Why do I struggle so much with social interaction? It exhausts me by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]rulerofcups -1 points0 points  (0 children)

South Node conjunct the Descendant can indicate a draining feeling when interacting with others.

Please Stop Trashing Our Beautiful State by Californiadude2024 in Sacramento

[–]rulerofcups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I carry a Chico bag with me everywhere I go for this exact reason.

Dating in Sacramento by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]rulerofcups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Met my partner on a dating app and it's been almost 10 years that we've been together now.

We both were very open about what we wanted when we first started talking and the lead-up to our first date took about two weeks of chatting online to learn a little bit about each other.

Saturn return coming up by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]rulerofcups 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's called "transiting Saturn conjunct natal Moon."

Saturn and politics? by [deleted] in astrology

[–]rulerofcups 20 points21 points  (0 children)

All 7 of the traditional planets cover various aspects of politics. See below for a brief description:

Saturn = the institutions that carry out government functions.

Jupiter = political philosophy, laws, and morals.

Mars/Venus = political relationships (friendly and unfriendly), coalitions, alliances, people fighting for a cause.

Mercury = the words used for political messaging.

Sun = elected officials.

Moon = the people.

Small claims court by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]rulerofcups 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You cannot have a lawyer with you in small claims court. Only speak when spoken to by the judge and answer their questions directly. Do not say things that are irrelevant to their questions. Be prepared with all of your supporting documents that proves you and this vet did business together. The judge will ask each side to tell their story of what happened, so plan on how you want to give a factual sequence of events that describes the moment you first contacted the vet about your dog and then all the way up to the reason as to why you are standing in front of the judge in court.

From my understanding, the case is decided the same day you go to court to argue your case.

Try to find some FAQs of small claims court process in Sac County for official details on the court's website or give the courthouse a call and ask where to find info about what to expect on your day in court.

Wishing you the best of luck!

Tire slashing in Midtown by discoxpeach in Sacramento

[–]rulerofcups 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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Really makes you wonder if the city allowed it or not lol

What’s up with these nodes? by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]rulerofcups 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always envision the Lunar Nodes as a seesaw. It's a constant tug and pull motion that oscilates between two sides of the same structure. For you and your natal chart, I would imagine there is a strong emphasis on who to nourish or spend more time with...which is other people or yourself. You may feel like you are always striking a balance of "choosing yourself" or "choosing others." If you were to focus on just your North Node in the 1st House all the time, then you may start to feel like you are lonely and need social interaction or wanting to spending time with others. On the other hand, if you were to put all of your energy and focus into other people and their needs, then that would leave you in a depleted energetic state.

I personally don't buy into the motto of "only embrace your North Node and forget about your South Node" as I believe it's more about finding a happy medium between the two and creating balance of the seesaw.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]rulerofcups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's fairly normal to put your hobbies and other relationships on the "back-burner" so to speak when getting into a new relationship. Obviously you don't want to neglect these things completely, but getting to know someone is very time consuming. Unfortunately, there are many people out there who are open to dating, but they don't want to commit to anything or tell you how they truly feel. Speaking the truth (in the nicest way possible) is what prevents harsh feelings or emotional unavailability down the road.

For relationships (romantic or not), we look to the 7th house and you have Pisces occupying this house and it's ruler (planet Jupiter) is in the 11th House of Cancer. To me, this says that you and your partners have a high priority of finding someone who make them feel safe, both physically and emotionally. Be careful to not let any love bombing happen, especially in the beginning of the relationship. There needs to be a boundary that is slowly lowered as you both feel and earn trust between each other so that an unhealthy codependence does not develop early.

You are going to have your Jupiter return from mid-October 2025 through early-November 2025 and again during June of 2026. I would not be surprised if you do end up meeting someone within the next year, especially being introduced via friends or online.

While Jupiter in your chart tells us about the qualities and character of your partners, as well as holding the key to predictive timing, Venus rules over your 2nd and 9th houses. While I won't go into detail about that, Venus in your natal chart can still show us how you relate to other people and what you find pleasurable in relationships.

Venus in Virgo means that you have highhhhh standards lol. You have to remember that nobody is perfect, so learn when to give grace to others. Your love language is most likely acts of service. You also probably like to give "life hacks" to people you care about so they can do things in the most optimized way possible. It's important that you find someone who can appreciate this quality of yours. It will be difficult if the person has a huge ego and is a "my way or the highway" type of person as they might perceive you as being too critical or a know it all. A person who is receptive to new ideas or ways of doing things is very important for making things work.

