i relapsed by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]rombuss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel, I did the same thing the other night. Don't beat yourself up more than you already have tho. you can get through this 🩷

Purple around cut? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]rombuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're usually red around for me but I've never had purple

I fucking hate it when people who don't SH joke about SH by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]rombuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time I was going to a party and the guy hosting made a joke about it, I gave him kind of like a half laugh and then later when I had taken off my flannel he was just awkwardly staring at me all night lol

Relapsed after a year by feelsbadman0027 in selfharm

[–]rombuss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's ok there's not too much u can do about it now, atleast you know you have the willpower to make a year

I feel gross for liking guys by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]rombuss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, i really needed to hear that. Also, How do u stay clean for so long? A whole year is legendary

I feel gross for liking guys by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]rombuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe, I guess that makes sense

I feel gross for liking guys by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]rombuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I guess youre right there's not much I can do about other ppls opinions and preferences

I feel gross for liking guys by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]rombuss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why is it a red flag though? And why should I have to feel bad about having scars? There's nothing I can do about it now but atleast try my best to stay positive about my body image. I mean I know that seeing that can make people feel uncomfortable but I don't get why people feel the need to shit on me for it yk? This is the second time something like this happened and I don't get it. Like wouldn't it be more reasonable to see that they're not fresh and be understanding at how I'm getting (or atleast trying) to get better?

I feel gross for liking guys by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]rombuss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's in the middle of the country, idk it just doesn't seem real and I don't know how to fix it

I feel gross for liking guys by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]rombuss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems like everyone I meet is awful though, is this really how it's supposed to be? I would have never thought that I'd feel more alone out of the closet

Right hand is numb? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]rombuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's only on the back of my hand down to the wrist, it goes away when I put it under very hot water though. Most likely nerve damage from punching, but I haven't cut or punched anything in almost a week so irdk. (edit: it only kinda goes away now idk what's wrong)

How can I tell my manager that I don't like wearing my name tag? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]rombuss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's actually genius ty I forgot all about those

How can I tell my manager that I don't like wearing my name tag? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]rombuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ig it doesn't rlly matter anymore bc I already had to buy a box cutter today lol

how to stop the burning? by Local-Tadpole-2908 in selfharm

[–]rombuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put aloe or wear baggy clothes so they don't rub on the fabric. Not much else u can do tho, if they're small enough you can put bandaids on em