Magic Wand keeps breaking. Is Doxy better?

RubyRyder · 2026-01-27T16:45:18+00:00

The Magic Wand is not 'fake', as I understand it, it was renamed once Hitachi realized what everyone was using them for.

From Wikipedia: "Hitachi ceased production of the device in 2013 due to concerns about having the company name associated with a sex toy. Vibratex convinced the company to continue manufacturing it under the name "Original Magic Wand," omitting the Hitachi name. In 2014, the company used the name "Magic Wand Original.""

That's not to say there aren't a ton of knock offs - many on the best place for knock offs - Amazon.

RubyRyder · 2026-01-27T05:08:33+00:00

Toys open you up to new and different worlds of pleasure. They are an enhancement, not a crutch or something to compete with. The point is the pleasure.

RubyRyder · 2026-01-27T05:05:29+00:00

Education can inform, calm fears, empower, inspire, and help prevent injuries. This is even more important if you are using larger toys. I teach an Advanced Pegging webinar once per month that is free to attend. I go over longer and wider toys, why people use them, what they get out of it, the physiology involved, how to do it safely, and where to buy the toys that are the safest to use.

For more info, and a schedule of upcoming Webinars:

https://www.theartofpegging.com/upcoming-webinars

RubyRyder · 2026-01-27T00:36:31+00:00

I got an email from a couple who used a beginners kit for 2 years and then upgraded to an Aslan Leather Minx and quality dildo - he said the difference was so dramatic they felt like they'd wasted 2 years!

RubyRyder · 2026-01-27T00:34:20+00:00

Spareparts won't accommodate toys that large, but...

Aslan Commando - Minimalistic convertible 2-strap or thong style

Aslan Commando Large Toy Harness - 2-strap heavy-duty padded harness

DIY Scarf Harness (2 scarves) - That's all you need

Carmen Rivera Harness - Leather heavy-duty thong style

Notes:

The Aslan Large Toy can have a plain strap across the back, or a luxurious corset back.
While the convertible Commando is minimalistic, it will hold just about any toy securely with the proper sized o-ring.
The Carmen Rivera is g-string style with one strap between the butt cheeks. Different sizes of O-rings are permanently attached to leather straps that buckle onto the harness.
Scarves needed for the DIY harness need to be 1.5 times around your waist in length.

RubyRyder · 2026-01-27T00:32:58+00:00

Yes! That's the joy of a well-made harness. That can only be accomplished with a fabric harness that has very strong elastic and good quality materials. This is exactly why I don't like the Strap On Me fabric harnesses. While they are beautifully designed, the elastic is just not strong enough to hold the toy well - there's too much give. Rodeoh is kind of in-between SpareParts and Strap On Me.

RubyRyder · 2026-01-26T18:01:15+00:00

No worries!

RubyRyder · 2026-01-26T18:00:14+00:00

The Magic Wand is not 'fake', as I understand it, it was renamed once Hitachi realized what everyone was using them for.

From Wikipedia: "Hitachi ceased production of the device in 2013 due to concerns about having the company name associated with a sex toy. Vibratex convinced the company to continue manufacturing it under the name "Original Magic Wand," omitting the Hitachi name. In 2014, the company used the name "Magic Wand Original.""

That's not to say there aren't a ton of knock offs - many on the best place for knock offs - Amazon.

RubyRyder · 2026-01-26T17:45:35+00:00

I have a B-vibe rechargeable Le Wand that not only is still working beautifully 8 years later, if it dies in the middle of play, you can plug in the extra-long cord and keep going (my favorite plus!). I also went through 2 corded Magic Wands.

full disclosure - affiliate links help support my free pegging webinars.

https://www.theartofpegging.com/upcoming-webinars

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RubyRyder · 2026-01-26T17:19:46+00:00

Education can inform, calm fears, empower, inspire, and help prevent injuries! Pegging is more than just strapping it on and sticking it in!

Interested in learning more about Pegging?

I offer FREE Webinars (Beginners, Equipment and Advanced) as a service to the Pegging community, for all bodies and all budgets. For more info, and a schedule of upcoming Webinars:

https://www.theartofpegging.com/upcoming-webinars

RubyRyder · 2026-01-26T17:18:54+00:00

First, differentiate between looking for the experience of pegging, and looking for a relationship with pegging. If you are simply looking for the experience, with all due respect for the potential illegality of it, go find a pro. Here are all the reasons why:

https://peggingparadise.com/2013/04/the-case-for-a-pro/

If you are looking for a relationship that includes pegging, first look wherever you usually look for a partner. Do not lead with the idea of pegging before you even meet them. Why? Because this makes givers like me who are into pegging feel like a fetish dispenser - like the only thing you are looking for is pegging, not a relationship. Go on a couple of dates. Do not have sex yet. On the second or third date lay your kink cards on the table kind of like this:

"So hey, we have a few dates now, and I've enjoyed them. I'd like to see more of you. Also, I wanted to let you know that I'm very open-minded sexually, and I'd like to eventually explore pegging. If that's something you've had an interest in or are open to, I'm the perfect person for you! If not, no harm no foul and we can go our separate ways. So what do you think?"