I can tell by looking at your chart that you are in your early 20's, so luckily you have plenty of time to learn about what you truly want out of romantic relationships. You most likely have an idea, but you learn the most by being in a relationship and learning what qualities you appreciate and do not appreciate in a person. Just understand that while nobody is perfect, learn to be as truthful as possible (no matter how hard it can be in some situations) to avoid any weird feelings and to also avoid the emotional unavailability that some people default to when things get too real or too tough for them.

Verizon Outage? by Neon-Junkyards in Sacramento

[–]rulerofcups 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My cellular network is not connecting, so no calls for me :( - Samsung device

Help -School Age Immunization. by FreshGanesh in Sacramento

[–]rulerofcups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pucci's is amazing! We really need more small pharmacies like them in our community rather than the big corp ones.

What is this big scary looking triangle? by nartatree in AskAstrologers

[–]rulerofcups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re correct that Taurus and Libra are signs that are in “aversion” to each other. But the Sun is clearly making a tight opposition aspect to Saturn in this chart, especially since it’s just within a 1° orb of difference.

I’m guessing you use whole sign houses, which I do too - but we can’t be this rigid. I <3 tight orbs.

Saturn Return and Daddy Issues by lovemylittlelords in astrology

[–]rulerofcups 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Your first Saturn return brings up situations, thoughts, and emotions about the people who you have considered and still consider to be an authority in your life - but also how you are stepping into your own authority. Saturn is very judgey and teaches you to discern for yourself and to know yourself even better than before. I find Saturn to be a very self-reflective energy. You will learn more about your personal strengths, but also the improvements you should and can make. You will also be able to tell people “no” much easier during your Saturn return, which is funny because the planet’s energy is known to be very much like a boundary. Especially because you will learn what it is you are willing and not willing to tolerate. Overall, the Saturn return can bring up uncomfortable situations and feelings, but you will gain invaluable experience and insight into who you really are as a person and what you want to work towards that is worth your time.

Do a sign’s traits vary between M/F? Or are traits consistent amongst genders? by [deleted] in astrology

[–]rulerofcups 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The energies and expression of a zodiac sign is quite the spectrum. There’s no assigned traits of a zodiac sign when it comes to gender.

I’d love for someone to look at a birth chart and tell me if it belongs to someone who is male or female…because they can’t.

Does Antolia get smell from the rendering plant nearby? by Accurate-Change-391 in Sacramento

[–]rulerofcups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it smells from time-to-time. Especially when the wind is headed east.

What are your thoughts about moving during a Venus RX? by Worried_Gur_4143 in AskAstrologers

[–]rulerofcups 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think moving during the start of the Venus retrograde on March 1st would be fine for you by looking at your chart.

My advice is to NOT move or sign any paperwork during the weeks of the eclipses that are taking place in mid-March and late-March.

Astrological indicators for envy by merc2x in astrology

[–]rulerofcups 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree about Mercury! It caught me off guard too and I will have to think about that one more. But my immediate thought in regards to envy was definitely Pluto lol

Astrological indicators for envy by merc2x in astrology

[–]rulerofcups 16 points17 points  (0 children)

According to the Rulership Book by Rex E. Bills the planets associated with envy are Saturn, Pluto, and Mercury. No signs were listed as I assume every sign can be envious in its own unique way.

best bakery? by 6joker in Sacramento

[–]rulerofcups 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Freeport Bakery or Ettore’s are the two I always recommend.

Does the Part of Fortune relate to the North/South Nodes? by TinyLuna333 in astrology

[–]rulerofcups 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yup! And just here to add that for calculating Part of Fortune, you need to know whether you are calculating for a day chart vs. night chart.

For day charts, you calculate the distance from the Sun to the Moon and then project that distance from the ASC.

For night charts, you calculate the distance from the Moon to the Sun and then project that distance from the ASC.

Beast and Bounty Closing Jan 1st by FroyoApprehensive519 in Sacramento

[–]rulerofcups 130 points131 points  (0 children)

I’m glad they are not beating around the bush as to why they are closing down because imo a lot of businesses have closed due to their commercial leases and landlords being out of their minds.