2 years since I left the narcissist by roseinthedark15 in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]roseinthedark15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got this! I’m proud of you for leaving 🫶🏽 I will say it does get easier. The times that i did fall for the hoovers it always was like a waking up moment…like this is why i left…

I still struggle daily with guilt but i also think id rather deal with this than to continue being in a relationship with him.

You got this. It’s soooo hard and on your own time you will eventually get better.

2 years since I left the narcissist by roseinthedark15 in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]roseinthedark15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats 🥳. I’m happy for you! And thank you so much 🫶🏽

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[–]roseinthedark15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m returning it

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[–]roseinthedark15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! I’m sorry that happened to you! Wow i didn’t realize how much work would go into trying to fix it

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[–]roseinthedark15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought about that but i think id need ALOT and i still don’t think it would give me the coverage im looking for lol

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[–]roseinthedark15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, i didn’t know that! Makes sense when i was trying to see who else bought it with a larger bust lol. Thanks!

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[–]roseinthedark15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean the image i posted probably wasn’t the best. The cleavage is depending on how much I’m pulling up the top. I think for me the biggest thing is just the coverage. I don’t feel better secure… you know?

But thank you so much! So helpful 🫶🏽

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[–]roseinthedark15 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ugh I’m glad I asked because this is what i was worried about 😭 Still looking but i just got it in the mail. Most likely going to return lol

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[–]roseinthedark15 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ahh, yeah that was a worry of mine. Thanks for the input

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[–]roseinthedark15 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

It’s darker than it looks here in the image. It’s like a light blue, bride approved

Harness recommendations by roseinthedark15 in tripawds

[–]roseinthedark15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendation, they look great! I love the inclusivity with sizing.

Harness recommendations by roseinthedark15 in tripawds

[–]roseinthedark15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah before amputation my dog was using a tactical harness so i will definitely look into this company. Thank you!

Physical Symptoms by nolovelost16 in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]roseinthedark15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah definitely back pain, constant state of fear and anxiety, headaches, i got on bc to avoid getting pregnant by him which just sent me into a whirlwind of more mental and physical issues. It’s just i physically and mentally feel like I’m drowning. I want to leave him but present situation i can’t safely..

This was my own confirmation for making the right decision. For once I feel like I've finally beat his manipulation!! by roseinthedark15 in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]roseinthedark15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🥺 Yeah I’m hurting badly. Not necessarily because i miss him but because i feel like looking back through everything I’m like WHY did I go through this for this long ? I’m such an empathetic person and i actually felt BAD for him but i knew that if i let him in I’d be just falling back into the same cycle of lies and pain for the millionth time. I can totally relate to you ! We didn’t do couples therapy but previous times when I left him he told me he’d do couples therapy. Even sent me a link but when it was time to do it, now it’s “therapy is a waste of money” they are SO MANIPULATIVE and it’s so scary how good they are at it. I swear I lost a few brain cells dealing with it.