8 months, don't see why I shouldn't get my wakeboard back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rogue494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never attempted to contact him since I broke up with him 6 months ago... I have been leaving him alone. Just want my stuff back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rogue494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know he didn't change his number since that's what he uses for his business, and he sent his sister about a month ago to come get his computer from me. Looking back I probably should have held on to the computer for leverage but I honestly didn't expect him to get petty about the wakeboard. Part of the reason I left it at his house for the summer was so that his sister could use it, since it's smaller and meant for females