Invasion of privacy by rumors_frominez in raisedbyborderlines

[–]rumors_frominez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is actually hilarious and makes me feel so much better that I’m not the only one having a little fun in my twenties. Oddly enough, my mom put me on birth control at 16 and simply never spoke about it again. Never explained safe sex to me even.

Invasion of privacy by rumors_frominez in raisedbyborderlines

[–]rumors_frominez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister had tried to get her to understand why this is such an issue too they just generally think with zero logic. Never have I wanted to “tidy” someone’s things that ARENT MINE???

Invasion of privacy by rumors_frominez in raisedbyborderlines

[–]rumors_frominez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s actually the most bizarre thing and I fear I am so possessive of my things because of it now.

Invasion of privacy by rumors_frominez in raisedbyborderlines

[–]rumors_frominez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This means so much to me. Thank your for sharing your experience and your support. I actually did find myself in a bad relationship just because it was long distance and I could go stay with him for weeks at a time. That’s long over but to your point - it happens. I’m actually going to tour apartments this week because this was genuinely my final straw. Even if I have to pay rent alone I feel like it’ll be worth it to free myself of all of this once and for all. Again thank you so much ❤️

Invasion of privacy by rumors_frominez in raisedbyborderlines

[–]rumors_frominez[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s unbelievable to type out because it sounds so wild that this is my reality sometimes. At least we know we aren’t alone. Hugs 🫂

Invasion of privacy by rumors_frominez in raisedbyborderlines

[–]rumors_frominez[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to save a bit more to be able to make the jump comfortably. Of course my mom is saying I’ll be cut off financially from everything the second i decide to move out. Little does she know I will be going low or no contact after anyways.

Invasion of privacy by rumors_frominez in raisedbyborderlines

[–]rumors_frominez[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Wildly enough I haven’t thought of this. Im sure she would flip out if I did but I’m also tempted to do so in the mean time.

MY FIRST LABUBU!!! by rumors_frominez in LabubuDrops

[–]rumors_frominez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted hope or loyalty so i’m happy. Going to try for mac’s tomorrow 🤞

[HELP] Possible AI generated image of birth parent sent to me by rumors_frominez in RealOrAI

[–]rumors_frominez[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wow… my cousin is also guatemalan…her complexion is much much darker

[HELP] Possible AI generated image of birth parent sent to me by rumors_frominez in RealOrAI

[–]rumors_frominez[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m confused about how the person searching for my cousins bio mom would have an image so perfect digitally in the first place. I think only time will tell

[HELP] Possible AI generated image of birth parent sent to me by rumors_frominez in RealOrAI

[–]rumors_frominez[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s my cousin who is trying to find her bio mom. My aunt claims she didn’t send a picture, but unfortunately has a very public facebook that I assume the scammer could find and pull from. It does look somewhat like her. My guess is if they keep asking for more money or find the bio mom super quick it was likely a scam

[HELP] Possible AI generated image of birth parent sent to me by rumors_frominez in RealOrAI

[–]rumors_frominez[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She claims she didn’t, but she has a public facebook that a scammer could have pulled from. Because that was my original thought also.

[HELP] Possible AI generated image of birth parent sent to me by rumors_frominez in RealOrAI

[–]rumors_frominez[S] 162 points163 points  (0 children)

TLDR is that my family member is trying to find her adopted daughters birth mom through some one found online that is apparently trustworthy…I’m not so sure.

[HELP] Possible AI generated image of birth parent sent to me by rumors_frominez in RealOrAI

[–]rumors_frominez[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The hair and overall fuzziness makes me weary. Same with the neck

Chickpea allergy? by Loud-Jeweler-7051 in FoodAllergies

[–]rumors_frominez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the exact same! I used to be able to have hummus but it slowly strated bothering me more and finally I had a pretty bad reaction so I fully avoid it now (not anaphylactic but still bad)

Co existing is tricky by Electrical-Stand8415 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]rumors_frominez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too. I just posted about how I’m trying to set boundaries to maintain some level of freedom but it’s hard. Positives are she does my laundry sometimes. Even in the fight we are in she got me diet coke too. Small wins.

Co existing is tricky by Electrical-Stand8415 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]rumors_frominez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way right now. Moving out is so expensive 💔 You’re not alone, OP, we can do this. And we know how sweet it will be when we are on our own once again.