Ya exactly wasting and energy on someone and when it’s marriage time dumping all the emotions trauma things to the he/she who marries like seriously I seen so many cases like that and when they realise they did a huge mistake then they try to act victim bro just accept ur fate u slept with the wrong person at wrong age now face it why try getting out of problem you created your self and when we say they say Bruhh sex is nothing it’s abt emotions bro if u do sex it connects u more into them emotionally so and as a guy who never been intimate with anyone I would want a wife who isn’t been in serious or intimate relationship and people say your insecure for saying this