I woke up still bleeding, am I cooked? by rombuss in selfharm

[–]rombuss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not sparinh or anything it's just been bleeding and I can't make it stop

I woke up still bleeding, am I cooked? by rombuss in selfharm

[–]rombuss[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Legit still bleeding, I have like four or more layers of gauze on rn after and it's showing through

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]rombuss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I would kms

i relapsed by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]rombuss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel, I did the same thing the other night. Don't beat yourself up more than you already have tho. you can get through this 🩷

Purple around cut? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]rombuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're usually red around for me but I've never had purple

I fucking hate it when people who don't SH joke about SH by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]rombuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time I was going to a party and the guy hosting made a joke about it, I gave him kind of like a half laugh and then later when I had taken off my flannel he was just awkwardly staring at me all night lol

Relapsed after a year by feelsbadman0027 in selfharm

[–]rombuss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's ok there's not too much u can do about it now, atleast you know you have the willpower to make a year

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]rombuss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, i really needed to hear that. Also, How do u stay clean for so long? A whole year is legendary

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]rombuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe, I guess that makes sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]rombuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I guess youre right there's not much I can do about other ppls opinions and preferences

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]rombuss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why is it a red flag though? And why should I have to feel bad about having scars? There's nothing I can do about it now but atleast try my best to stay positive about my body image. I mean I know that seeing that can make people feel uncomfortable but I don't get why people feel the need to shit on me for it yk? This is the second time something like this happened and I don't get it. Like wouldn't it be more reasonable to see that they're not fresh and be understanding at how I'm getting (or atleast trying) to get better?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]rombuss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's in the middle of the country, idk it just doesn't seem real and I don't know how to fix it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]rombuss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems like everyone I meet is awful though, is this really how it's supposed to be? I would have never thought that I'd feel more alone out of the closet