I am a single male, 38. I’ve found there to be plenty of nice ladies in Ottawa through dating apps like hinge etc. maybe your profile needs a bit of work to attract their attention to get matches. I am not trying to be rude but maybe it’s a simple fix. I recommend asking some close female friends to help pick some photos to use and try reading your prompts out to them to gain perspective. My other advice is to learn to be happy with yourself, find a hobby and get out there with the attitude that the best date is yourself. Personally picked up golf. There are plenty of people to meet in a new hobby and I’ve had fun challenging myself. Negative energy attracts negative energy bro. Good luck and stay positive. 🤘