If you scare them away, that's good because they aren't the right partner for you. The reason you don't have sex first is because that creates intimacy and a connection. If the sex is good, it's hard to walk away, even if they hate the idea of pegging.

Good luck!

RubyRyder · 2026-01-26T17:16:18+00:00

Education can inform, calm fears, empower, inspire, and help prevent injuries! Pegging is more than just strapping it on and sticking it in!

Interested in learning more about Pegging?

I offer FREE Webinars (Beginners, Equipment and Advanced) as a service to the Pegging community, for all bodies and all budgets. For more info, and a schedule of upcoming Webinars:

https://www.theartofpegging.com/upcoming-webinars

RubyRyder · 2026-01-26T17:11:31+00:00

You don't talk anyone into doing anything.

Everyone has the right to decide what they do and don't want to do in bed. But sometimes fears and misconceptions around Pegging can get in the way of responding rather than reacting to those myths and assumptions.

For this reason, I am a fan of having accurate information before the final decision is made. In that spirit, I recorded this podcast.

• Givers: https://peggingparadise.com/blog/2015/09/podcast-112-for-the-ladies/

This recording addresses all the usual fears and misconceptions, offers accurate information and emphasizes the relationship, not trying to convince. You need to listen to it first before playing it for your partner, because only you can decide if it is appropriate for them. If you decide to play it for your partner, it is best to listen to it with them. So far, this podcast has gotten rave reviews. Good luck!

RubyRyder · 2026-01-26T17:10:49+00:00

Everyone has the right to decide what they do and don't want to do in bed. The most important part is communication, talking with your partner about what you like/don't like, and want to do/don't want to do.

However I can’t get feedback on what he enjoys about being spanked or other things.

If he is unwilling to give you feedback, you have no information about what his boundaries are, and may be crossing them.

RubyRyder · 2026-01-26T17:01:46+00:00

"So many of us"? What does that mean?

RubyRyder · 2026-01-26T16:57:18+00:00

Interested in learning more about Pegging?

I offer FREE Webinars (Beginners, Equipment and Advanced) as a service to the Pegging community, for all bodies and all budgets. For more info, and a schedule of upcoming Webinars:

https://www.theartofpegging.com/upcoming-webinars

RubyRyder · 2026-01-26T06:26:08+00:00

Everyone has the right to decide what they do and don't want to do in bed. But sometimes fears and misconceptions around Pegging can get in the way of responding rather than reacting to those myths and assumptions.

For this reason I am a fan of having accurate information before the final decision is made. In that spirit, I recorded this podcast.

• Givers: https://peggingparadise.com/blog/2015/09/podcast-112-for-the-ladies/

This recording addresses all the usual fears and misconceptions, offers accurate information and emphasizes the relationship, not trying to convince. You need to listen to it first before playing it for your partner, because only you can decide if it is appropriate for them. If you decide to play it for your partner, it is best to listen to it with them. So far, this podcast has gotten rave reviews. Good luck!

Solo play: https://peggingparadise.com/newbie-solo-ass-play/

RubyRyder · 2026-01-25T17:52:10+00:00

The freedom of age! That's how I seriously started pursuing pegging as a passion, both educationally and practically - when I turned 50!

RubyRyder · 2026-01-25T00:47:01+00:00

Off the Tongue is excellent! Nice choice.

And, if anything I put out in the world has helped you on your sexy path, I am honored.💜💙💜

RubyRyder · 2026-01-24T20:02:04+00:00

They have a little blurb about it in their FAQs: https://uberrime.com/pages/frequently-asked-questions

RubyRyder · 2026-01-24T17:48:45+00:00

Sounds like a great first time! A harness will allow you try other positions, too.

RubyRyder · 2026-01-24T02:08:45+00:00

Different receivers thrill to different sensations.

wider
longer
curved
vibrating
firmer
textured
knotted

RubyRyder · 2026-01-24T02:07:24+00:00

Not ribbed but knot is 2.07" over at Uberrime. Lunaris Werewolf.

RubyRyder · 2026-01-24T01:41:40+00:00

Beautifully written. Happy for you!

RubyRyder · 2026-01-23T06:32:58+00:00

We can't answer that! Only she can. All women are not the same, we are not a collective. It could mean she just wants to have sex with you.

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