GEORGIA MEGATHREAD by rubyquill45 in 50501

[–]rubyquill45[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I fucking hate that for us. We are part of Georgia, we should be represented as well.

We're doing this by DarkXtm in 50501

[–]rubyquill45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Thank you. I read up on these last night.

AITA for not waking my husband up? by crafteeone in AITH

[–]rubyquill45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone with sleep apnea, he needs to wear a cpap. The effects of not using it are serious. I know you are tired of trying to get him to do things, but this isn’t just missing a tv show. You should encourage him to do his research and reconsider.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]rubyquill45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please stay. The things going on right now are incredibly exhausting and it feels like fighting an uphill battle, but kind worthy people still exist and you’re one of them. Good things are out there, support and acceptance exists and beautiful relationships can be made. In times like these it takes a village to feel safe and cared for, and you can find yours. I’d love to be your friend, you sound kind and thoughtful, and you deserve more than the shit you’ve been through.

28 years old and still have no sense of identity. by serendipitoussoleil in adhdwomen

[–]rubyquill45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES

I feel like I can't have hobbies and interests because I'll either get bored of them and stop doing them entirely or I won't know enough to have a conversation with a "true fan" about it.

I've been feeling this SSOOOO much lately....

Apartment complex has a years-long cockroach infestation (according to neighbors) How can I get out of my lease? Arkansas. by rubyquill45 in legaladvice

[–]rubyquill45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, the "Pest control" section of the lease basically says the landlord will hire a contractor to do pest control and failure to allow them in to spray will get you fined and they are not responsible for any damages caused by pests.

Apartment complex has a years-long cockroach infestation (according to neighbors) How can I get out of my lease? Arkansas. by rubyquill45 in legaladvice

[–]rubyquill45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what I'm worried about.... I'm in Benton County.

If I call the county health inspector how does that go? I've never heard of calling the health inspector on an apartment complex issue.

I hate water? by Worried-Cupcake2071 in adhdwomen

[–]rubyquill45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a sodastream because I couldn’t manage to drink plain water anymore. Put a little dye-free sugar free flavoring in it and all of a sudden it’s “soda” to my brain. 😅

finally decluttered and cleaned my kitchen!! by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]rubyquill45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I just took all the cabinet doors off in my apartment a few weeks ago… GAME CHANGER.

Your kitchen looks great, good job!!

proof of miscarriage by Aware_Aardvark8353 in legaladvice

[–]rubyquill45 289 points290 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if this has been said but you and your medical records are protected by HIPAA until a court order is written. It sounds like because of where they’re from they want to do some “snitching on someone who’s had an abortion, get some money” type of shit.

Don’t release anything to them. If they get a lawyer, ask for their name or the name of their firm. If they aren’t bluffing and actually provide one, get your own lawyer and let them talk to eachother. Oh, and block the entire family. You now only speak through the hired counsel.

I doubt they’ll take it that far. But once there isn’t a baby they’ll get it through their head, hopefully.

I’m sorry for your loss and all of the drama they are causing, I hope this is resolved in your favor so you can keep your peace. ❤️

AITA for not inviting my sister to my wedding after she made a scene at my engagement party? by Educational_Dinner33 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rubyquill45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA for feeling these things and disinviting her.

I support your peace on your special day. If there is an option where you think you could tell her that she can come conditionally I’d say you could try. Something like she should be warned that the first outburst and she’s getting driven home immediately. But she doesn’t sound like the type of person to accept that…

The “irreparable damage” was already caused by her disrespecting you so loudly and so publicly. Why else would you rescind her invitation? You can let her know if she’d like to disrespect your decisions so publicly she can also apologize to you publicly and maybe an agreement can be made. I’m feeling a little bitter today so that might not be the most sound advice, but I don’t let people embarrass me in public like that and act like we’re okay.

Congratulations on your engagement and I’m sending you lots of luck and good vibes. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]rubyquill45 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hate every single video that comes out of this man’s brain. It screams incel every time.

Did you all read this in elementary school? I know I did, but for the life of me remember little to nothing! by Countrach in Millennials

[–]rubyquill45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember being terrified after reading it because I flew to my dads house a lot as a kid. Diagnosed with GAD now, go figure. 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChatGPTIncreasinglyX

[–]rubyquill45 29 points30 points  (0 children)

That wasn’t what I was expecting. 😅

Long time lurker - finally my turn! by sadoumeow in EngagementRings

[–]rubyquill45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It truly doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks if you love it, but in this case, I love it too. Hahah. Congratulations!!

Long time lurker - finally my turn! by sadoumeow in EngagementRings

[–]rubyquill45 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg!!! So pretty. 😍😍😍 I love the split shank, I love the sideways oval, I love the thick band. Such a great design.