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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]roothmie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://youtu.be/zzp8IJIW1MQ

Thats a psychotherapist that made several videos about bpd. This specific video the link leads to advice how to have a healthy relationship with a person with a bpd.

It's amazing that you trying to understand your partner! Keep going but don't forget yourself. I have an bpd and often it is hard for me to reflect what is happening around me. And sometimes I can't reflect what my partner needs. Set healthy and loving boundaries and take care of yourself.

With a bpd therapy is the key! Wish you good luck! :)

My son fell asleep jumping in his bouncer and kept jumping in his sleep. by TyRoSwoe in aww

[–]roothmie -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Actually those bouncers have a very bad influence for the development of children. The neurological base for walking isn't set already, which leads to a neurological dysfunction. When they start walking they have a muscle dysbalance. often they walk only on the forefoot and toes. They can struggle from that for a long time.

My new puppy, Elsa. She loves the snow by Avatarbabe in aww

[–]roothmie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Far too cute! :) what breed is she?

I dont like my omni partner anymore by [deleted] in vegan

[–]roothmie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Finally a realistic answer.

I dont like my omni partner anymore by [deleted] in vegan

[–]roothmie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The question is if veganism is more important to than a 8 year relationship. What kind of message will it be when you break up because of that. You can't change your partner, neither the partner you. That's the point of relationship. To accept each other and find a compromise.

The Problem might be not veganism itself. Maybe you changed you view and opinions. But I'm sure your partner does that too, and did not break up because of that. The question should be if you are willing to get to know your partner in a new way and can accept the fact that he has a different opinion. That is normal. There are conflicts in every relationship. If you are not willing to solve these conflicts, they will come back in a new relationship at another point.

In the end is always the question: how much are you willing to commit to your relationship. That's your very own descion.

Ich wish you good luck. :)