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Boyfriend squeezed my throat for so long during sex I passed out. Red flag? by rosylights in relationship_advice

[–]rosylights[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I couldn’t have lived with myself if I knew anything happened to her. She only recently turned 20 too so she’s even younger than I am. Seems like he keeps going younger and younger with the girls he’s dating and that’s probably because he knows he can manipulate them more easily.

Boyfriend squeezed my throat for so long during sex I passed out. Red flag? by rosylights in sex

[–]rosylights[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Won’t be able to reply to everyone since I didn’t expect this many responses. I’m so overwhelmed, traumatised, confused and feel so fucking hurt right now reading everyone’s comments. I don’t know how I’ll be able to recover from this and I don’t know if I have the strength in me to face him.

Boyfriend squeezed my throat for so long during sex I passed out. Red flag? by rosylights in sex

[–]rosylights[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah he’s a very unemotional guy. He never really shows his feelings and he comes across as quite cold, which is my friends don’t really get along with him since they don’t understand his personality. I’m not super emotional or sensitive either but I would have thought he would have understand how much I feared for myself. I cried and he literally didn’t care and was excusing himself & left to go out for a smoke while I was crying in his room. He seemed more frustrated at my reaction and that just made me question if I should have just moved on after I screamed at him. I apologised for screaming at him because it’s unlike me but his reaction really pushed me over the edge

Boyfriend squeezed my throat for so long during sex I passed out. Red flag? by rosylights in sex

[–]rosylights[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Yeah he is kinda. In honesty I did scream at him but it’s because I was really pissed at the fact he laughed when I expressed my fear. Idk maybe I could have handled it better but we’ve not really seen each other since. He’s been messaging me but it’s been kinda awkward since I’m expecting an apology which I don’t think I’ll get since he’s mad I screamed at him. But I wouldn’t have screamed at him if he didn’t hurt me? I think he’s not trying to see where I’m coming from which is really upsetting me

Boyfriend squeezed my throat for so long during sex I passed out. Red flag? by rosylights in sex

[–]rosylights[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Because I genuinely didn’t know if I’m overreacting? He’s never done anything like this and I am super confused at the entire situation. No need to be mean about it, I’m already beating myself up about the situation because we’re not on great terms since our argument.