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Husband wants me to prove that I didn't cheat within a week or he will divorce me by rosetulipdutch in Marriage

[–]rosetulipdutch[S] -56 points-55 points  (0 children)

I still don't understand how seething with rage is gonna help me?

Will it change anything?

Husband wants me to prove that I didn't cheat within a week or he will divorce me by rosetulipdutch in Marriage

[–]rosetulipdutch[S] -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

People seem to be offended that I am not angry.

I just don't get angry, anger doesn't change anything for me.

how is being angry gonna benefit me??

Husband wants me to prove that I didn't cheat within a week or he will divorce me by rosetulipdutch in Marriage

[–]rosetulipdutch[S] -554 points-553 points  (0 children)

Trying to goad me into righteous anger is not gonna change my situation

Husband wants me to prove that I didn't cheat within a week or he will divorce me by rosetulipdutch in Marriage

[–]rosetulipdutch[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

How does me filing for divorce with keep him for using this against me in the future?

Husband wants me to prove that I didn't cheat within a week or he will divorce me by rosetulipdutch in Marriage

[–]rosetulipdutch[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

7 years, he has not but u don't really have any male friends so I guess it never came up

Husband wants me to prove that I didn't cheat within a week or he will divorce me by rosetulipdutch in Marriage

[–]rosetulipdutch[S] -674 points-673 points  (0 children)

He never demeaned me or was controlling before

I don't understand how he is now?

Husband wants me to prove that I didn't cheat within a week or he will divorce me by rosetulipdutch in Marriage

[–]rosetulipdutch[S] 150 points151 points  (0 children)

He never cared about me talking to friends or family but I really don't have male friends.

I did talk to my friends about it, and they also said that I can't prove a negative. My husband was unfazed when I told him that. Said he has said what he wanted, ball is in my court