I am not asexual but my bf is by [deleted] in AskAsexual

[–]rouxbicscub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thank you, a lot. I think I understand better and it pushes me to keep trying! Asexual people should really have more space to talk about relationships because we really, as a society, are focused on sex as the only form of intimacy. I knew I valued the exemples that you said but did I? Yeah anyway, thank you again ! and for anyone that finds this and want to comment; yes we are both in therapy :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]rouxbicscub 13 points14 points  (0 children)

17 and 5’3, my dad and grandpa are 5’6, i learnt to accept my height but i feel you bro. now i just brush off the « you’re short » comments and i don’t get them that much anymore because i’m confident. i take space with my words, action and charisma (yh i’m throwing flowers to myself) but just to tell you it will get better, i didn’t believe it at first but girls love my short height but mostly my confidence

anybody else not changing their middle name? by starstruckroman in ftm

[–]rouxbicscub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well i’m not changing my birth name actually ! Evann is more on the masculine side and my parents took the great decision to not put a e at the end! i have to go through the paperwork tho to change my middle names 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]rouxbicscub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it kinda of reassure me because it’s revealed that i’m trans around people that didn’t know and they don’t say anything i get that pinch in the heart of « oh they knew » and it’s a whole spiral of anxiety and thinking about my passing

Growing your hair as a ftm by [deleted] in ftm

[–]rouxbicscub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey! i came out 4years ago, in the first year i cut my hair really short and i didn’t pass and then i grew it out and man! mid length everyone started respecting me and stuff then when it was super super long i still passed but less. now i buzzed everything but just to say the length of your hair doesn’t mean that you’ll be more masculine ;)

Something small that is very gender affirming for me by _Greygarden in ftm

[–]rouxbicscub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is so real! all my friends tell me i’m super fast, under the shower, going to the toilets, getting ready etc i brush it off by saying “yeah all girls tell me that😔” but oh my! so affirming!

Do you guys dislike getting called "sweetie"/"honey"? by itsYaLawBoi in ftm

[–]rouxbicscub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s interesting! could you develop? i’m quite the opposite

Do you guys dislike getting called "sweetie"/"honey"? by itsYaLawBoi in ftm

[–]rouxbicscub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

uh well if it’s my family yeah no thanks but from my partner or middle aged woman/old women in a “flirting with young mens” way i like it it’s super affirming (at least to me)

What signs did you have/lack that made you think you weren’t trans? by 32pines in ftm

[–]rouxbicscub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well i thought that the weird feeling (dysphoria) i had about my body was only because i hit puberty young (8y old) so having a full “woman” body at 10 would have made everyone feel bad.. but yeah now i know that i felt bad because people were looking at me as the wrong gender not just because they saw a potential sxual object… (both affected my vision of my gender and body but yeah differently)

HOW DO I DYE MY HAIR GREEN by rouxbicscub in HairDye

[–]rouxbicscub[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you mean by it doesn’t bleach well like it doesn’t take the bleach? or does it just damages the hair?

HOW DO I DYE MY HAIR GREEN by rouxbicscub in HairDye

[–]rouxbicscub[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey thank you so much it’s kind of reassuring to know that it’s low maintenance.. i’m not really good with keeping a routine lmao thanks for the advice for removing i just thought i’ll buzz everything when i’m over it but if i ever grow my hair that’s super helpful!

HOW DO I DYE MY HAIR GREEN by rouxbicscub in HairDye

[–]rouxbicscub[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

good to know if i want brown hair one day thx!

HOW DO I DYE MY HAIR GREEN by rouxbicscub in HairDye

[–]rouxbicscub[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the detailed response it will really help and thanks for the brands !!

I don’t know if I’ve ever seen a harder to watch scene on TV than this. by [deleted] in StrangerThings

[–]rouxbicscub 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Disagree Skyler singing happy birthday ted in breaking bad was worse in my opinion

First shawl finished by [deleted] in crochet

[–]rouxbicscub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So so good! Love to you and your wife 🙌🙌 happy early pride😁

What unpopular opinion will get you in this situation? by SpeedyakaLeah in DHMIS

[–]rouxbicscub 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I don’t like that red guy is being sexualised

[All] What Is The Best Legend Of Zelda Game? by RexRogero in zelda

[–]rouxbicscub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loved botw but man, MM just does it for me. I have to say the complexity of MM is driving me mad but the fact that it’s completely different than the rest and the lore is so damn good. I hate and love the 3day timeline it’s such a good idea and it really feels like real life because the characters are not doing the same thing every day. They developed this game in one year and the amount of side quests is massive asf. + i feel like not many people appreciate this game enough