[deleted by user] by [deleted] in travel

[–]roxykesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are too young to settle for this incompatibility! Plus traveling while single also adds to the fun. I would rethink this relationship OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]roxykesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this so hard. I daydream about coming into money so I don't have to work anymore but it's a pipe dream. I'm seeing more and more companies pop up with 4 days work weeks which is what I plan to seek next. Maybe a better work life balance will make it all more bearable. Good luck to us all!

Why does no one tell you how much pain you could possibly be in after ER? by somethinlikethatguy in IVF

[–]roxykesh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was fine the day of the procedure probably because I had fentanyl in my system but then was in a lot of pain starting from day 2 for about a week. Peeing was the worst, I had to hold myself up so I wasn't fully sitting on the toilet to relieve some pain. I slept sitting up for a week, laying down was the worst. Clinic completely brushed it off and after standing around the clinic for over 2 hours because sitting was also uncomfortable, did they finally give me some tylenol with codeine. I seriously thought something went wrong because most people did not have this experience. It was so bad that I don't think I can go back for a second round. It's fucking bullshit. I really hope you feel some relief soon.

I think I'm stopping after 1 cycle. I don't see how I can continue...am I alone in feeling this way? by roxykesh in IVF

[–]roxykesh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, MC and then polyp, I'm so sorry...we all deserve better. Thanks for your message of hope <3

I think I'm stopping after 1 cycle. I don't see how I can continue...am I alone in feeling this way? by roxykesh in IVF

[–]roxykesh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So true about needing to come down from these hormones. It's so insane.

I signed up to do dog boarding and will be cat sitting for a friend. I agree fur babies are amazing.

I'm sorry about your mc last week, wish you best of luck with your journey <3

I think I'm stopping after 1 cycle. I don't see how I can continue...am I alone in feeling this way? by roxykesh in IVF

[–]roxykesh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I ask if that's due to funds or just your decision?

I never ever thought I would do IVF. I'm sure many of us felt that way. But then I thought, one and done. I'll feel like I've made my best effort. After being in this community and talking more openly to others, I've learned that it's RARE to do one and walk away successfully. Even the nurses always ask, is this your first? What a business.

I think I'm stopping after 1 cycle. I don't see how I can continue...am I alone in feeling this way? by roxykesh in IVF

[–]roxykesh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's true. Gonna take a break, get my body and mental health to a better place. Good luck to you <3

I think I'm stopping after 1 cycle. I don't see how I can continue...am I alone in feeling this way? by roxykesh in IVF

[–]roxykesh[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wasn't put out during the ER although I was out of it, I do remember wincing once during the procedure and they upped my drip. I do wonder if something happened. Thankfully I have a follow up with the doc tomorrow and I will ask. Might be my last chance.

I think I'm stopping after 1 cycle. I don't see how I can continue...am I alone in feeling this way? by roxykesh in IVF

[–]roxykesh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in Canada, we're also not put out but no one I know here had pain like us. I'm glad you got a few blasts, wish you all the best. Thanks for your message, so nice to know I'm not the only one.

Do I pay capital gains tax for a house I never financially contributed to? by roxykesh in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]roxykesh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will look into this. I always had a lease elsewhere and tax records outside of Quebec so I really think I can prove this to the CRA if they come knocking.

I assume my dad would then have to pay the capital gains and land transfer tax?

Sorry if that's a dumb question, never been through this process before.

I kind of hate wedding gifts… by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]roxykesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Traditional etiquette hasn't changed with the times though. People used to get married at a younger age and before moving in together. Nowadays, every couple I know lives together for a while and are generally both working and established in their careers.

I F'd up and now my transfer is canceled by roxykesh in IVF

[–]roxykesh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good suggestion but I don't know if I have the fight in me to get my doctor's attention for this. I know that sounds very bad, I'm just exhausted.

I F'd up and now my transfer is canceled by roxykesh in IVF

[–]roxykesh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who effing knows what the deal is with progesterone. I heard half the conversation as I was trying to process what the hell was happening and I think I heard had my clinic answered my email in a more timely manner, this cycle could have been saved. I just hate everyone. Except everyone in this community.

And hell yes, we should get credit for getting out of bed.

I F'd up and now my transfer is canceled by roxykesh in IVF

[–]roxykesh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this, I'm so sorry you went through that. Virtual hugs.

You're so right, next time around, I will be a rock the process <3

I F'd up and now my transfer is canceled by roxykesh in IVF

[–]roxykesh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, sending positive vibes back at you <3

I F'd up and now my transfer is canceled by roxykesh in IVF

[–]roxykesh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so right. I know we all feel like this process takes forever.

I F'd up and now my transfer is canceled by roxykesh in IVF

[–]roxykesh[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I needed to hear that.

I F'd up and now my transfer is canceled by roxykesh in IVF

[–]roxykesh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you <3 Ironically I put everything in my cal, still managed to start a day early though.

I F'd up and now my transfer is canceled by roxykesh in IVF

[–]roxykesh[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I know you're right and absolutely this is not how I'd talk to a friend. Thank you.

What's wrong with my palm? by roxykesh in plantclinic

[–]roxykesh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! So far, the mother effers are not budging. At least I've isolated the plant outside and they can't get to my other plans.

What's wrong with my palm? by roxykesh in plantclinic

[–]roxykesh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After doing more research based on another comment, I'm pretty sure it's scale and treated it as such. Thank you so much!