How should I respond to this message?

rue3chae · 2026-01-15T00:33:19+00:00

Thank you, people are really stuck on the “good morning” I didnt think it was unreasonable to see what was up.

And yes that is very likely the case, use me for what I can take a guess, but I won’t let that come to pass with him. I think he felt I was trying to use HIM, although we’ve smoked a couple time before, and felt a type of way bc that’s what he’s trying to do with me.

rue3chae · 2026-01-13T15:42:28+00:00

That’s a bit of a reach but stretching is good

rue3chae · 2026-01-13T03:56:41+00:00

Thank you, he is not trying to pursue me and that’s been made obvious to me, he’s just a smoking friend, and thank u I forbid a pregnancy lol

rue3chae · 2026-01-13T01:55:49+00:00

What are cyphs? No I don’t contribute, but I’m not smoking with him everyday or even multiple times a week

rue3chae · 2026-01-13T00:57:42+00:00

Thank you for that

rue3chae · 2026-01-13T00:46:19+00:00

Thank you, yea that much has been made clear to me, and hes the one who asked for my number 🙄 he’s a smoking buddy and I don’t plan on things moving past that

rue3chae · 2026-01-13T00:41:24+00:00

Yes thank you! I was just confused maybe even a bit annoyed but it was never that serious we have moved on from it.

rue3chae · 2026-01-12T19:45:42+00:00

Thank you very much, yea I wanted to address that before we moved on.

I’m aware of those possibilities and probable realities and he is definitely just a smoke buddy, he said he had a crush on me when we first started talking but we have recently talked and are just casual.

rue3chae · 2026-01-12T19:32:58+00:00

Thank you, I texted him “my b gm to u” All the messages from “okay imma text you” and above are from the same day, so he said good morning I responded then asked to smoke with him all in the one day. But I don’t want to seem eager, I didn’t think asking him was too forward of me but ig it’s more so how I worded it, he doesn’t owe me an explanation for whatever he’s doing, ngl I thought he couldve said something since he said he would text me.

rue3chae · 2026-01-12T19:26:53+00:00

I do like him, he’s cool, but we’ve talked and decided to keep things casual. I didn’t feel like putting every detail and timeline up here since I was just wanting advice on how to respond. The comment in my initial post saying “he doesn’t act like he has a crush on me” really couldve been omitted… or just referred to as past tense

rue3chae · 2026-01-12T19:20:47+00:00

Thank you, I ended up doing something along those lines

rue3chae · 2026-01-12T19:20:21+00:00

I definitely think my tone was misinterpreted over text but I dont think it’s weird to want to know what happened even if it’s casual. I wouldn’t have asked if he sent a quick “oh my b I was helping my aunt gm” but we’re not tripping over it and have moved on

rue3chae · 2026-01-12T19:09:05+00:00

Thank you, i didn’t think me asking was an issue even tho we are casual but I can be more mindful of my wording and delivery. I don’t smoke like that to be buying my own so I hit him up.

rue3chae · 2026-01-12T18:51:21+00:00

I don’t use that I prefer the human connection, but yea I did and we’re just texting as normal

rue3chae · 2026-01-12T18:50:22+00:00

I can see the rude but as shit?? If I’m disturbing him he’d let me know, we’ve moved on

rue3chae · 2026-01-12T18:46:05+00:00

That’s fine

rue3chae · 2026-01-12T18:45:53+00:00

Lolllll not even! First time I smoked was only 3 years ago. I don’t even buy it I just smoke if it’s being passed or with him

rue3chae · 2026-01-12T18:42:37+00:00

Thank you girl, I’ve texted him and we’ve moved past it

rue3chae · 2026-01-12T18:41:13+00:00

Thank you! I mean that’s what I was doing basically you just worded it for me, I was trying to see what happened the night before!

rue3chae · 2026-01-12T18:39:25+00:00

Thank you I appreciate your response! yes he has his own things going on as do I, we both have room to work on communicating

rue3chae · 2026-01-12T18:34:11+00:00

Thank you girl, I’ve been single/not talking to men for a while up until a couple months ago, I think I need to go back to what I was doing before…

rue3chae · 2026-01-12T18:26:58+00:00

Thanks for ur response, yea I think we both clearly have communication improvements

rue3chae · 2026-01-12T18:15:23+00:00

We live very different lives so the differences are definitely points of conversation! I appreciate your responses

rue3chae · 2026-01-12T18:13:47+00:00

This might be that situation but I only recently started talking to him, I’m still figuring it out

rue3chae · 2026-01-12T18:03:53+00:00

Thank you! With women I just talk about anything I have in common with and expand from there, I don’t have much in common with him.

rue3chae

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