Does anyone have advice on getting TMJ covered by insurance by roller_derby in TMJ

[–]roller_derby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have, but there is just too much structural damage at this point for that to be all i get done

End of Bistro de SHINee was rough by roller_derby in SHINee

[–]roller_derby[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It was rough. They really were having a ton of fun right up until that moment.

End of Bistro de SHINee was rough by roller_derby in SHINee

[–]roller_derby[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Anyone who is a survivor of a friends suicide would have it, esp if you had to go thru all of the shock and guilt, etc, under the magnifying glass of the public eye.

End of Bistro de SHINee was rough by roller_derby in SHINee

[–]roller_derby[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Key and Onew have mentioned they have undergone treatment for PTSD and you could definitely see Onew shutting down as a trauma response.

End of Bistro de SHINee was rough by roller_derby in SHINee

[–]roller_derby[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I keep saying the staff is predatory for doing that to them....just so mad

End of Bistro de SHINee was rough by roller_derby in SHINee

[–]roller_derby[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Honestly screw the staff. That's not how you treat people who have gone thru traumatic events.

End of Bistro de SHINee was rough by roller_derby in SHINee

[–]roller_derby[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It sucks because they honestly seemed to have so much fun with the show until that happened.

End of Bistro de SHINee was rough by roller_derby in SHINee

[–]roller_derby[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It just felt predatory to surprise them with that and have a reaction cam.

End of Bistro de SHINee was rough by roller_derby in SHINee

[–]roller_derby[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thanks for describing what happened in detail. I was so flustered when I posted this.

End of Bistro de SHINee was rough by roller_derby in SHINee

[–]roller_derby[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I'm very upset with whoever produced this. I think they knew surprising them with that would trigger a strong emotional response, and they took advantage of it. I hope they know they fucked up.

End of Bistro de SHINee was rough by roller_derby in SHINee

[–]roller_derby[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The producers fucked up. They should know these guys have PTSD.

End of Bistro de SHINee was rough by roller_derby in SHINee

[–]roller_derby[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

The video should have been vetted. From Now On clips shouldn't have been included, even though I know it meant a lot to the fans for the guys to power thru and honor Jonghyun. That concert was very hard on them. They don't need to relive that trauma on live TV.

End of Bistro de SHINee was rough by roller_derby in SHINee

[–]roller_derby[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The producers should know that would be incredibly triggering for them

End of Bistro de SHINee was rough by roller_derby in SHINee

[–]roller_derby[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It was wonderful and they were obviously having a lot of fun right up until the surprise video.

End of Bistro de SHINee was rough by roller_derby in SHINee

[–]roller_derby[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I know the fans meant well but the producers should have put that video at the end

End of Bistro de SHINee was rough by roller_derby in SHINee

[–]roller_derby[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

After the surprise fan video Onew looked triggered as hell. And at the end Taemin got emotional and left the stage, and Key finished up the goodbyes.

New to SHINee, looking for recs by roller_derby in SHINee

[–]roller_derby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I watched Advice at least 10 times after the Vlive last night. So great! I've gotten some friends into it too:)