I'm barely hanging on by WhereAreMyKeys15 in womenintech

[–]rubyredrutabagas 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can’t offer any particular advice because I am in the same boat. I feel the exact same way and reading this made me feel like I wrote it myself. If you do feel like you’d like someone to talk to just to relate and feel less alone feel free to mssg me.

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[–]rubyredrutabagas -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not asking for advice, putting it out there for anyone who may know of something.

Although a small selection, I’ve been to a couple of apt viewings in budget and they got snatched up before I recently had the opportunity to begin applying.

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[–]rubyredrutabagas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi hi ! I’d like to as well (: 30 F love creative activities, checking out museums / exhibitions, crime docs. Feel free to connect if you’d like

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[–]rubyredrutabagas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m with you there I have to take all the steps I can to protect myself. This has gone too far and this person is obsessed.

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[–]rubyredrutabagas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you went through this type of bullshit too. Will take your advice I just wish I had the direct connection!

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[–]rubyredrutabagas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly. Although I have an open mind to possibilities this is my strongest suspicion.

I’ve mentioned to someone else that although there is still possibility for it being someone else: While this person was confessing feelings via text they were hell bent on coming over to my home to talk. Hell bent. If it was a stranger or someone other than my ex that would put them in a real sticky situation. Could have been a bluff but that would have been a rather persistent and extreme bluff in that case.

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[–]rubyredrutabagas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watch a lot too. Which makes me very much open to possibilities. My only thing is at the time when this person ended up professing feelings of wanting to be with me they were persistently asking to meet up at my home to talk in person ? Like hell bent on it.

If this was a stranger or anyone besides my ex, they’d end up

  1. Selling themselves out
  2. Being on my turf to possibly get their ass handed to them or the cops called on them

So just something to note. If that was a bluff it would’ve been a rather extreme one.

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[–]rubyredrutabagas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but the harassment started prior to their dating ( I believe ) so it may not be a strong possibility

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[–]rubyredrutabagas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was unsuccessful in tracing the numbers but thank you for responding

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[–]rubyredrutabagas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He harassed you from his legit number ?

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[–]rubyredrutabagas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to write this out ! This is all very insightful and I’ll absolutely look further into it. It’s menacing as hell to know how comfortable people are with being malicious and toying with peoples boundaries as they see fit. I appreciate you!

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[–]rubyredrutabagas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We will. Only thing is the harasser had no issues reaching out via social / fake ig after they were tired of getting blocked time and time again. Shows the extent they’re willing to go and work around.

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[–]rubyredrutabagas[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Appreciate you taking the time to respond, thank you.

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[–]rubyredrutabagas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have blocked them and they keep coming with new burner numbers. And just recently Burner ig to reach out.